How to get out of first love, will it be difficult to get out of first love

Updated on psychology 2024-07-21
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I once read a passage where the author was not clear, but it felt good, and it was written like this:

    Before love begins, you can never imagine loving someone like that; Before the love ends, you can never imagine that kind of love will disappear; Before love is forgotten, you can never imagine that such an unforgettable love will only leave a faint trace; Until love starts again, you can never imagine that kind of love again. ”

    I hope you come out soon, and I wish you happiness and happiness forever!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's solved when you fall in love again!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Men, a lot of times have to bear a lot of things, it's impossible to say that when you're sad, you cry, you can't always talk to someone else, no matter how sad you are after a breakup, you're always happy when you're together, think about it, she doesn't bring you unpleasant memories It's more distressing to forget a good memory If you have a girlfriend now, it's better Because you should put all your feelings on the person you love and the person who loves you If not, it's like the brother above said Exercise more and be with your brothers In case you feel uncomfortable, smoke a few cigarettes To be honest, I personally feel that I can't feel pain, that's impossible, and it's something that a man in his 20s can do, and I say a lot of it, and I'm venting it myself, haha, because I just met my ex-girlfriend yesterday, and I feel like you, and I'm sick to death FYI.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'm a man. I had an unforgettable first love.

    But it can only be said that it was unforgettable.

    I managed to forget about her.

    It took me more than 4 years to forget my first love.

    One day 4 years later, I saw Q who had been invisible all along

    I suddenly realized that I had forgotten about her.

    Same as other friends.

    Brother sends you a word (I'm 19 years old.) )

    Time kills everything.

    Including love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When you meet someone better than him, you feel stupid as you are.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm a man, and now I'm in the same situation as you, she's my first love, it's been 5 years, but now I'm still abandoned by her. I also hope to come out soon, time can dilute everything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, the first love that is basically difficult for many people to forget, for the following reasons: 01, it is best not to get it; 02. The beauty of first love cannot be replaced by other loves. But it's not that everyone won't forget, it's just that some people really let go of their first love, so they forget their first love and cherish their current life.

    01. If you can't get it, it's the best.

    When we like someone for the first time when we are young, our hearts are very nervous, and our eyes involuntarily move with each other, and we always can't help but want to care about each other.

    Some people's first love may end without a problem, while others start a relationship with their first love and later separate for one reason or another. But when we mature, it is always easy to miss the previous relationship, and we will also feel that our immaturity hurt the first love, so it will naturally be more difficult to forget the first love.

    And for those who have never had their first love, because they are always fantasizing about how wonderful it is to be with their first love, this idea is sometimes almost an obsession, which also makes it more difficult for them to have their first love.

    is like Xu Zheng starring Xu Lai in "Hong Kong Embarrassment", although he has married Cai Bin, but he heard that his first love goddess Yang Yi is going to hold an art exhibition, and he has also gone through all kinds of hardships and wants to see his goddess, but after finally meeting his first love, he found that it is not as beautiful as he imagined, not so much that the first love is unforgettable, but that our obsession is unforgettable.

    02. The beauty of first love cannot be replaced by other loves.

    The reason why first love is beautiful is mainly because we fall in love with someone for the first time, and even are willing to do something for the other person without hesitation, and it is precisely because of this that we feel that first love is beautiful, because first love may exhaust all our courage and ability to love others, so that we will never fall in love with someone so unhesitatingly.

    So after the first love, we will still fall in love, but we will never be as decisive as falling in love with the first love, because all our courage is given to the first love, and we will naturally feel that the first love will be more beautiful.

    Although most people are hard to forget their first love, some people will treasure their first love in their hearts, because what they want to cherish is the present, because although the first love is beautiful, it can't match the reality of the present.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After having to break up, there is a painful process of longing, but time will dilute everything, and slowly the thoughts will fade, but I will never forget the warblers and swallows under the moon before the flowers for the rest ......of my life

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes. The feeling of first love is the first feeling of love in life, which is very profound, and every relationship will be very deep. Maintain an optimistic attitude to welcome a new relationship, every relationship is a growth with new feelings.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's hard to get to the end of first love. Although the first love is young and beautiful, and there is no intervention from other factors, the two people feel that they are not suitable for getting along because they do not have too much experience, and they may break up by themselves.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How do you get out of your first love? When your first love breaks your heart, you come out naturally. When you don't come out, it proves that you haven't been hurt yet, and you still have a lot of hope for this relationship, because you always feel that he is his first love.

    So I feel very reluctant, and if he really breaks your heart, you will come out of that feeling.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello and good evening. Distract yourself and keep yourself busy.

    The rest is handed over to time, first love is often unforgettable, and it is indeed not easy to forget.

    Questions. I can meet her every day.

    Then why don't you work hard.

    Chase her back again.

    Questions. Next Saturday, the last note ......I really don't know what to do anymore.

    Whoever mentioned the breakup, the girl mentioned it.

    She is your first love, so are you her first love.

    It's easy to pick up, hard to put down. Time is a good thing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Whether the ending of first love can last a long time depends largely on various circumstances and factors, and it is impossible to generalize. However, the reason why some people will be inclined to break up may be because they are inexperienced and lack the skills and experience to deal with complex emotional issues.

    In the first love, people may explore and try many new emotional aspects with the cave, but they may also not know exactly what they need in the relationship, they may be easily distracted by external factors (such as the opinions of friends or family), or the person may not have sufficient communication and problem-solving skills. Due to the lack of such skills and experience, there may be miscommunication, misunderstandings or resentments, leading to conflict and stress, and eventually to a breakup.

    On the other hand, there may be certain situations in the first love (such as the difference between the two people in different regions, or differences in school, work, etc.), which makes it difficult for them to maintain an emotional relationship. In this case, even if two people like each other very much, they may end up parting ways.

    In short, the ending of first love may result in a breakup for various reasons. However, this does not mean that the first love will necessarily end in a breakup, and many people's first love can also lead to a long and happy ending. The key is to learn to communicate and deal with problems in order to build a strong, healthy emotional foundation.

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