My boyfriend and I are going to get married on May 1st this year, but my boyfriend lost 400W, can I

In fact, gambling is not to say that you can quit to quit, when he starts to win, you should know that people who live by gambling are not trustworthy, at that time you should launch it as soon as possible, and you because he won before, you are with him, and now you lose you break up with him, I personally think that you are treacherous, but on the other hand, people are not for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed, and you can understand it, what I suggest to you is that since you have decided, do not hesitate, so that both of you will be hurt more deeply.

Gamblers generally won't change, see if he can get rid of his bad habits for your happiness, if you can't get rid of it, it's better to let go, now the pain is better than getting married and living in the future, arguing and getting divorced every day.

If it's me, when will I quit gambling and when will I fall in love again, otherwise don't come to me. The man I like can be talentless and unattractive, but absolutely, must be a law-abiding citizen. What I despise most is the use of illegal means to collect money.

As long as he wants to quit, he will definitely be able to quit. A man who doesn't talk is a real man, and he doesn't deserve to be liked by me.

Personally, I think that people who are addicted to gambling can't live together for a lifetime, but I want to ask you when you were together because he won money gambling and was good to you and your family, so you were together? Why do you want to break up with him now because he lost 3 million, is there any love between you? This is an important point.

Resolutely dissociate the relationship.

The country is easy to change, and its nature is difficult to change.

Especially for this kind of gambling addiction, there is no need to have hope.

You won't think about winning money? Gambling can hurt a family. Wake up. It can't be changed.

Gambling men are unreliable and give up on finding their own happiness.

That's it, now that I have money, ,,, gambling, forget it.

Your boyfriend doesn't seem to be gambling for money, it's about the same as gambling on his life, he has seen mountains and rivers, how can he look at small rivers and streams.

How to say it, I think you think it's quite far, and you're right, you're not young, he has a bad temper, his salary is not high, and having a child in the future is indeed a problem, everything depends on how you choose, you can choose the next one, it's understandable, you also hope that your children's life can be better in the future.

If you really love him, you should be tolerant, and then you have to see if this man is worth it.

Marriage is your own business, you first have to ask yourself if you are ready to get married? But after marriage, it is a matter of two families, so if you are mentally prepared, let your boyfriend mobilize his family to prepare for marriage, after all, he needs the approval and blessing of his family to be happy.

After letting him communicate with his family, he will know whether to get married or not.

Is it because his parents don't like you?

On May 1st, they may be in financial difficulty, and time is relatively tight, so he wants to postpone it. And her mother is afraid that you will change your hexagram, so early.

You can discuss it with him, or August 8, 2008 will be fine. My girlfriend's dad wants us to get married on May 1st, how can I get in time? I didn't do anything. (Ordering banquets, sending invitations, finding time to register, and decorating the wedding room) It is also more generous to earn a few more months of money for marriage.

Personal opinion only:

When to get married is a matter for the two of you, you should sit down and talk about it, listen to what he means, why it is until the end of the year. If you take his opinion, then convince your mom. If you can't accept it, then explain your thoughts to him.

You should make your own decisions, don't just listen to what others say, you should know in your heart what is good for everyone.

I hope you can be happy.

As long as the relationship is good, it doesn't matter if it's a little later.

When you get married is a matter for the two of you

This shows that you still don't like him enough, and he still doesn't feel safe with you, so I think you're still watching everywhere.

Since I hesitated, I wanted not to be in such a hurry to get married. After all, many things will be more troublesome after getting married, and it won't hurt one or two people.

In my opinion, as long as one partner hesitates, it proves that you are not yet married to each other.

You're hesitating. Explain that you don't want to get married yet.

When you really want to get married, you won't hesitate.

Let's take a closer look.

You are already hesitating, indicating that he is not doing well in some aspects, at this time you have to consider whether you can accept the shortcomings of his work, and you must know that his problems can not be changed all at once, but for a long time. If you can bear it, stay together, and break up if you can't stand it.

What kind of man you choose is what kind of life you choose. Think about what you really want.

You are a premarital phobia, if the relationship between the two is stable and there are no problems in all aspects, think about it carefully, just do it if it is worth it, and don't put pressure on yourself.

It's a bit of a premarital phobia.、It's time to get married.。 It's been a long time, and I might have run away.

Let's meet the parents first, learn more, and understand deeply.

Love is together, and when it comes, it is safe.

If you hesitate, don't do it! Add a little more time! Be sure to remember.

Ask him what you like, and you'll have the answer.

Desperate? What is everything?

Elf Prince, my father-in-law, oh oh, public class, truffles, chocolate, Coca-Cola.

You should ask your family.

Ask yourself what your heart thinks!!

Being nice to you is enough to make you desperate.

I'm also struggling to get married, what should I do? Can you help explain it, thank you.

Most of the boys who don't want to get married are in a playful mentality, because after getting married, the responsibility will be heavier!

A man who truly loves you is a good man who will be willing to take care of you and love you for a lifetime.

Otherwise, how could you be willing to waste the rest of your life on him?

It's easy to say I love you with a mouth, but it's hard to take care of you with a lifetime of effort, try to communicate more and know his heart. If you don't want to marry you and tie the knot, but you break up early, go find the next man who is willing to pay for you!

If you really want to live with him for the rest of your life, it's good to change yourself.

Try to work hard to become what he wants, and if the result is still not satisfactory, at least you will not regret it.

