How to educate children well

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Educating good children is a goal that every parent knows Hu does not hope to achieve, and there are some practical suggestions to do it:

Establish a good parent-child relationship: Establishing an intimate relationship with your child is the foundation of education, and parents should give their children enough attention, understanding and support to develop their children's self-esteem and confidence.

Establish positive values: Parents should lead their children to establish positive values, educate them to embrace positive qualities such as honesty, tolerance, and helpfulness, and oppose negative behaviors such as deception, violence, and selfishness.

Provide a good learning environment: Education and learning are essential parts of a child's growth. Parents can provide a high-quality learning environment and rich learning resources for their children, so that children can develop good study habits from an early age.

Establish clear rules and discipline: Clear rules and discipline can help children establish the right rules of conduct, understand what is right and what is wrong, and provide children with the necessary guidance and restraint to prevent them from going in the wrong direction.

Positive motivation and praise: Parents should actively give encouragement and praise when their children achieve achievements and progress, so that children feel that their efforts and efforts are recognized, which can stimulate their enthusiasm and further improve their learning motivation.

The above are some basic suggestions for educating children well, of course, each child is unique, and the specific education method should be different from person to person, according to the child's personality and characteristics to develop an education plan that is suitable for them.

Cultivate children to be independent, optimistic, and loving from an early age, and the children will not be bad.

1. Master the psychology of children and know themselves and their opponents

To educate children, we should study the psychology of children, but also study the behavior and psychology of children, have a good communication with children, listen carefully to children's needs, and not blindly express their own requirements to children.

Second, the combination of rewards and punishments, yin and yang

A good child is praised, and no matter how ignorant a child is, he also wants to hear praise and good words, of course, everything must be moderate, and if he is too full, he will lose. Don't criticize your child in front of others, children will still have self-esteem even though they are young, and they don't want their parents to talk about their mistakes in front of others.

3. Control your emotions

Children always rely on their parents, with their parents as the backbone, when they are angry, they must also control their anger, and they must not beat their children angrily when they are angry.

4. Be a role model for your children

Parents are their children's first teachers and have more influence than anyone else. Therefore, when parents do anything, they should think about whether their behavior and speech are appropriate and whether it will have a negative impact on their children. Many people will think that children can't understand so much, but in fact, children's learning ability is the best, he may not understand what you mean but he will copy your behavior, and over time, he will not dare to think about it.

First, let's talk about the failures:

1.Lack of correct long-term planning and short-term planning, lack of sense of purpose.

2. Plans cannot be executed well, and parents are unwilling to sacrifice their entertainment and social time to accompany their children.

3. Unable to provide children with an excellent learning environment and atmosphere. You can't lead by example and watch TV on your phone in front of your child.

4. Unwilling to grow up with children, little or even nothing about the knowledge points of children's subjects and semesters, unable to supervise and tutor.

5. Unwilling to maintain long-term communication and exchanges with teachers and other experienced people.

In fact, the top students are created through diligence and hardship, only by listening attentively in class, meticulously brushing questions after class, forming a complete knowledge system, cultivating rigorous, systematic and precise thinking, and accumulating over time, quantitative changes cause qualitative changes. Parents are the guides and supervisors of their children's attitudes and states of learning.

In short, the root cause of the failure of family education lies in the lack of cognitive ability and executive ability of parents.

Second, the success:

1. Non-utilitarian love. Parents give their children unutilitarian and unconditional love. At the same time, it is necessary to tell children that unconditional love and unprincipled doting are actually completely different.

2. Words are not as good as teaching by example Parents' words and deeds have a subtle impact on children.

3. It is necessary to encourage or praise the children's efforts, and the things that are really done well must be praised or applauded, but try not to praise the children for being smart, and don't praise them for everything, otherwise the children will be disappointed in the future.

4. "Parents should not disturb in the name of love", for example, if the child is playing with toys, the parents will let them drink water, eat something, do this, and do that. When he grows up, this child doesn't have enough concentration.

5. Work hard from the roots. It is indeed not easy to raise children and raise children well, and it requires love, patience, and wisdom.

Parents must take the lead, play an exemplary role, pay attention to their words and deeds, don't talk too loudly at home, don't throw garbage anywhere, don't speak with dirty words, don't be inconsistent with words and deeds, don't be inconsistent with words and deeds, don't have different hearts and minds, etc.

Lead by example. Teach yourself by word and deed and then ask your children to do it.