Parents always say, Is it wrong that I care about you?

1) It's not that your parents don't understand you, but they really care about you too much. Some overdo it.

2) In the small things on weekdays, show good self-care skills, and gain the trust of parents little by little. After all, they mean good to you, and if you go too extreme, you may end up destroying the family.

In fact, you calm down and think about why they are like this. It's not that I'm not worried about you. As you gradually show self-confidence, self-reliance, and self-care, they will really feel at ease.

Arguing and reasoning with them, in their opinion, can really show that you are naïve and ignorant. Regardless of whether what they tell is right or wrong, you just need to listen, as long as it is right, you can do it generally, if there is a problem, you can pay attention to it on the spot, go back and explain that this is an emergency, and the parents will not say anything, maybe they will be very happy, and slowly admit your ability to do things.

I think this is the key to really unlocking the cage of parents' doting.

3) Actually, it's not wronged, it's just that you don't understand your parents' position, and the next time you think about it, the result may be very different.

In fact, the root cause is yourself, don't blame everything on your parents, you can become proactive, where you have your own opinions, your parents may oppose it, then it depends on your own willpower. There are things you can negotiate with your parents, talk to them about the relationship, of course, sometimes parents will blindly insist on their own opinions, at this time it depends on your own attitude, if you are refuted once, you will always have no position of your own in the future.

Yes, but there is a generation gap between us, isn't it, maybe as others say, we can only understand their pains until we become parents.

That's because your parents care about you, and you pity the hearts of parents all over the world.

Summary. When mom is good and says whether you care about mom and dad or not, it means that you don't care about your parents. Of course you can care.

When mom is good and says whether you care about mom and dad or not, it means that you don't care about your parents. Of course you can care.

I'm still a little confused, can you be more detailed?

Mom should have questioned your behavior, thinking that you don't care about Mom and Dad, so you ask like this, if you don't care, it will make Mom feel disappointed and sad. So of course you have to care, so it's a comfort to your mother. Then in the future life, we should care more about our parents and help them do what they can, and contribute their own strength to reduce the burden of their parents.

That's because you're now used to your parents' words, and you don't feel like there's anything new anymore, and you're bored. It also means that you have grown up, have your own thinking and personality, and think that your parents' words are no longer suitable for you, and you will feel bored when they are all old-fashioned. These are caused by young people not understanding the psychology of the elderly, children will always be children in the eyes of their parents, especially in the stage of overgrowth, parents will pay special attention to all aspects of their children's problems, and therefore will say more words of concern.

In fact, you should think like this: I am happy, other people's parents don't know if they care about me as much as my parents, (in fact, all parents in the world are the same, otherwise there would not be such a sentence: pity the hearts of parents in the world!)

Also, if those children who don't have parents want to have their own parents to care about them! If you think about the good side like this, you won't feel sick, and you'll feel grateful! Therefore, you must not be too happy, and if you are too happy, you will not be able to understand what it means for your parents to care.

Maybe the children who grow up in the honey pot can't understand the heart of parents! When you become a parent one day, then you will be able to appreciate what it means to care and love your parents! Besides, is it really so disgusting in your heart to your parents' words?

Isn't there really a little bit of happiness in it? If you don't feel this way, are you still a son of man? Is it right that a child who has worked so hard to raise should repay his parents like this?

How will you feel when your children do the same to you in the future? Maybe you think that you haven't reached that time yet, and time will wait for your turn in a blink of an eye. Hehehe!

Will it? My parents rarely talk about caring about people, if it's disgusting, then maybe it's more sensual, hehe! What a wonderful thing! If it's your boyfriend, you should be happy.

Parents care from the heart, if it is a boyfriend, it must be happy.

Your parents give you too much attention and become a burden to you.

At any point in life, each of them should play a different perspective in keeping pace with the times: children, teenagers, students, young people, romantic partners, family members, parents, husbands or wives, friends, classmates, colleagues, ordinary citizens and other different roles.

Sometimes people may not recognize that their roles have shifted, and the way they speak or behave has not changed with the environment.

The angle determines the height, and the thinking changes the attitude.

People have to learn to empathize, and things that they don't understand may be easier to understand.

Communication, as a party to the communication, may confuse the channel or method of communication, and it is inevitable to form misunderstandings.

Parents are learning how to be better parents in the apprenticeship, and children are learning how to be excellent children in the process of growth and gratitude.

Everyone is learning, and they are all feeling the warmth of home in every minute.

It's just that everyone perceives something more or less, quickly or late. There are never two identical leaves in the world, and it is impossible for either person to fully agree with the other person's point of view, if you communicate in a conflicting way, this communication is not communication, because the result of this communication can only be hurt family affection.

Therefore, sometimes the estrangement of family affection is caused by the thinking and decoding method of one party, which leads to a deep misunderstanding between the two parties. Silence is the best way to do this, and when time has faded some of the crumbs, open and honest communication will be more effective.

Let's see what happens.

I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain. It's a portrayal of family life.

It's just that you can't see your own angle and position.

Okay, that's all for today. Hopefully, my insights will open the locks of family harmony for you.

The New Year is here, I wish you a happy family and a ......... full of auspiciousness

In fact, your parents' menopause is equivalent to mental illness, only if you want to open, can you live peacefully with your parents, generally at such a time, you can give your parents psychological counseling, or use some drugs for **.

But then again, you can't just see your parents' not, but also often reflect on yourself, a slap can't make a sound, I and my parents at home, but also after a long-term struggle, now finally come out, summed up the experience is that guerrilla tactics, only less contact, can reduce friction, I hope it can help you o(o

First of all, your parents are your elders, and your tolerance should be, and have you tried to communicate? If not, then please don't say it's useless easily, no matter what time it is, communication is the best way to communicate with people. However, what your parents did is really wrong, but this is the generation gap, you have to find a way to make up for the feelings between you and your parents, I oppose the suggestion of the first floor, to make up for it, you have to have more contact and more communication.

Finally, I want to tell you: if you want not to be criticized, you must do satisfactorily, you must know that parents hate iron but not steel.

Like you, I find my parents annoying

But sometimes I feel that my parents are all for our good

Sometimes I feel like throwing a tantrum

But when I think of my parents working hard to do laundry and cook for us when I was a child, I really feel that the greatest thing in the world is love

A joke

Parents have to endure it, and we will bully them when we have babies in the future, but we may grow up to know the hardships of our parents raising us