My parents always suspect me of being in a relationship How do I explain being found out that I am i

Updated on psychology 2024-02-27
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your parents are acting normally. First of all, you must have reached the age of love, and now students in society fall in love relatively early, and there are a lot of reports, so your parents must think that you may also start to feel a little bit about the opposite sex, or that your current charm is enough to attract other members of the opposite sex to pursue you, so they will ask you to understand the situation, and they are also concerned about you. Because I am afraid that you will be disgusted, I will ask you very tactfully, and at the same time use your sister as an example to tell you about the concept of love they support - get married and then live together.

    I think you can have a frank conversation with your parents, for example, about your current views on the matter of love, and what you might do in the future to reassure your parents. After all, as they get older, they will pay more attention to you, so you have to understand the mentality of your parents.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The starting point of parents is good, they are all for the good of their children, they should be cool and parents empathize, find an appropriate time to communicate with parents, and speak kindly in the process of communication, if it really doesn't work, you can use actions to prove it, for example, if you bet with your parents that if the exam is in the first place (within your ability), parents should rest assured, don't mention it again, it affects your learning, and they will be cold.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Uh, it's okay. Parents, after all, are your parents! It's normal that they may care about you, and although your parents are sometimes verbose, aren't they still good for you?

    Be considerate of your parents. Your parents are worried that you are like your sister, so they keep asking.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your parents care about you too much, although you are annoyed now, but you have to admit that they are right, maybe they are just using the wrong method, they don't want you to delay your study for these things now, you should understand them more! Or find a time to talk to them and explain it to them, tell them that you know what to do and what not to do when you grow up! Go for it!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your parents just care about you, but the way they care is a little unacceptable, your parents care about you falling in love, they are afraid that you will suffer, you don't think too much, study hard.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should talk to them very carefully, if you look impatient, they will be suspicious of you, and you should make it clear to them.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Ay.. Parents are like this, either you can have a good talk with your parents, say that you don't care about this now, you don't have a boyfriend or anything, if you have, you will tell them, and you won't learn from your sister, so that your parents can rest assured, I don't know if you can solve your problem, you can try anyway.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think it's good to talk to your parents. This kind of thing basically happens to everyone. And that's not a bad thing, what parent doesn't care about their child?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I can understand your difficulties, your parents are afraid that you will fall in love, they are right to have such a heart, but it's okay to talk about it, it's better not to talk about it if you don't take care of students, because it's very sad when you fall out of love! I don't want to do anything! I can only do it here for you! Let it be!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe it's age. They're scared, or maybe some of your actions have made them distracted!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This phenomenon is really annoying, and you have to make a big fuss about things that you obviously don't have.

    In fact, this is not only depressing for you, but also for themselves.

    You don't argue with them, talk to them what you think.

    If they don't listen, it's going to be silent.

    Let time clear up their doubts.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    95% of parents in China are like this, so get on with your old life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    They know that you are not in love, but they just educate you not to fall in love My parents are the same, it's really annoying

    Ignore it. As long as you're not in a relationship at all.

    Don't be surprised to knock on the door in the middle of the night

    You just have to say it to them often.

    I will not waste my time, I will study hard and become a useful person in the future."

    They were relieved.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Parental care is only good and not bad, so it can also be prevented in advance, and there are good and bad things.

    My parents are also suspicious of me if you are in love, and if you really don't fall in love, pluck up the courage and say: If you don't believe me, you can go to the teacher to investigate (to put it mildly, after all, it's your own parents) and improve your studies to the best of your ability, so that even if you are in love, your parents will be relieved a little bit. I wish you success.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Analysis from a parent's point of view:

    Maybe you are really prone to problems such as early love in this period.

    And your parents may have heard a lot about early love lately.

    So I'm worried about you too.

    It's human nature.

    You should understand too.

    Maybe you've been misleading your parents by some of your actions lately.

    That's why it's like this.

    Work on the workaround from your point of view:

    You should pay more attention to your words and actions.

    Try not to get into an argument with them and the matter can be resolved (this is from the parent's point of view) or you should find an opportunity to talk to them properly.

    Make it clear.

    Explain the misunderstanding clearly.

    Or maybe you just follow what the ancients said:

    Go your own way.

    Let others say it (from your own point of view).

    Thank you. This is just my personal opinion.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Feel free and bold to continue your old life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Let it be, the generation gap can't be explained.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Find a way to let them see your question above!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Falling in love was known by the parents how to communicate with the Qishidong 1, explain patiently. When your parents find out that you are in early love, your parents will generally let you cut off the relationship with the other party immediately, at this time, you should first confess your relationship with your parents about your relationship with the other party, and you also need to explain to your parents that you are also in a normal relationship in the process of dating, and it has not affected your studies. 2. Move with emotion.

