got married, gave birth to a child, and didn t know how to live by myself

Let's not talk about the question of whether to fall in love or not!

Let me ask you, do you want to have regrets in your life?? In a friend's life, when you encounter such a difficult moment, you don't go to see him, aren't you afraid that many years later, when you recall, your heart will ache faintly? ? There are some things, once regrets are formed, there will be no way to make up for them!

Even if he's just a male classmate you don't like at all, but I've liked you for so long!

Go for it, right away, the sooner the better! I believe that when you go to see him, you just look at him with a simple smile and say a simple word to him, recover well! He will definitely be very warm in his heart and will be of great help to his recovery!

And you, even if you are not together in the future, you will smile slightly when you recall it many years later, because you once gave a very warm blessing to a boy who loves you!

Love, who knows, hehe! A lot of it is a feeling, maybe he makes you feel it, but the world is so big, maybe others can give you this feeling! Therefore, it doesn't matter if you can be together or not, as long as you can be with each other, you will be happy in the end!

As for whether you say you can redeem it, hehe, he is in trouble now, if you really want to fall in love with him, if you care a little more about him, he will definitely love you well!

Go ahead, hehe, and remember to bring a bouquet of flowers! It's going to be romantic! Even for ordinary friends, a faint floral romance!

That's right, one more point! You went to school in a different place, he didn't confess to you, and you, when you meet a guy who loves you, you are in love, remember, there is nothing wrong! Of course, you don't have to deliberately tell him, but he really loves you, even if he knows, he won't care, he is not by your side, can you blame you, doesn't he confess, do you have to wait for him for the rest of your life!

If you want to love, cherish it, even if you lose it, you have no regrets!

Getting married sooner or later and having children are all personal choices.

In their early 20s, not only in the countryside, but also in the cities, many people have married and had children.

It's time to meet the right person. Or being persecuted by their parents. Or they are influenced by the people around them and feel that this age is about the same. Or have your own considerations and plans.

Some people feel that it is not timely, so they will not consider it for the time being.

Some people feel that they must find true love and don't want to make do.

Some people are not bad in their own conditions, and they just have no desire to get married at the moment.

Some people are too busy and don't have time to fall in love, and the time spent on work and the things in their minds are also working, earning money, and living. Fall in love, let's line up.

There are commitments behind every choice, whether you are married or not.

Getting married does not mean that you can eat, drink, sit back and relax, and have hope for the rest of your life, so you don't have to work your own.

Not getting married doesn't mean that you're really bad, no one wants it, everyone is unique, believe in yourself.

People who can think openly will not be confused into marriage, and those who are lucky will be happy when they enter marriage.

Entering into marriage is a responsibility for everyone, and as for how to run it, it really depends on the individual.

Now that you are married, please don't complain too much anyway, choose it yourself.

If you don't get married, just enjoy the moment.

Either way, may you be happy, happy, and have no regrets.

There are the following possible fronts:1It's possible to like you.

The premise is that you are very handsome, or Wang Ba has a crush on mung beans. Everyone has a love for beauty, regardless of gender. 2.

You're ugly. Someone would also like to take a look at it. If you are an ordinary person, you will not be able to find it in the crowd.

Ugly or handsome, two types of people, someone pays attention to you. 3.You're an other.

Dress up as neither male nor female. Men wear **. And so on....4.

You may have known each other before, but you can't remember where you met. So she'll be staring at Lun Qingsen. 5.

Other. You go home and look in the mirror to see what kind of category you belong to? Maybe it's possible that the zipper of your pants is open, and she keeps looking at you, embarrassed to remind you

Headache! Labor is the process by which a mature fetus is removed from the uterus. There are often some signs before childbirth, such as: urinating more often, difficulty urinating; There is often a feeling of bowing down; tightness and pain in the lower abdomen; Feeling of pressure in the lower back, etc.

The pregnancy lasts about 280 days, and during childbirth, due to the periodic contraction of uterine smooth muscle and abdominal seizure, the amniotic membranes and chorionic membranes can be ruptured, and the amniotic fluid (the best thing for women to protect themselves, it is the best hemostatic agent, if there is no amniotic fluid, it is easy to endanger their own life) flows out, and finally the fetus is delivered.

Childbirth is divided into three stages:

1.Primary delivery. The uterine opening is enlarged.

2.Secondary delivery. Delivery of the fetus.

3.Three-stage delivery. Delivery of the placenta.

The length of labour varies from pregnant woman to woman, with an average of about 15 hours for primiparous women and about 9 hours for multiparous women.