Prove to him that you can live a good life together

When he says that, you have to understand why he says that

My dear, leave him, the one who loves you will give you a warm home that belongs to you, even if you are not suitable for life, he will be willing to accept all your habits if you love you, and he still wants you to know your shortcomings; Don't look forward to the love of charity:

Impotence is not cancer... If you believe that he is the man you have followed all your life, then this is your common problem, face the problem, analyze the cause, and actively solve it, this is what you should do now. In fact, it depends on your boyfriend's attitude, he wants to be positive**, and hopes to show his strength, then there is no problem, **That's it.

However, if you have a relationship problem, then go straight byebye, there is no need to be wronged for a man you don't love or don't love you. Remember: Couples start as lovers, then become loved ones.

If your relatives are in trouble, can you help?

If you still love him, please give him more confidence, and if you can tell him about it and help him find a cure, that's the best policy. Impotence is not a flood beast!

Your boyfriend is honest and sincere, but impotence is not a poisonous snake and can be dealt with.

It is advisable not to consider the reality that you may be able to endure for a while, but when you get married, you will be able to go to the doctor for a lifetime.

Why don't you help him, how much he cherishes you.

I'm 30 years old this year, and it's a good time for men to work under pressure and get tired easily. It's very bad, it's very soft, it's less than 3 minutes at a time, don't laugh at me!

I have bought a lot of Dongdong in a certain treasure, and it has no effect at all! I'm!

There are no impermeable walls, and once a dinner party with friends, they talked about me as a joke while eating, not to mention how embarrassing it was. After drinking, they all told the truth, it turned out that it was not just my problem, several of them also had the same difficulties, and one of the brothers told everyone an article called Husband and Wife, and told us to take a good look. Then smiled mysteriously.

Saying that the listener was unintentional, I studied it according to the method in the text, and after a month, I really witnessed a miracle, 20 minutes is normal, I persevered for another 3 months, and now I feel that I can't finish it. "

You should give it up, or wait until you are cured to get married.

Get married first. It's not innate.

Live firewood, rice, oil, and salt are the most real. Fame and reputation, illusory.

lz I understand you :

First of all, you don't live with your mother-in-law for the rest of your life, and you only go back every once in a while, and you don't live together. So, it's not a big problem.

2.Your boyfriend and you are married, have you privately discussed that the family can pay part of the money to buy a house, such as the down payment of your two families, and then his down payment, your home decoration buys appliances and furniture, and also gives the other party's family a step. Of course, if people don't give you this face, don't agree to get married indiscriminately.

It's divided, although it's reluctant, but it's basically not guaranteed, so how can I talk about happiness in the future.

The salary is indeed not high, your boyfriend is high in software, and I feel that the salary is lower than that of his peers, of course, he is just starting, and you are not bad. But getting married really has to be considered, after marriage, repaying the loan, living, and having a child, 7000 feels that it is difficult to eat.

4.When you talk to your boyfriend, you have to tell him that you love him, but now you have a lot of big concerns, and he has to take them into account.

5.If your boyfriend says something like "what will happen in the future, what will happen in the future", you still don't listen to it all first, because no one knows what will happen in the future, because he is going to get married now, and short-term goals and life cannot reassure you. Who knows later. Depends on luck.

6.Basic security is a must. It is not required that a big house have a car, at the very least, life can be maintained.

The advice of the people who came over, you hesitated before getting married, and marriage and love are two different things, in this case, you had better not marry him, wait until you think about it clearly, the other party's family, and the economy actually directly affect the happiness after marriage, now he is good to you, what about after marriage? If you are not very happy, then you will form a strong sense of grievance, and then you will be more tired to live, which will lead to a vicious circle! Wait, if he doesn't want to, divide it!

Don't be yourself!

I feel like getting married.

It's a lifelong event for two people, you actually have an idea in your heart, I think you have to bring it up with him, you have to have a house to get married, it's too child's play to just go back to your hometown to get married, you are married into their family, if you don't even have the least respect and dignity, I think your suffering will be indispensable in the future, and your husband is really selfish, thinking that if you follow him now, he won't take you seriously. You should let him understand that in fact, love is both beautiful and cruel, if he has nothing, it is impossible to find a girl like you in this society. Just test your husband by buying a house when you get married, see how he and his family react, if you reject you in one bite, I think the person you are looking for is very selfish and his family is the same, do you think you won't regret following such a person?

It's hard to find a good woman now, there are really too many men with cars and houses at home, and the unmarried men around me all have cars and houses with an annual salary of more than 200,000 yuan, but they can't find a suitable girl, so you still have to look farther, maybe there will be new surprises.

You don't want to get married because you feel like your life is not secure. In fact, the salary of the two of you is not low, save money and work together to buy a house, as long as you both want. I also got married first, and then bought a house, we saved some money, and it was enough for the family to get a little down payment, and then you slowly paid off the mortgage.

Get your boyfriend back. When you have children, the house should be down. Life is bound to get better and better.

It's normal to be a little one and let the old man go, after all, it's an old man. If you don't want to tie the knot or.

He said that he didn't want to tie the knot now, so you can talk to him about your thoughts, don't take your thoughts to heart, make him feel that you don't want to be with him, or be suspicious. After all, your conditions are better than his current conditions, so he will have a sense of crisis, it is like this, it also shows that he cares about you, everything and everyone is in communication, communicate more, the heart will be close, and each other will not feel cold. Bless you all.

It seems that you are looking far away, it feels really good, after all, you have to live together in the future, everything must be considered clearly, marriage is to have basic conditions, if your boyfriend really loves you, he must give you a perfect home, that can only be achieved through his efforts, so look at the current way he has no effort at all, he has not yet been a man, and is still in the stage of falling in love, so you must talk to him about this aspect of the problem, so that he can change his mind, Hope it helps!