    Communicate well with your parents, so that they trust you enough, in fact, of course, your parents are also quiet, afraid of causing an impact on your body and mind, if you are a girl, your parents will never agree to your early love, if it is a boy, your parents may also agree, you can prove to them that love has not caused you any impact, but makes you more motivated to study. 3. Obey your parents. Some parents may be more extreme, they think that you just shouldn't fall in love so early, you'd better not have conflicts with your parents, calm down and think about it, in fact, you will find that what your parents said is very reasonable, if you want to clear it, you can discuss with the other party Now is an important period for learning, you put the emotional things first, you are not mature enough to be responsible for the batch, you will still be good friends, it is not too late to talk about these in the future, time will allow you to mature slowly, Then you will think differently.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Summary. Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you, I have received your question, I am sorting out the answer for you, it takes time to type, please be patient for a while, and answer it for you immediately!

    Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you, I have received your question, I am sorting out the answer for you, it takes time to type, please be patient for a while, and answer it for you immediately!

    I'm curious how you know that your parents misunderstood you, and then you think you need to clarify and explain this. But either way, it's good to communicate with your parents more. It is recommended to first take the method of explaining clearly at the dinner table, and speak frankly, so that parents don't think too much.

    If it doesn't work, there is no need to talk about it, time will tell. Then put your mind in a better state, communicate in time if you have questions, don't speculate on each other, feel rusty and waste time and thoughts.

    My grades regressed in the midterm exams, and it happened that a girl gave me a gift, and I accepted it, but I really didn't have a good impression of her, and my parents said that I might be in love.

    There is no refusal, but how to make parents not have to say it too much?

    didn't refuse, what is your current state, ambiguous or in love.

    In fact, this kind of thing depends on the attitude of your parents and the family atmosphere.

    Seriously, if it's ambiguous and you're still thinking about whether to agree, then it's recommended not to talk to your parents, you said I didn't talk about it, but I did.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Summary. Hello dear! If you are an adult and have a normal relationship, then there is no need to hide it from your parents, communicate with them and tell them that you are dealing with someone, so that they will not check your phone.

    If you are a minor, it is best not to prematurely deal with the <>

    What to do if your parents suspect that you are in a relationship and want to check your phone.

    Hello dear! If you are an adult and have a normal relationship, then there is no need to hide it from your parents, communicate with them and tell them that you are dealing with someone, so that they will not check your phone. If you are a minor, it is best not to prematurely deal with the <>

    There is no place for objects.

    They suspect that my client wants to see my phone.

    But I also have my privacy.

    How do you get it. You need to show them that you have grown up, and that although you still have a lot of expenses or food, clothing, and shelter to rely on (and I hope you are grateful for that), you are starting to gradually need space, privacy, and independent thinking and acting independently, and you can really communicate with your parents in such a mature way, and they and you can also make boundaries clear to each other.

    Try to take the initiative to expose some topics and events that they care about, such as, love, grades, your anxiety, your parents are the closest people to you, maybe the way is not so right, but they are also trying to do the best in their hearts, I hope you can understand. <>

    Thank you. You're welcome to <> as it should be

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer this question for you, you can communicate with your parents and tell them that they are really not in love, and they will tell them when they are in love.

    1.In fact, your parents care about you and want to know if you are in love, and will give you some advice.

    What should I do if my parents always suspect me of being in love?

    Hello, I'm glad to answer this question for you, you can communicate with your parents and tell them that they are really not in love, and they will tell them when they are in love. 1.In fact, your parents care about you and want to know if you are in love, and will give you some advice.

    Singing a song about feelings has to be skeptical.

    2.You can talk well and let them know what you think. So that they will be so suspicious.

    Are you a student?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Why don't you dare tell your parents.

    First: because of the relationship between parents.

    My relationship with my family is like a friend, that is, I am willing to share many things with my parents, and my parents are the kind of people who respect me very much and are very supportive. I think there is a great need for mutual respect and support between parents and children, so that parents know that you have grown up and that you have to face some things on your own, and that parents can only give you advice, but cannot help you make decisions.

    Second: Parents think that love affects school and life.

    For example, early love in high school, and junior high school too, so I think we need to let our parents see that falling in love will not affect our lives, let alone our studies. It is to prove this to them, sometimes they are overly worried, just because they can't see or touch, and taking the initiative to share your life and the people around you is really a very effective solution.

    Third: Parents worry about whether they will protect themselves.

    In particular, college students will be more free, and they have just been freed from the shackles of high school, if they can't see clearly and can't hold it. I will start to let go of myself, but I want to say that whether it is a boy or a girl, we should be responsible for ourselves, each other, and our families, and we can also spread out this matter and tell our parents about it, so that parents can rest assured. I don't think there's anything to be ashamed of, and we take our parents along and maybe give them more courage to express themselves and their love for you.

    If it is said. You can say that you are willing to share the joy of your love with your parents, or if you feel that your parents' knowledge will affect your relationship too much, you can choose not to say it. But only if you know that your parents know what you're worried about when you're in a relationship, and you're going to take care of everything they worry about.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Of course, I was afraid that they would object.

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