There are many pitfalls in the chaos of dating on social platforms, how can you avoid being deceived

<>I am 42 years old and a white-collar worker in the company. I met a young man online and was defrauded of 250,000. I still can't forget him, I don't know what to do.

I am 42 years old and divorced once. Working in a company in Beijing, with a monthly salary of 20,000, life is okay. It's just that I feel lonely.

I signed up for a city dating**. Uploaded my**. See if you can find the right person on it.

When I went to bed at night, someone literally sent me a message. Can you talk about beautiful women? I also saw this young man, who looked pretty good, and I wanted to tease him.

He also praised me for being beautiful, **, with a good figure, his mouth is really sweet, and he is a chef. We talked all night that night.

Be sure to improve your anti-fraud ability, don't trust the other party, try not to have money with others, don't give personal information to others at will, if the other party says that he is a soldier, he must beware of being deceived, and don't trust the military ID provided by the other party.

When making friends on social platforms, you must understand what kind of person the other party is, and don't tell the other party your details, you should keep an eye on it, and you can understand what kind of person he is from the way he speaks when you speak, especially when the other party borrows money from you or asks you to spend money, you should be brave to refuse at this time, so as to avoid being deceived.

1.Confirm identity: When receiving any request for money, you must first verify your true identity and relevant information with the other party, and pay attention to leaving information such as the way of the joint and the other party's ID number.

2.Don't easily disclose personal information: Do not disclose important information such as personal account password, ID number, bank card number and so on the network or ** to avoid being deceived.

3.Be wary of high-risk places: Be especially vigilant in high-risk places such as banks and ATMs, and don't be pulled by strangers to talk.

4.Establish a relationship of trust: Establish a stronger connection with family and friends, especially by using more phone calls and other ways to better understand each other, so as to establish a relationship of trust and effectively reduce the risk.

5.Verification before payment: Before any transaction, carefully verify the name of the receiving account and whether it is clearly identified with the other party, so as not to be deceived in the end.

6.Anti-fraud attention: Once you find that you have been deceived, report to the police in time and negotiate with the local public security department to deal with it. At the same time, information such as ** number and medium model suspected of deception is collected in order to assist the public security organs in their detection work.

Learn about the most common scams on the web.

Choose regular ** dating.

There are a lot of dating platforms that can be provided, but there are very few formal ones. In order to make money, many people will connive at doing evil in **. You choose to make friends, not to see**how formal you are, you don't blindly believe in some large or famous**, large or famous is not necessarily very formal, you had better consult with friends or search on the Internet to find out whether the ** is formal.

If most of them say regular**, you are worth choosing.

Participate in regular dating activities.

Nowadays, there are many kinds of dating activities. When you go to a friendship event, keep your eyes peeled, too. Some event organizers, in order to make money, may ask some people to act.

The mentality of making friends must be correct.

Make friends with a normal heart, don't be in a hurry, and don't worship money excessively. Feelings are not in a hurry, and many times they are very particular about fate. If you are in a hurry, it is easy to be taken advantage of; If you blindly worship money excessively, pursue money too much, and like to be greedy for small gains, it is also easy to be taken advantage of.

In the process of dating, more than 60% of those who are deceived are because they are in a hurry or worship money excessively.

Have a sense of vigilance against others.

As the saying goes: the heart of defense is indispensable. It's especially important to be defensive when dating online.

When it is difficult to distinguish between the real and the false on the Internet, you must learn to observe the face, learn to analyze the behavior of the other party, and don't trust anyone. Feelings are a thing that can easily confuse people, and you must always be defensive and vigilant; Otherwise, once you are carried away by love, it is easy to be taken advantage of by **.

In life, many people often envy those who can speak well, and always feel that it is a pleasant thing to be able to speak and dare to speak. But if a person always talks about himself and basically talks about his own affairs, then this kind of person is more selfish. They talk to themselves and just want more attention.

