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The following is a text written by the younger brother himself.
Theory of life. Life is a flowing stream that runs from the source to the end, a law that has no reason and does not need a reason. A person's life is like a paper boat floating on water, running to the end with the law of life, the difference is the end of the paper boat and the stream, the paper boat will be slowly soaked in the water and gradually submerged in the water.
It is precisely in this way that life will slowly learn in life, gradually find its own home, stop there, stay forever, and time will stand still until it disappears.
The journey of life seems short. Yes, in the rushing stream, the moment the paper boat is placed in the stream to the second when it is submerged in the stream from your field of vision, it is indeed short-lived, even short-lived.
What makes us feel like life is so long? I think that it should be time, time creates memories, and memories make people and things that have been remembered for a long time become memories in life. With the accumulation of time and the stacking of memories, people will slowly grow, and in this process we will feel sweet, sour, spicy, and bitter ......That's why we feel like this delicate life is so long.
The opposite of life is death, just as good is relative to bad. But death is not bad, just as life is not necessarily good. Life is everything we have now, and everything we do is for life, for a better life.
Life is life, the premise of life. When you are dying, think about what death is with a little bit of energy, and you will suddenly understand that you have created a lot of "life" with your life, and your death will be a part of life. Look at the people around you, think about the people who are not around you, and your death will be meaningful, and you will die a well-deserved death.
In fact, everyone is going through the cycle from birth to life, death is only the beginning of the next life, if you die, it means that the next life has begun, but this kind of "life" is just an abstract life.
Tears are the eternity of life, and tears are the sacrifice of death. One of the things that is unique to the living is tears, and when we witness death, we express our sorrow and pain in our hearts. In order to vent all kinds of mourning and pain, we use tears.
Is there really a "spirit in heaven" after a person dies? According to scientific arguments, there is none, so we do not have to cry when we express our condolences and pain to them in tears, which seems to be useless, because the deceased will not hear them.
The boat began to spin in the water, which was encountered by the vortex, and life was already difficult. Sometimes there is also fog, so we feel lost. "The deceased is like this, but not the past; Those who are surplus and weak are like them, and they are not long."
And what about those of us who are alive. A law is a law, and life is always life. Who knows where the boat will be submerged in the stream?
What can we do if we are submerged? The most important thing is to live the life in front of you, don't be depressed by the deceased, don't be sad because of death, who doesn't know that death is another life!
Light blue wings.
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To live is to find fun, no fun, the quality of life is not good, work hard, life will be meaningful.
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Don't be so negative, you have to be positive about your life, because you live, so you have to live happily and happily, for your own better tomorrow.
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Live for the sake of living!
As long as you don't give up on your own, no one can bring you down
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Life is about having fun. Please, friendship, love.
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I saw you say, "I used to be sensitive and would be in a bad mood because of something, but now I'm not interested in anything].
You seem to be depressed all the time in your negative world.
Everyone has a time when they feel like it's boring to do anything and don't know what they're going to do.
Maybe it's because you're overly sensitive, which makes you feel tired, so you reduce your perception of external things.
Try to discover and find the little things in life.
I recommend the Japanese drama "Little Forest", which is a short drama that I like very much, with a slow pace of life, changing the free life of Fangzhou Void, looking for a small beauty that suits you.
Maybe you can also have your own experience and perception in this film and television.
You can try to do more volunteer work, and it is said that when you share happiness, you have a happiness, and you can share it with as many people as you can have happiness, so the volunteer work of volunteers can harvest a lot of happiness and joy, and bring you a different life experience. Best wishes
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First of all, you have to understand what is a hobby, anything in the world can become your own hobby, for example, chatting, sports, games, food, chess, reading, **, etc., the key is whether you like it, some people can turn their interests into a means of making a living, more people are just hobbies, the difference is that they like it differently.
No matter what you like, you will always find like-minded people in this world, so you need to find it yourself, rather than waiting for others to come to you. The same is true for making friends, there are many kinds of friends, it depends on what kind of mentality you have to make, pure interest exchange can also be friends, heart can be more than heart can become friends, real friends are based on sincerity and trust, such friends can block bullets for you, can do their best to help you, but accordingly you should also pay the same price. Of course, the most common thing in this world is to communicate for the purpose of profit, which is very normal, and it is indeed difficult to make friends if you have no value to use.
Therefore, if you want to make friends, you must understand your own positioning and value, and constantly improve your comprehensive quality in life experience.
Hobbies are passive skills that need to be cultivated by yourself, and it's not that you don't have them, but you don't know your position!
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Making friends is the will of both parties. Reasonable, empathetic, and honest, this is the principle of making friends.
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Hobbies are a fact and can be made with your own abilities. Making friends is based on one's own language and friendly and active communication.
