I want to leave home, I don t want to live here, I hate it

Don't care so much about them, they may have some troubles, at this time, you should get along with them well, not to avoid them all the time, you shouldn't hate them all the time, everyone has annoyance, when we are annoyed, there may be such extreme behavior towards the family.

Now what we have to do is to calm ourselves down, don't have a stinky face when facing them, and when they get better, talk to them kindly, let them spit out the troubles in their hearts, comfort them well, and hope that you will work hard to maintain a balance in the family.

Your parents are really excessive, you are 4 years older and go outside to make your own world. Or you're afraid that you can't leave them, and you won't have a financial ** without them, generally speaking, it's a good idea to talk about it. But your own mother is too ......This method basically does not work.

Sometimes I'm similar to you, I want to die, I remember last summer my mother forced me to do this and that every day, and often beat me (because we live together), but now I've moved so it's much better. You might as well rent a house outside, and they'll probably agree.

In the eyes of our parents, we seem to be children who will never grow up, but we often feel that we have the ability to take care of ourselves, but our parents still do not want us to fly freely, so that we will be bored with our parents and will have a rebellious mentality, leading to more and more estrangement from our parents. Try to have a heart-to-heart conversation with your parents, try to understand each other, this is a shortcut, I hope you empathize with each other, stand in the perspective of a parent.

What kind of home is this?!

forced me to write a promise for the future".

Nothing for me, no food, no water, no money".

My mom thought I was sick and had a brain problem and wanted to take me to a neurological hospital, so she found me a specialist" "And my mom threatens me every day to get out".

Say I'm not honest, say I'm angry with her".

My mom told me every day that as long as I didn't go to work, she scolded me until 1 or 2 o'clock at night every day, and I had to go to work the next day, and she said I deserved it.

If you don't say this in a momentary way or exaggerate, I think it is very unreasonable for the above to appear among relatives in a family, but I always feel that everything is for a reason. Do you know the psychology of your mom and him (I understand your attitude towards him and his attitude towards you), do you know what they think? Do you know why they do this to you?

Whether it's reasonable or they have a problem with what they think about you, but there is always a reason, go find it, communicate more if it is reasonable, see if it is unreasonable to see if they can change, if they don't change, fight for themselves, if you really can't change their attitude towards you, leave, you're almost a senior, and you're not too young. And, in that case, is that still your home? Is it still a home?

There is a question I didn't mention above, I think it's up to you to think of it--- is there anything you haven't done well? Think about it.

I'm also in my senior year as fast as you, and the above is just what I would do if I were you, just because I did it doesn't mean you have to do it too. Anyway, bless you and hope you get better soon.

What's good upstairs, huh? If they don't scold you that day, I guess they really don't want you anymore Haha Find a chance to talk to them That's how I came here I'm better than you Haha Have a family meeting It's good to talk about it.

If not you did it excessively. Or some kind of excesses, your parents do a little bit of a way to you. Maybe you should go out and break out; It is society that will tolerate you in the future. Wait until you have the capital. They may change you ...

Perhaps you are too stressed, resulting in very depressed emotions, and your family members cannot comfort and understand your feelings well, and your family members are overwhelmed and use extreme ways to express their concern for you.

After graduation, the work situation outside is not good, the pressure of independence is very sad, and now it is a low period, and the knot in my heart must be untied by some kind of opportunity.

The way your parents use is to add a pressure on top of your own pressure, so that you can't kick your breath. They may be worried about your health, your state of mind, and your future path. They don't know what's going on in you, or they can't communicate with you, so they don't understand you, and they use their own way to make you understand that they care about you.

Even if that attention spoils and hurts you.

Don't think about making yourself sad, think about things that you can start to change your mind around you.

Graduation means work? The family can't bear it, what else can be done to change this state of existence?

Do something that makes you happy, a small one, of course, to be healthy. You need a healthy logic loop. Slowly make yourself happy first, and then influence your parents to change your parents' mentality back to normal.

There are not many things we can change, first slowly change yourself, and then change your attitude towards your family, and in the same way, your family will become gentle because of your gentle change.

So, what's the first thing to do?

What's the first thing that will make you feel confident, happy, and healthy?

In fact, you should also think about why they want to treat you, whether they will have problems themselves, do more self-examination, be a good child, I think their attitude towards you will also change.

I have had similar experiences with the most miserable parents in the world.

The police were masochistic, and my parents dragged me to a psychiatric hospital, but I actually knew I wasn't sick.

No, there are still such parents in the world. Not quite convinced.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

Presumably, the landlord is not yet eighteen years old! When you're more mature and older, you won't think so! Both you and your parents should be considerate of each other!