One of the girls from my junior college I loved

Updated on psychology 2024-07-23
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I also just graduated, and I like a classmate in the same class, it's been almost two years, and it was love at first sight. I think the stupidest thing to do is to confess. Although many people will say that I am nothing but brave.

    But I don't think it's a question of being brave or not. If you don't say it, everyone is a good friend, what if you say it? It can cause annoyance to people, you know?

    Whether it is junior high school, high school, junior college, or university, a good child will want to study hard. If you have these worries, it will have a certain impact on the learning of others. Although the other party may be of high quality, adjust your psychology and make a decision on how to get along in the future, these are all troubles!

    What's more, once spread out, unless the other party also happens to have affection for you, it is difficult to be even a good friend, and it will be very embarrassing to meet. Even if you don't care, it doesn't have to be that the other person doesn't care. So, this kind of behavior is really very selfish.

    Especially like you, who is rejected after confessing, and still doesn't give up, it's even more selfish. Have you thought about that girl? She may hate you very much, and she may be upset if you pester her like this again!

    Well, all I'm saying is you're not doing it right. You should add Q first, get acquainted first, after you are already a good friend, you know that you may not be able to see each other after graduation, and then confess to her. In this way, even if she is troubled, she will not be sad to consider whether to accept you or how to reject you, at least she still wants to maintain your friendship.

    Even if she doesn't want to maintain it, she won't hate you anymore. Dude, why are you still so immature after graduating from college. It's really not as good as my high school graduate.

    We should improve our inner cultivation, respect others, and think about others. You are so rude, so selfish (to put it mildly, machismo), if there are girls who like you very much and are willing to sacrifice for you, they may be with you, but generally girls don't like such men. So you should learn more about these things, so that you feel that you are very sensible.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Little brother, now the renminbi is king, with it, you can find a lot of women's hehe.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    sighing and tears, heroes dying, and the world suffers a lot. The mountains and rivers are forever silent, how can they be happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're like this, and he doesn't say anything, it can only mean that you are not his dish, and there are girls who are still reserved, and it is easy to scare men away if they are too active.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Later, I QQ on the secret of her replied that it was not me.

    His boyfriend,-- because I am.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    True love for someone not only means stretching out your hands to have each other, but also wishing her happiness while having each other. Do your duty, and as long as there is a glimmer of hope, don't ruin your marriage easily. Goethe said:

    Responsibility is having a love for what you are asked to do. "People live in the world, they have to bear all kinds of responsibilities, family, work, society, in addition, we also have one of the most fundamental responsibilities, that is, the responsibility for emotions and life. In this world, we only have one chance to live, and if this only time is wasted, we cannot talk about the meaning and value of life.

    In other words, other responsibilities in the world can be shared or transferred, but the responsibility for one's own emotions can only be borne by oneself alone, and one cannot rely on others at all.

    Life is a hard journey, we need to trek, can be with you, through the wind and rain, can only be one. Maybe you have an unforgettable love before joining hands, such a marriage should be cherished, both men and women should always have a sincere, gentle, grateful heart, and each other to work together in the family and career, share joy and success, and bear difficulties and misfortunes together; Maybe you are in a loveless marriage, or even a wrong marriage, but since you have finally chosen each other, you have the responsibility and obligation to bear the pain, loneliness and loss that it brings. We should always accept each other with a tolerant, trusting, and understanding heart, think more about each other's benefits and advantages, take on more family responsibilities, and do not say goodbye easily until absolutely necessary.

    With the passage of time, when you come to the twilight of your gray hair, you suddenly look back, it turns out that human marriage is in the process of tolerance, understanding and shared responsibility to achieve a happy ending, showing your shoulders to bear for each other.

    However, what you need to realize is that there will be no smooth road in love, love only has ups and downs, only tribulations, and then it is still flat, and then it can be happy. Only by sharing weal and woe can we recess to the existence of each other and the needs of each other.

    To love someone is to love his or her shortcomings, strengths, love everything he or she has, and also learn to tolerate and understand each other; Stretching out your hands to have each other, it should be that while owning each other, you should work together with each other to cultivate your family and career, share joy and success, bear difficulties and misfortunes together, and tide over the wind and rain together. In this way, the love between the two parties will last for a long time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This is simple Bring some flowers to her on every date Say more love words to tease her Since she has said that she can let you chase her, it means that she is ready to be with you, and it is time for the girl to let go and love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It has to do with your emotional intelligence.

    Since love her. Just treat her sincerely.

    Everything else is puffy clouds.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Romance is a rose

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