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In terms of educating children, Mr. Lu Xun believes that in order to educate children well, we must first respect and understand children, "If you don't understand first, you will blindly do it, which will hinder the development of children." ”
Once, the husband had a banquet at home, and his son Haiying was at the same table. When eating the fish balls, the guests say that they are fresh and delicious. Wei Haiying said:
Mom, the fish balls are sour! The mother, who thought that the child was talking nonsense, blamed a few words, and the child was unhappy. After Lu Xun heard this, he tasted the fish ball that Haiying had bitten, and it was really not very fresh, so he said with emotion:
It's not right for the child to say that it's not new, and we don't check it out, so it's not right, it seems that we also have to respect what the child says! ”
There is a story about a New York businessman who saw a ragged pencil salesman, and out of pity, he gave the man a dollar, and after a while, he returned, took out a few pencils from the pen, and apologized that he had forgotten to take the pen, and finally said:"You and I are both merchants, and you have something to sell.
A few months later, they met again, and the pen seller had become a promoter, and thanks to the New York businessman"You gave me back your self-esteem and told me that I was a businessman. "
Respect for life, respect for others, and respect for one's own life is an accompaniment to the process of life and a condition for mental health. — Flåm.
Be respectful of other people's opinions. Don't say, "You're wrong. —Dale Carnegie.
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1.A little story of respect for others around you!
I once heard a story like this:
When a merchant sees a pencil salesman in ragged clothes, he feels pity. Without thinking, he shoved the 10 yuan into the pencil seller's hand and walked away without looking back. After walking a few steps, he suddenly felt that it was inappropriate to do so, so he hurriedly returned, and apologized that he had forgotten to take the pen, and hoped that he would not mind.
Finally, he said solemnly: "You, like me, are businessmen. ”
A year later, at a warm and solemn social occasion where businessmen gathered, a personable salesman in a suit and leather shoes greeted the businessman and introduced himself gratefully: "You may have forgotten me a long time ago, and I don't know your name in Okiho, but I will never forget you." You are the one who has given me back my self-esteem and self-confidence.
I always thought I was a beggar selling pencils until you told me that I was a businessman like you. ”
Unexpectedly, such a simple sentence from a businessman made a person with low self-esteem suddenly establish self-esteem, and made a person in an embarrassed situation regain his self-confidence. It is with this kind of self-esteem and self-confidence that he sees his own value and advantages, and finally succeeds through hard work. It is not difficult to imagine that if there had not been such a word of respect and encouragement at the beginning, even if he had been given a few thousand yuan, it would have been useless, and there would never have been a great change from self-esteem and self-improvement to self-confidence.
This is respect, this is the force of respect!
Respect for others is respect for yourself!
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