My parents treat me badly, and my parents always dislike me in all kinds of bad?

It's really pitiful, are you a girl, is it because your family is patriarchal, if it's true, it's hard to change your parents' minds, alas, you must be self-reliant, whether you go outside to work or not, you have to start from the heart to become strong, to tell yourself that you are the best, it doesn't matter if others ignore you, you must love yourself, no one buys food for you to eat, you just cook it yourself or go out to eat, don't treat yourself badly, don't feel inferior, 19-year-old years, No matter what kind of girl has the brilliance of youth, you are confident that you are very beautiful and cute. If you hurt your brother, you will lose your eyes and close your eyes, and the most important thing is that you have to hurt yourself.

Hey, I sympathize with you, but you can think about the bright side of it, at least they gave you life.

They don't buy you clothes, but at least they give you food, right?

If you hate them, you can fend for yourself. Don't rely on them so much.

You're 19 yourself, why do you care about them so much when you go out to work?

Let's just go out and work.

Save a little capital for your life.

Build self-confidence.

I heard of a rural man before, but also because his family treated him badly, so he ran away to work, he had no education, but with his efforts, he also suffered a lot, but in the end he opened a large company and returned to his hometown.

You can also go out like him, why should a manly man be ignored and neglected at home, if you are really out of business and make money, they will definitely have to slap you, but there will definitely be hardships and sins, you have to be prepared.

Why are your parents treating you badly? First of all, you have to understand that not all parents love their children. Although some are parents, they also do things that harm their children in the name of their parents.

If your parents. It's not good for you. Maybe.

They are doing things that hurt you in the name of loving you. Between you because. Some contradictions in your upbringing.

Your parents are the strong, doting party, so they will control what you do and make you live your life their way.

Some parents themselves did not achieve it. Ability and dreams to force their children to help them practice. It's all.

The means of controlling the child do not take into account the child's true inner feelings. Some parents do not have children in the hope that their children will be happy, but use their children as a means to seek benefits.

If your parents have a tendency to abuse you, you can go to legal action.

to protect yourself. If your parents disagree with them simply by reasonable opinion, you should make your own efforts to let them see your own. Ideas can also be turned into reality. Without the coercive pressure of parents, you can live a good life on your own.

When your abilities are strong enough, it is difficult for your parents to interfere with you to succeed.

First of all, not all parents love their children. Parents are human beings, not perfect human beings. What child is not a parent's heart?

If you feel that your parents are not good to you, you should reflect on yourself, find reasons from yourself, and see what is wrong with your words and deeds, such as: not listening to your parents, loving to contradict your parents; I don't like to study, and I am often sued by teachers; Addicted to the Internet, delaying the future ......

There may be another reason why your parents are not treating you well: is it because they are too stressful in their lives? Bad work or bad business? Or is there something that has happened in your family recently?

If it's your fault, then you should correct it. If it is the latter, you should be considerate of your parents and give them comfort. In short, there is no parent who does not love his children, and tiger poison does not eat children. Communicate with your parents.

Why are your parents not good to you? This is because you simply don't know what is good for your parents. Do you know what makes a good parent?

There's one thing that is relevant to you. It can raise an excellent child. Such parents are competent and good parents.

An excellent child cannot be allowed to grow freely. There needs to be a little restraint, and that is to give education. And education, especially the education of parents, often comes with some powerful discipline.

This will cause dissatisfaction in the child. Think it's a parent who treats the child badly.

Children take the "good" of their parents as "bad". Two generations. The requirements for "good" are different, and the standards are different. This phenomenon. You won't understand until you grow up and become parents.

You feel that they are not good to you, maybe they are just strict with you, and want to cultivate your ability to live independently from an early age, and the ability to go to society in the future, some people love children, he puts them in his mouth, and talks all day long, so that the children are spoiled, and in the end it is they who suffer, and your parents love you should be in your heart, and do not show it on the surface, so don't care, how can parents not love their children.

This is not necessarily, generally sons are not good for their fathers. The children are all good in other people's homes. In fact, when it comes to the critical time, their parents are still oriented towards their children.

There are very few bad ones. Generally, children have to have children, and they only understand their parents in their forties. This can also be seen through many things, parents make money or keep it for their children, and being strict with their children is just to make him (her) better.

Understand more, when you have children in the future, when your children are older, you will understand your parents!

Parents should love their children the most, and if you feel this way, it may be that your parents don't know how to communicate with you. So it caused some misunderstandings.

I think there are no parents who are wrong, their children are good, but their expression skills may be different, maybe your parents are strict with you, that is to make you develop better, so you feel that your parents are not good for you, I think parents all over the world are very good to their children.