If he can take into account the feelings of others while speaking, and can form good communication, then such a person is still worth associating.

See if he is positive or negative.

It is relatively easy to judge about positive and negative energy, that is, in the process of talking to a person, whether he is always active, whether he uses more positive words, if so, it at least means that he is an infectious, positive, and positive person. The opposite of positive energy is those who have negative energy, and people with negative energy can be contacted but not deeply acquainted, unless you have strong energy yourself.

Look at whether he is a man of action or a word of words.

Action-oriented, strong execution, quick response, quick and fast, leaders especially like this type. On the contrary, the verbal faction often promises to be good, but it is unwilling to act, with serious procrastination, until the last moment, it is still trying to get through the tricks, such a verbal faction is really useless, and it is better not to communicate.

Look at what kind of people are closest to him.

As the saying goes, things gather by like, and people are grouped. This statement actually makes a lot of sense. Therefore, it is the best way to get to know a person and look at the people around him.

If the people around him are harmonious and friendly, I believe he will definitely be no worse; If the people close to him are harsh and demanding, over time, he will become like that.

Clause. 1. Try to associate with people who have passed the identity verification;

Clause. 2. Try to feel each other first through chat and language;

Clause. Third, it is to think that tentative questions are based on the other party's first reaction;

Clause. Fourth, through the attitude of the other party's friends and colleagues, understand the other party's character;

Clause. 5. Remember that real friends will not easily ask you to borrow money or things.

You should be cautious in your dealings with him. No. Let your guard down.

He asked you to borrow so much money, it can't be a one-time loan, he borrowed money from you many times. The country's radio and newspapers repeatedly propagated it, didn't you pay attention to these things? So.

In the future, if you encounter this situation, you must be. Look around the corner. This kind of thing happened not once in our country, and it was promoted more than once by national radio newspapers.

Let's take these lessons.

If you want to avoid being deceived when making friends, you need to have a very good mechanism for observing each other.

To respect others is to respect yourself. The first thing that friends can't do in their interactions is to respect each other, including respecting each other's privacy, respecting each other's preferences, respecting each other's feelings, and so on.

Friends should get along with each other to a certain degree. Whether it is getting along with friends of the same sex or friends of the opposite sex, there should be a degree and not cross the line between two people, especially when getting along with friends of the opposite sex.

To make friends, you must recognize the character of the other party. The reason why human beings want to make friends is because human beings live in groups, and only by making friends with people with similar interests can they live up to the nature of human social life.

Raise your awareness of precautions. I believe that the famous saying "pie will not fall from the sky", as long as this sentence is heard, it will greatly reduce Qishan and be less deceived. 1.

Protect personal information: Do not post sensitive information on the Internet or social media, such as ID numbers, banks, etc. Avoid providing personal information on untrusted **or social** platforms to avoid being stolen by criminals.

2.Raise awareness of cyber security: Be vigilant and don't click on unfamiliar links, unfamiliar files or software. Use strong passwords and change them regularly. Do not use unsecured Wi-Fi networks in public places.

3.Be wary of online scams: Don't trust information from unknown sources, such as fake promotions, **, giveaways, etc. Don't believe in fake investments, financial management, etc., so as not to be deceived.

4.Strengthen security awareness education: Parents and schools should strengthen security awareness education to help young people identify and avoid issues such as online fraud, and improve cyber security awareness.

5.Report and report cybercrime: If you find yourself the victim of an online fraud or other cybercrime, you should report and report it promptly so that appropriate action can be taken.

Here's how:1Never trust the requests of strangers, even if they claim to be family or friends.

2.If someone claims to be a relative or friend, but exhibits unusual behavior or language, they can be personally identified by ** or other means.

3.Do not give any personal or sensitive information to strangers. Personal information such as birthday, address, and social security number is often asked.

5.Install anti-spam and anti-malware software to protect against phishing and malware attacks.

6.Be aware of your cybersecurity, change your passwords regularly, and avoid using sensitive information on public networks.