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If you don't know what you like, then go find something you like, usually go out and play, you can go alone, and then watch what others do, you can also try it, gradually try it, maybe you can find something you like.
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Look at the news every day, what has happened recently, the latest TV series, the latest Internet words, and so on, and ......so onI have goods in my head, and I am not embarrassed to chat with friends about topics. Friends can also keep up with you and will think that you are a good chatty friend.
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You can choose to run, this hobby is slowly cultivated, what you are interested in is when you think it is interesting and meaningful, I think I used to be in line with this, and then I went to run, and I slowly liked the feeling of sweating, any persistence is a need to work hard, the longer you insist, the more you open your mind, and naturally accept your friends, that's it.
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Try more piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, singing and dancing.
Skateboard racing.
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This is not difficult, you have more contact with people, you have hobbies, and slowly the surrounding environment will make you interested in hobbies.
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People really have their own interests and hobbies in life! Because if you don't have hobbies, then your life will be boring, no plan, and no happiness! When you have your own hobbies, you will have a happy and fulfilling life!
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This sentence is very important for people to have their own interests and hobbies in life, otherwise life will be too boring.
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Life is boring. When you have your own hobbies. You can be happier. More able to stick to their inner choices.
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I think it's very necessary, no matter how many hobbies you have, you should cultivate your own hobbies, you can enrich your life, you can read books, exercise, or do something related to your hobbies and hobbies, so as to avoid being bored sometimes, and you can also talk to your friends or colleagues about these, which can enhance your relationship and promote communication.
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Hello is not wrong, people must have their own interests and hobbies.
Because if there are no interests and hobbies.
There's no joy in being human.
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Yes, so that life is not empty.
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I think it's very necessary, no matter how many hobbies you have, you should cultivate your own hobbies, you can enrich your life, you can read books, exercise, or do something related to your hobbies and hobbies, so as to avoid being bored sometimes, and you can also talk to your friends or colleagues about these, which can enhance your relationship and promote communication.
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Hello is not wrong, people must have their own interests and hobbies.
Because if there are no interests and hobbies.
There's no joy in being human.
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I think that, in my current state of life, I would classify myself as a "group of people who have no interest". There are few failures, and there are few attempts, and everything is done only when it is necessary to act, or forced to do by others. The classics explain what interest is, and interest is when you devote yourself to the things of the moment in the highest form.
I didn't put all my heart into it because I cared too much about the result. I want to learn English, but I don't get any results for so long because I care too much about the results. And there is no new investment in English itself, in the process of learning to experience happiness, why I see others speaking English, why I am excited when I see foreigners speaking Chinese.
It's not that I'm not interested, it's that I'm not invested in the process of learning. I was struck by Maggie in learning English in the children's teacher class, this is just an example in the book, I have not participated in it, but I can feel it in the middle of the reading. I am also two people who learn English, and I complain more about what I learn today, and what I learn to what progress.
Rather than devoting yourself to the learning itself. Is it so hard to write that I like planning and arrangement? Writing this, I am not a person who lacks curiosity, nor am I a person who is not interested in anything, but the way and method are wrong, and the direction of investment is wrong.
I also had a time when I was indifferent to my interests, and I couldn't devote myself because I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to do well if I put in, and it turned out that I was interested in Guzheng now, but I didn't invest in it, because I was afraid that I wouldn't study well, and I was a courageless person who didn't dare to face failure.
When I was 29 years old, I was able to take the initiative to take the driver's license test, which was much later than others, not because I didn't like driving, but because I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to pass the test. But it turns out that through my efforts, I didn't look for a relationship and got my driver's license. Because I was devoted to studying, I passed the first two pile exams and the on-site road exams in one go, and experienced the joy of learning.
In the off-site road test, I took it when I took the third test. I experienced the twists and turns of learning. The feeling of excitement decreases.
Let me write down the words that resonate with me in the book!
Fun is the result of being fully involved, being fully involved in the affairs rather than thinking about it, and people who are not interested are afraid to invest or never want to get into it, because they are always worried. The more you worry, the more you become a gutless person, and finally a boring person.
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I'm a counsellor and solving the situation you're talking about is an important part of my day-to-day work. In fact, if we look at life from a philosophical point of view, it is basically not voluntary, but of course it has to come. So since we have to come, and we have come, it must not be for the sake of being satisfied with money, status, work, life, and so on, because these things are derived after the birth of life, and the standard is that it is the material and spiritual embodiment of the external manifestation of human greed.
It is not the ultimate goal of man. The purpose and meaning of their lives must be for the benefit of the public, and the ultimate goal is to make the public awake, at least they are helping others and the meaning of their own survival!
Psychologist He Mengxuan hopes to help you!
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