During childbirth, the position where the fetus is exposed first at the entrance to the pelvis is called the fetal position. At the end of pregnancy, 95 fetuses rotate in the uterus into a head-down cephalic position, with the head exposed first during delivery, but there are also arm positions (transverse (1) and facial positions (equal fetal positions). Arm and transverse positions are closely related to dystocia.

Not having children, not wanting to get married, this is all the consciousness of being a "poor".

1Getting married and having children will not change the status quo, it will only get worse!

A friend just got married two months ago, and soon after he started confiding in me about the difficulty of marriage. Before getting married, there was originally a parental subsidy, which could maintain a balance of payments or even advance consumption: go to a high-end restaurant to eat every month, buy around idols and ** if you want to, and travel abroad twice a year is the standard of life.

But after marriage, in order to run a family, you must be temperate. The two had little savings left after the wedding. The two salaries have to be broken into four parts, and both sides subsidize their parents, and their wallets will wilt every month.

As "The Form of the Family" concludes: We people in our 30s are busy enough just to take care of ourselves, and I really want to tell them, don't use those boring entanglements to disrupt our orderly life.

Love is the ups and downs of two strong people, not the bitter hatred of two weak people, and it is with this consciousness that young people will have no idea about getting married. It's enough to live your life well.

2. I can't give material things, and I can't bear responsibility.

Female Hong Kong star Zhong Chuhong once said frankly: I can't bear this pressure, I have pressure, and the children born in the future will also have pressure, the current children have too little room for survival and development, the competition is so big, and they are not free and unhappy. I don't want our children to suffer this, I'd rather not have children.

I read a book called "Low Desire Society", which concluded: Most Japanese people under the age of 35 are not only unwilling to take a mortgage or get married and have children, but also believe that they cannot afford the risks and responsibilities.

3You persuade me to get married, and I advise you to experience more wonderful.

I have always felt that people who can really stand their ground and decide whether to get married or not will live a more exciting life because of the lack of intervention from others.

Liu Tao said in "Dear Inn": Women want to get married when they are close to 30, but they don't want to get married after 30.

Yes, when they were young, they were poor in thought and felt that life without marriage was incomplete, and after the age of 30, their experience grew with the years, and they were no longer exhausted in thinking about changes, and they would find that the 30-year-old would not collapse because of the shortcomings of marriage, so they would naturally not be in a hurry.

Not taking marriage too seriously, but the best way to keep thinking independently. Go with the flow, don't practice "getting married and having children" as a milestone in life, and don't set limits on your life, you will find that there are still many wonderful things in the world waiting for you to explore.

If you have failed in life, don't drag someone to live a hard life with you. Will your children still provide for you in your old age? Don't think about it that much. Raising children is an obligation to society.

I don't know what the connection between failure and getting married and having children is.

Isn't it because you love someone when you get married, and don't you have children because you like children? What's more, if you have someone you love and your own children, you will work hard no matter what, and in my opinion, if you work hard, you will not fail.

Of course, the wife will still look for it, because nothing lasts forever, and of course it is the same to live a very failed life.

No, it's good to be alone, not too much burden, free and easy.

No, first of all, I can't support myself, how can I feed my children.

Why do people get married? It's for love. We live to make ourselves happy and to make those around us happy.

We got married to make this love complete and full. Legend has it that women are the lost ribs of men, men and women fight from birth, only half of life, we have been looking for our lover, looking for our own other half. In the vast sea of people, only when we find our other half can we have a complete life, and we can make life abundant and happy.

So we keep searching, bravely fall in love, wrong, hurt, and then despair, lost, because we have not found our true love, because true love is hard to find. In this life, you may meet several lovers, or you may have only one. You may be with your lover forever until the day you die of old age; It may also be that happiness is like a flash in the pan, happiness or sorrow, both love and marriage.

In fact, many people misunderstand the true meaning of marriage, especially some young ignorant teenagers Marriage should be the ultimate testimony of true love, it is sacred and solemn, some people may mistakenly think that marriage is a kind of shackles, which can tie two people together, or some people think that there is a home Although marriage is essentially just a formality, it must have a very profound meaning

Either way, it should come naturally, regardless of the reason. Let everything that should happen happen, and follow the trend, without force or deliberateness.

I like this sentence very much: Let's get married, I'm idle anyway, it's really boring to fight, so as not to be lonely.

May you be happy.

Then don't give birth, the parents who are under pressure keep calling around, but it's better not to give birth if you don't have the conditions.

Some people think that two people can start their own business!

Getting married and having children is the happiest thing in life, and it is also the happiest happy event. Career is created by people, and life is created by two people. It doesn't matter if you have money or not, you can be happy, having children is the crystallization of love, and it is also the greatest wish in life.

As long as there is nothing that cannot be done in the struggle, is it man-made?