I want to leave my home, but I can t bear my dad when I think of going outside

Silly girl, compare the pain of your breakup with your love for two loved ones, which is heavier? A lot of pain is created by ourselves, isn't it just breaking up, isn't it just not together, the road of life is still so long, when are you going to be in pain? So, don't think about that, it's the same to feel uncomfortable and go to **, the important thing is to find a way not to feel uncomfortable, that is, don't think about it, is it worth it for you to be like this?

If it's happy, we have to try to chase it, but if it's painful, just put it aside, and ignore it for a long time.

As for dad and grandma, can you protect them? Can you fight that mom of yours? How much energy do you have? I don't know.

So, my conclusion is that it is okay to go and leave the house for a while, but definitely not at this time when you are in pain. Spend more time with your loved ones at home, learn something and grow your skills, and make yourself stronger, both spiritually and materially. People grow up in forgetting.

You should believe that love is single-minded, you can see that you love your current boyfriend very much, what is he hurting you, I don't think it's emotional, small things may be a little contradictory, it's good in the past, don't care too much, two people should understand each other when they are together. There are such good people to love, and I love so much, what is there not to be satisfied with, you are very happy, let me be a little envious and cherish it

You must all love each other very deeply, now the most important thing is whether you still love him, if you love him, you should fight for him, there will be no contradictions in life, the key is how you face and solve, escape is not the way to make you more painful. Don't go.

It's normal to be sad, there's no need to deliberately restrain it, it's not good for emotions, and find a healthy hobby for yourself in your free time, such as sports, fitness or something. Anyway, if you work hard to live and make yourself feel fulfilled and happy, you will be able to reduce the pain of loss, and on the day of the festival or other special days, you can spare it to remember your father, and focus your time thinking about your father, so that you can compress this emotion together, and when you release it, you will find that you don't think about him so often, and you won't be too sad when you think about it.

People will always pass away, you have to look to the future, because people are moving forward, cherish your own life, don't leave regrets, cherish the family that is still with you now, your father will live well in another world, I wish you happiness

My father has just passed away, and it is certain that I feel uncomfortable, and it is normal to think about it, after all, my father can only live in our minds now, if we don't even think about it, then we will completely forget? It's been 7 years, and it's been a long time, if you have time, go to the cemetery to see him, talk to him, if your father likes to drink before his death, bring some wine, and if he likes to smoke, bring some cigarettes, maybe it will gradually fade in a few years, and it won't be so uncomfortable to think of his father.

People have feelings, this is normal, to prove that you are a filial person, the best way is to divert your attention and try to achieve what your father wants

It's normal to feel uncomfortable, but the deceased is gone, so cherish the people who are still there.