Maybe it's because parents have their own pains, or maybe it's because you're not working hard enough to live up to their expectations for your children.

In fact, everyone's expectations of their parents are different, and the way they express love is also different, what you see is not necessarily what they think, maybe you don't experience the way you love you.

That's because your parents are very strict with you and want you to be better in the future, all for you.

Everyone's parents, he treats his children differently, except for a very few, most of them are good to their children.

If your own parents are not very good to you, it may be that there is something wrong with your parents, but we also need to reflect on ourselves. Is it that you are not good enough?

Everyone has their own ideas, and some people are indeed parents and are not ready for parents, so they are not ready for themselves.

Their parents must treat their children well, but in a different way.

The so-called hatred of iron does not make steel, which is what it means.

Parents should be the dearest people of their children, but they behave differently from others, or they can't understand it at the time, but it is by no means that the parents in the topic are bad for their children.

Although your parents are not good for you, it is because it is good for you to learn to be independent and self-reliant.

Maybe they want you to be better, or maybe they really hate their children, but most parents dislike themselves in some way, maybe your aspect is not enough to satisfy them, I hate this kind of oppressive education very much.

Parents were also not understood when they were young, so there was no sensibility and no empathy. That is, the parents have passed it on, the original family.

way of education.

2. Parents have their parents' experiences and ideas, and they will naturally think that they have experience and what they say is right. Because of their lack of empathy, they naturally do not put themselves in the child's shoes.

Be yourself and everything will be fine.

This is because parents hate iron and steel, and both parents hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. But they definitely love you, they always want you to be better, and if you can't meet their requirements, they will only see your shortcomings, but not your strengths. In fact, it is wrong for parents to do this, they do not know how to encourage education, which will make their children lose confidence and will not make him better.

The mother claimed to be kind-hearted, thinking that girls would live better if they were beautiful. She said that her current husband was good to her because he liked her appearance, and she was afraid that her daughter would suffer a loss, so she made this decision, but she didn't expect her daughter to be so painful.

After I watched it, I was quite impressed. Each of us has been hit by our parents to some degree.

Let parents understand their own approach.

1. Take the initiative to communicate. Usually talk to parents about things at school and confusion in learning, and talk to parents about psychology, so that parents can understand their children's inner thoughts.

2. Empathy. Don't talk back to your parents at every turn, think more from your parents' point of view, and be considerate of your parents' feelings and difficulties.

3. Respect and understanding. When you go out, you should take the initiative to contact your parents so that your parents don't worry, listen to your parents' views, and at the same time put forward your own opinions. When there is a difference of opinion, both sides should calmly consider the reasons for the difference and how to resolve it.

Achieve the communication results of seeking common ground while reserving differences.

Parents want their children to be the best, but sometimes some of the children's behaviors will make the parents feel uncomfortable, for example, your younger siblings are still young, they will often be noisy, so that your parents will think that you are not sensible, you can tell your parents that you will not neglect their younger siblings because of them, your parents will also think that you are a very sensible child, and they will not always dislike you.

Children should be persuaded on both sides. Depending on the situation, the children should be persuaded on both sides, so that they can tolerate and understand each other in order to get along well.

Dad is not good to mom because there are conflicts between the two personalities or other reasons, and they don't trust or love each other, so they don't treat mom well, but the daughter is born by herself, and she has a brother regret blood relationship.

I love my daughter very much, this is father's love, father's love and love are two different things, there are husband and wife who are divorced but love their children the same, the love of husband and wife can be changed but the blood relationship will never change.

Because your current age has not yet reached the age of your parents, when you are a parent, you know how broken your parents are when they raise you, and sometimes he will sue you for love. There are a lot of things that you don't want to see, but it's really for your good part. When you become a parent, you will understand that day.

If your parents are irresponsible and lazy, then please don't complain and don't feel inferior, because these are things that we can't change and choose.

No matter what your parents say, they will work hard to give birth to you in October and bring you to this beautiful world, and raise us with hard work, how they are, we have no right to interfere, that is their business.

Please remember one thing, in how bad parents are, they are very, very much love you, only your own parents love you in this world is the most selfless, great, you are their weakness, their heart, is the continuation of their ...... life

Even if they don't say it, it's the truth and it's nature, so please give back to your parents with all your efforts!

But no matter what you do, Qin Xiang can't repay them for their kindness ...... you

When you have the ability, stay away directly, don't contact if you don't want to, don't feel guilty, they haven't felt guilty.