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Anonymous users2024-02-12Everyone is inevitably bumpy in the process of growing up, no one is born mature, some mistakes made when they were young, and they will regret it after understanding, I have summarized five truths that I can't wait to know in advance, hoping to avoid some mistakes for latecomers.
1. Always remember to restrain your temper, the more incompetent a man is, the greater his temper.
This sentence was later heard from my mother, and I felt that it made sense, a man with the ability to be bold and not easily angry, and in the same way, people who are always angry are generally not happy in life, so they will take their resentment of life on others.
In the wee hours of last night, a middle-aged couple was arguing loudly downstairs where I lived, and the man used a lot of foul language against his wife, so loud that the whole street could hear it, and finally even the police car came.
Through the content of their quarrel, it was learned that the man's wife and her younger brother went to KTV to sing, and the man rushed to beat his wife, and said so many unbearable words, and the wife's younger brother was not angry for her, so he quarreled with the man. The wife and brother accuse the man of having no career and being idle all day long.
This confirms the truth that the more incompetent a man is, the greater his temper. I think men can be less successful for a while, but they must have a good temper, and people with a bad temper are not destined to achieve much.
2. Love someone with dignity and don't grovel and beg for love.
I used to hear a lot of poisonous chicken soup, and I thought that if I loved someone, I would have to stalk him, but in fact, the result would only be counterproductive. Love has never been obtained by begging, but by mutual attraction, what kind of person looks for what kind of partner, if the person you like looks down on you, find the reason from yourself, is your own condition does not meet her requirements? If yes, then improve yourself as soon as possible.
When you are good enough, you will find that the road to a relationship has become much smoother, because you have enough attraction that you are no longer one person chasing one person, but two people are close to each other.
If you don't get a response from someone you love, keep your distance with dignity and wait until you're strong and the time is ripe before pursuing.
3. If you are not satisfied with your current job, please find a good job change partner before leaving!
This truth has been learned through the bitter lessons I have personally experienced. When I was working in Shenzhen, I was not very satisfied with my job, and whimsically felt that it was not difficult to find a job, so I quickly submitted my resignation, but for a long time there was no job and no income, and my life was extremely miserable.
Later, whenever I had the idea of resigning, I would interview with the company first, and the resignation procedures here would be completed, and the employment procedures would be completed there, so I didn't have to worry about the "window period" of my career. And there is a reason attached: monthly salaryMostlyIt is through job hopping, please remember that it is the majority, if there is no ambition and ability, it is better to hold the iron rice bowl in An An.
As a person born in the 80s and at the beginning of the 90s, there are many times when I really want to be born a few years later, when I was in junior high school, there were two middle schools in the town at that time, one was relatively good, and the other was very poor, and I was lucky to be admitted to that good school. At that time, the tuition fee for junior high school was very difficult for my family, because my sister and I were two years apart, and she was also in junior high school at that time, and the high tuition fee added a lot of foreign debts to my family, which was not wealthy. When my neighbor's sister goes to junior high school, she doesn't have to take the junior high school exam, she can choose by herself, and the key tuition fees are not so much, and I don't have to pay so much tuition if I am a few years late.
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