Why are many people gullible when it comes to online dating?

With the development of society, criminals will also escalate various fraud methods. Including through online dating, defrauding feelings with a false identity, and then committing fraud. So why do so many people fall for it?

Through the regular ** provided by netizens, so let down their vigilance. In fact, there will be some criminals who fish in troubled waters and register with a false identity, the purpose of which is to achieve the means of fraud.

There are also identities that are real, but dating and falling in love are fake, and cheating money is real. After criminals deceive their feelings through means, they will often ask for red envelopes for various reasons, and gradually develop into loans, so we must be vigilant against being deceived.

Often in the process of contact, when the other party asks for money for various reasons, they will be embarrassed to refuse because the parties want to save face. Then there is the fear of showing his insincerity and stinginess for this reason, and hurting his feelings. There is also the fact that I was deceived because I didn't have much money and didn't care about waiting.

But maybe you don't know. **Will "fall in love" with multiple people at the same time, and defraud with the same means, which adds up.

Some dating is that two people have not met yet, and they will be scammed. There are also those who feel real after meeting, so they let down their guard and believe it, so they are deceived.

So what kind of people are easily deceived? One is because of busy work and stress, and there has been no chance of falling in love and getting married. This kind of person is generally not in love or has a short love history, and is older and unmarried.

Through online acquaintances, I felt that I had met a more ideal object, so I relaxed my vigilance.

Introduction: In real life, we often find it difficult to grasp our feelings, sometimes because of the long-term loneliness in our hearts, resulting in us once we meet a good person of the opposite sex, we feel as if we have met love, but in fact it is not the case, maybe it is only because we are too eager to get, we will lose the ability to judge whether to judge or not.

1.Online dating can produce real feelings, but the chances are slim.

Why do most people choose to retreat when they encounter online dating? There are too many uncertain factors in online dating, whether it is the age and height of the other party, or the personality in reality, it may not be what we imagined. Just by chatting online, it is not enough to say that the other party's feelings for us are 100%, and even in reality we are not sure, so what reason do we have to convince ourselves to believe in the Internet.

In fact, there are many incidents of online scams, and who of us can be sure that we are not scammed? It is obviously unwise to place your emotions completely on the Internet, after all, the final foothold of online dating is still reality, and we have to meet after all.

2.If you decide to go online, do so as soon as possible.

Online dating is not impossible, but it is obviously not enough if we only get to know each other through online chat. Now that we've decided to be together, let's meet sooner! The advantage of meeting is that you can understand the real situation of the other party in advance, and also avoid both parties wasting too much time on the wrong relationship.

3.In fact, there have been heartbeats in online dating, but heartbeats are not necessarily love.

Our chats with each other are based on textual expressions, which does not represent the real psychology of the other party at that time, most of them process the words by themselves and form an ideal state for the other party. When we see the true face of the other party, the sense of loss and inner gap will come up all of a sudden, instantly turning all the good imagination of the past into nothing, and finally hurting ourselves.

4.Love actually happens in everyday life.

When we value an emotion too much, the easier it is to lose it. A lot of romance happens inadvertently, the person who has it doesn't feel good, and the person who loses it knows how to cherish it, online dating is not undesirable, it just needs to be treated correctly, it's just the way we know the other half, a medium, not all. Similarly, no matter what the situation is, we should keep our original intention, don't let life paralyze ourselves, make ourselves lose our direction, isn't your most precious thing that is innocent and innocent?

Those who are severely lacking in love".

Many of us have more or less lack of love, after all, happy original families and childhood experiences are a minority, but if there is a severe lack of love, there will be many problems, for example, this kind of people have an obsession with "love" and its attention and love, which is beyond ordinary people. And it is precisely because of such a strong obsession. It makes it almost impossible for them to manage a relationship, and at the same time it is possible for them to close themselves off from all uncertain and potential dangers.

The most afraid is that if there is such a person, at a coincidental point in time, the two met and communicated, and felt that this person "understood" her very much, and they could talk together. It's like the "soul mate" sent down from heaven

Then the other party gives her a little sweetness, sweet words or "painting a big cake", and this side will almost fall into continuous investment, not hesitating to go bankrupt. It's a pity that there are professionals on the other side, and this side is a simple white rabbit, and he will inevitably lose very badly.

2.Take chances.

We may all have heard of the experience of a relative or friend who has been subjected to "fraud", but most of us still naturally feel that it is almost impossible for this to happen to us. Without experiencing these things, many people may judge these things from the perspective of a bystander and use simplistic thinking.

For example, if you think that these people are cheap, they have these unrealistic ideas about getting rich overnight because they are greedy for small and cheap, so they will give ** a chance to take advantage of it. These ideas seem to be correct, but if you want to analyze the logic behind them in depth, it is actually very imprecise. It is also very hasty to make such a judgment without understanding the origin of the incident and without bringing it into the victim's situation.

And when this kind of person falls into the **, it is easy to fall into this simple normalization model that he gives himself to rationalize these behaviors. For example, it has been reported in the news before that when the police went to arrest the fraud gang, those victims who were deceived still believed that ** was a good person.

3.There is little love experience and immaturity, especially for single young women.

This refers to those who have never been in a relationship much, and also those who have experienced marriage. They are more yearning for simple love. The main manifestation of mental immaturity is that they can't accept that they are just an "ordinary person's setting".

