Grasp yourself and respect the composition of others

Hand left a lingering fragrance. "For example, if you don't trample on the lawn, it will give you back a shade of green; If you study hard, then you will naturally get good grades; If you care for others, then you will be loved by others.

The premise of respecting others is to know how to respect yourself. Respecting oneself is a bottom line in life, a highlight of life, and self-esteem is priceless. A person who knows self-esteem, his cultivation is extremely high, and it is natural.

Some people say: to respect others is to respect oneself; Some people say: those who respect themselves will also respect others; Some people say:

Those who respect others are respected by others. Respect is a sincere smile on the face; Respect is listening when others express different opinions; Respect is to applaud the efforts of others. Respect seems to be just a dedication to the people around you.

We have all been educated by "Kong Rong Rang Pear" since childhood, and we all know that we must give up our seats to the elderly on the bus, and we can't laugh at and ridicule the disabled. Such a theory sometimes seems very unreasonable, why do you eat small pears when you are young? Why do I have to give up my seat if I'm already tired?

Why can't you just say what comes to mind? In fact, the real truth is here: respect for others is respect for yourself.

There is a saying that "vote for me with a peach, and repay it with Qiong Yao", which means that if someone else gives me a peach, I will use Qiong Yao as a return. The so-called exchange of courtesies, in human society, you will have a return for a penny, no more, no less, one day it will be realized. It's the rule.

Rules are equal for most people most of the time, so your respect and politeness to others will leave a good impression on them, and they will treat you the way you do. It's not that there are no such counterexamples, how have you ever seen a cynical mad boy with no one in his eyes win the respect of others from the bottom of his heart? At most, he uses his own "rebellion" and "difference" to attract the curious eyes of the public.

Respect is a kind of great wisdom, and because we know it, we are compassionate. It is not difficult to respect the similarities between others and oneself, and the excitement of meeting a bosom friend is enough to cover the ordinary light of "respect". The difficulty is to respect the differences between others and oneself.

You think that smoking is harmful to health and pollutes the environment, but he sees it as a kind of adjustment, he said that life should be aggressive, fresh and intense, and you only want to be plain, peaceful, and comfortable for a lifetime, everyone is not the same, there are thousands of differences, respect is to keep their own life creed, and from an objective point of view, with an appreciative eye to see each other, not demanding the same, but facing the differences. Therefore, those who know how to respect others have understood the great wisdom of life. Therefore, the posture is elegant and the demeanor is calm, because there is enough self-confidence to support oneself and enough tolerance to look at others.

Therefore, it will be respected by others, because the noble and peaceful atmosphere exuded by its body is really attractive to people. Respect makes people feel good and breathe well, respect can change strange or sharp relationships, and if there is enough respect for each other, war is not inevitable. The ancients said that those who love others will always love them, and those who value others will always respect them.

Respect is not just something to be seen by others.

No one doesn't want to be respected, but not everyone understands respect. As everyone knows, only by knowing how to respect others can we win the respect of others.

A successful woman who became a manager told her story of how her son asked to buy her a soccer ball to play with friends a few years ago as a part-time worker for a company with a low salary. The mother struggled to explain to her son the difficulties of her lack of money.

Soon her boss found out about this and gave her a brand new soccer ball and said, "We can't pay you more, but you can understand that your place in our hearts is important." Touched by these respectful words, the woman dedicated all her talents to the company and eventually became a manager.

Yes, any successful entrepreneur, from Konosuke Matsushita to Zhang Ruimin, will always respect employees and subordinates as the foundation of the business, they know very well how much respect the boss gives to his subordinates, then how much respect his subordinates will give to the boss. The same principle applies not only to running a business, but also to everything that everyone interacts with. When you show respect to others, they will feel that they have a place in your heart and that they are important to you.

And in this case, who is not grateful for this, except for a very small number of despicable villains, and does not regard him as a friend who can be trusted? Parents respect their children's choices, and children can understand their parents' painstaking efforts; The students respect the teacher's labor, and the teacher sincerely teaches the student all knowledge; Merchants respect the pickiness of consumers, and consumers have real trust in them. Respect others for a point and get ten points in return.

Some people don't know how to respect others and take for granted everything they do for them. For these people, perhaps only when they lose the respect of others can they understand the value of respecting others. Last year, the ** department of a city in the south made a decision:

All sanitation workers have a two-day holiday. As a result, the city's usual clean appearance is gone, and piles and patches of garbage are everywhere. Two days later, there was a noticeable decrease in the amount of littering among the citizens, and they all said:

I usually don't respect the hard work of sanitation workers, but now I finally know the value of respect. Yes, if you don't know how to respect others, you won't be able to gain the respect of others, and in the end you can only move an inch.

When we pay for the taxi, say thank you; When we finish the performance, give a little more applause; When the hotel doorman opened the door for us, he ...... with a smileLearn to be respectful! When each of us knows how to respect others, our lives will be more harmonious.