What should I do if I fall out of love with my first girlfriend and it is difficult to get out

Understanding and comfort first!

Falling out of love is a pain, let alone first love!

The greater the investment and the higher the expectations, the greater the damage and psychological trauma caused by the breakup.

But emotional things can't come reluctantly, or you are not psychologically prepared for love, or you don't know enough, you are not suitable in the first place, or you cherish and work hard enough. No matter what the reason, no one wants to see the result of the breakup, and this process is also worth reflecting on.

Accept the reality, we can't always live in our own world. There is a saying that "if you fall, you will get up from **", please reflect on what is wrong with yourself? Not doing enough or inadequate?

Need to make amends and improve? Only by identifying the problems can we have a clear goal and be targeted.

There is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of those who have a heart." Please use this breakup as a foreshadowing to your success, and please start a new emotional journey. As long as you are attentive, careful, and patient, you will definitely be able to have true love and eventually get a beauty.

Truly bless you!

In fact, you don't want to come out of it yourself, just take it as a memory, maybe sour, but it is also a kind of gain

Dude, we're the same, but I'm not the first love, we've been together for three years. I'm also very distressed, and I haven't come out yet.

It's really hard to come out of the breakup of your first love.

I believe that there is a lot of beauty and happiness in this relationship of first love. There were also a lot of quarrels.

It is also possible that they broke up in the end because they loved it too much.

So since we have broken up, we have to calm down and sort out our emotions.

Think about what you should do? Am I going to be miserable like this forever? Or am I going to get out of this relationship quickly?

Well, I don't want to be miserable like this forever, I want to get out of this relationship quickly. We have to sort out the negative emotions we have. After my emotions are cleared, I will become a normal person and face the rest of my life.

In the days to come, to maintain a love and blessing to meet a new relationship.

Everyone will have the power and power to love. You didn't do a single thing wrong, and you didn't say a word wrong.

You have to understand some truths, first if you can't change any result of a thing, then you have to learn to accept everything in front of you, and in terms of feelings, we have to go with the flow, since two people are really not suitable to be together, or there is no fate together, then breaking up is the best result.

Every man must have a woman at the beginning of his life, and this relationship is doomed to decline.

People are forward-looking, and there will always be emotional twists and turns!

People should learn to be mature, men, you should be able to afford to let go Your life is still very long, since you choose to survive, you must learn to face Self-confidence is very important for men, if you can't take care of yourself, how can you take care of the people you love?

She's just a passerby in your life, and in a few years, you'll look back and think that your current pain was simply self-inflicted

The scar in my heart takes time, and if it never gets better, it's because you're constantly hurting yourself and she'll never know

Forget about it. One cannot live in memories.

The score is indeed very tempting, bai I have been good with my girlfriend for four years

It's not once or twice, the main thing is our first love, I think it's specialized, you can get along with her after he breaks up with his high school classmates Both parties will inevitably have mustard in their hearts And my girlfriend was a freshman I was only a junior in high school I still didn't survive We were also in a long-distance relationship for a year Now she is graduating from her senior year I'm only a junior Time can shorten the distance between two people and push two people far away I can only say that you are not suitable A woman doesn't even have the heart to share weal and woe with her lover Is it necessary to pay for that person And I think you, as a gentleman, can't sit idly by when she has betrayed you What kind of good woman doesn't have Is it necessary for a woman who can't tolerate you in her heart to insist I think your work is very good You can look down on your horizons There are still a lot of good women around I suggest that if you want to be with a woman for a long time, you have to have your own standards to see if this woman does not meet your requirements Can you treat each other with sincerity Feelings This thing Whoever is emotional first will be finished.

The same experience, a kind of story, a kind of heartache and sorrow, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, and dao has no chance to meet on the other side.

Maybe fate hasn't been answered.

To give love a way is also to give you a way to her.

The best medicine is that you work hard and live happily, and this is what you have to do every day to live a fulfilling life that you can forget about one day.

I believe you can do it, and I wish you to find a girl who loves you.

You are really in love to come.

She, or does she love the greatness of your own life? If your reply is that you love her, then what do you really love her? You say you're like a big brother, but it makes me think that you have a "rescue" tendency in your character, and you say you can't let go, is it because you can show your own existence value with a more ignorant girl like her?

If my words make you wonder, maybe you should reflect on whether your so-called "love" is really real. If you still keep insisting that you love her, you just love her, and you don't give up and die for her...Then what I want to advise you is that "everything in this world that you can't forget is because you haven't met the next better one, and when you meet it, you will find that you have been obsessed, but it's just a passing cloud", I hope it can help you.

I'm in a similar situation with you.

Many. Du I'm single now

People (I have been breaking up with my first love for 2 years. But in my heart, I still love her very much. When we broke up, it was, indeed, bitter (we broke up because of a long separation.

The bitter thing is that she doesn't care about me anymore. Time and distance can change a person's state of mind and dilute emotions, which I finally recognize. You're in a much better position than I am right now.

However, the feeling of being alone in my heart is very sweet. It's not easy to forget about someone, though, time will heal your wounds. Material things are important, but what's the point of an empty house?

I hope you and her come together and live happily. The sooner you get married, the sooner you get married. Matter is there anyway, right?

Time will dilute everything, people's hearts are flesh and blood, and they will not forget it quickly, and they can forget very quickly, unless they have no love at all, or they are fools. You can choose to forget about busy work, but once you are free, you will think about it. Sadness is a very painful thing, sometimes even a healthy guy can experience the feeling of a heart attack, that may be called heartache!

It really hurts, and if you don't get through, it's still not too deep.

It's easy to fall in love with someone It's hard to forget a person It's useless to think about the beauty that has passed away Love is true But people are different The way to interpret love is also different You love her But you have broken up It can only be regarded as a memory Your past sweetness Don't think about it anymore When you get along, it doesn't matter if she is ambiguous with other boys There is no one right or wrong You just need to know that you have loved someone But you can't be together If you don't understand, don't think about it Be indifferent! Being in a different place has some influence, and sincerity is spiritual! It's better to concentrate on your own business, and I wish you success!

Maybe you will never forget her, then put it in your heart, boy, you have to take it, you can put it down, I believe you will meet a girl who loves you, no matter what, life still has to go on, love yourself, others will love you more.

Let the time fade slowly, I used it for two years. I still think about it from time to time, but the feelings are not as weak as before.

There are many ways to see how you get out of the psychological shadow, I like to play games, read books, play ball, to lower blood pressure, forget the mission, forget all the information about him, delete the contact number, never stay, if it really doesn't work, go to the psychiatrist, or find another woman, and slowly forget.

All the eternal bridges will dissolve in time, nothing lasts forever, and the only one who lasts with you the longest is yourself. Ten years ago, you didn't know her, she didn't know you.