If you have listened to my audio class, you may know that one of my views is that the essence of "love" is human nature and interests, and the campus love in youth may still be a little simple, and there will be almost no pure love after leaving the campus. This must be mixed with all kinds of pressure and time grinding, and there is no way to say where the relationship between the two has gone, and it will be happy once and for all. In addition, this kind of people generally have a strong need for starting a family, on the one hand, they are forced by the pressure of family and society, and on the other hand, they also want to find companionship or dependence.

And these beautiful fantasies only exist in fairy tales. Those ** will most use the fantasies of these older single young people to tell them all kinds of stories.

"Have you ever been in an online dating? ”

Have you ever been cheated on online dating? ”

The term online dating must be familiar to everyone, and there are many people around me who have this experience. Everyone knows that compared with ordinary love, online dating is actually more risky, and it is not strange to be deceived in online dating. So, let's talk about what kind of people are easy to be deceived in online dating?

Figure 1 Online dating.

Before I get into that, I'd like to talk about the type of person who is usually prone to online dating. The first type is the kind of otaku and otaku, who are usually reluctant to go out to socialize, but still have emotional needs, and in this case they generally tend to online dating. The second type is out of an inferiority complex, thinking that there is no market in real life, so they devote themselves to the Internet, using the virtuality and unreality of the Internet to reach the woman who makes friends.

Of course, I'm not saying that online dating is inferior to offline love, and online dating also has a love that is pleasing to both parties. Here is just to say that in general, what kind of people will be easy to online dating.

Figure 2 Inner inferiority.

After understanding what types of people are easy to fall in online dating, the question of what types of people are easy to be deceived is solved. Characteristics such as simple personality, lack of involvement in the world, low self-esteem, and greed for small and cheap may be used by people with good intentions and then deceived.

Figure 3 Online dating scams.

With the development of the information age, there are more and more Internet fraud methods, and it is particularly important to stick to your beliefs and treat the Internet with a healthy and objective attitude! Okay, that's my point of view, I think it makes sense, please support me.

In recent years, there are not a few girls who have been defrauded because of online dating, and there are even some celebrities among them. is like a certain debate queen, who is quick to think and eloquent in the show, and has also exposed the news of transferring money to online dating partners within a few hours of meeting. A well-informed woman like her has been deceived, let alone other ordinary people.

The reason why so many girls fall into the trap of online dating may be the following reasons!

The first reason is that there are many people who are desperately lacking in love. They tend to be very independent or older single marital people who are very eager for love. But the ideal is very plump, the reality is very skinny, and there is no way to get your ideal love in life, evenSome people are originally muddy in real life, and they will look for it in other ways.

Nowadays, online dating provides a new channel for everyone, and there will indeed be people who find their true love here, but there are also people who take advantage of these people's extreme lack of love psychology and carefully compile psychological and economic online dating**.

The second reason is that more and more people will be blindly confident. Although it is not uncommon to see news of being deceived in online dating, some people feel that they will not be easily fooled, or in their minds, they are a very rational and intelligent person, so they also think that their feelings can be controlled. Caring people will take advantage of this weakness of blind confidence and defraud them step by step.

In particular, some people are more brave in their love life, once they fall into a relationship, they will trust their other half very much and can't listen to the persuasion of the people next to them. When his other half asks him for help, he will also be wholeheartedly, and this is the purpose of many **.

The third reason is that many online dating** are planned and organized. I remember seeing from a news that many people have studied the pig killing plate of online dating**, and the methods of deception in it are really shocking. The manipulators in these online dating**, most of which are hidden in Southeast Asian countries, are a very large organization, and they have industrialized the operation of fraud, and every step is well thought out.

Their routines are unguardable, there was once a victim who exposed the ** trick, I didn't think the other party directly admitted it, and said that I had to join this fraud gang in order to help my family pay off their debts, and I wanted to run away after doing these things, and finally the girl cheated away 20,000 yuan of escape fees.

Therefore, online dating is risky, and you need to be cautious when investing. Of course, it cannot be denied that some online dating is very sweet, but once it involves the economy, it is necessary to be cautious. Recently, there is an anti-fraud app, which I personally think is still very useful, add a layer of protection to your online life!

In recent years, many girls and boys have fallen into online dating**. There are risks associated with going online, and online dating needs to be cautious. Let's break down the specific reasons.

Most people are in an extremely loveless family of origin, eager to be loved, insecure, always want to be made up for in the other half, and it is we who demand that the other party do well. However, no matter how much love you lack, you also need to keep your eyes open!

Girls are more empathetic. Many girls are actually pure and kind in their hearts. Think that the other person will not cheat on themselves, whether it is to cheat money or feelings.

It's the same with boys. To be able to make money for each other must be something that can only be done by people who attach great importance to their feelings. The sky has eyes, how can such a kind person be deceived?

Gang crime. We all know that the formal ones are called teams, and the illegal ones are called gangs. Gangs generally refer to groups that know the law and break the law and take risks.

They are often more deceptive and demagoguery, cunning, and have a strong sense of insight into human nature and anti-detection. There are also many of them who are powerful. A veteran with many years of experience in the rivers and lakes, rich experience, and deception.

Do whatever is more dangerous. Such a person is extremely terrifying.

The state is not cracking down enough. Cybersecurity has become more in need of better management in recent years. The Internet itself has many vulnerabilities and problems that need to be fixed. This aspect also needs to be strengthened.