After being separated for a long time, is there any hope for reuniting?

Updated on amusement 2024-07-11
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It is not impossible for two people to want to get back together after a few years of separation, but it requires great fate and opportunities between you to meet, know and love each other again. But even if you get back together, you'll still encounter the following problems. 1. Whether the two still love each other as deeply as before.

    Time has passed, and it has long been a matter of things and people, and with the passage of time, both of them may have changed their appearance, and they are no longer the same selves they used to be. Feelings are easy to change a person, especially for two people who truly love each other, the deeper they love together, the greater the change after the breakup, most people will lose a love at the same time, and become a different look. So if two people meet again, please make sure that person is still not the person you originally loved, and you are still not your original self.

    2. What were the reasons for the separation in the first place, and have these problems been solved? What would you do next time you had a problem like this? There is a reason why two people break up, because money, because both parties disagree and are unwilling to compromise, or because of the intervention of a third party, which can be the reason for your separation.

    You have to deal with these problems first before you get back together, because that's the main reason why you're separated, and if there are still conflicts because of these now, then there's no need to get back together, because even if you get back together now, you'll still be separated because of such problems.

    3. Whether the two sides can accept each other's past. The two have been separated for several years, and there may be different people on both sides who love each other and even live together. In the face of your past, will you be able to accept all this, accept that the person you once loved loved was in love with someone of the opposite sex?

    This must be considered clearly, if you can't accept it, dispel the idea of getting back together as soon as possible, because if you mind the other person's past but still have to be with him, it is not a good thing for both of you, and it may be the fuse of your conflict in the future.

    In fact, there is little possibility of two people getting back together after separation, and the longer they are separated, the less hope there is for getting back together. Because if two people are separated, they will each change a lot, and it will be difficult to become the original self. Therefore, if you want to have no regrets in your life, you must cherish the feelings you have at this time, cherish the lover around you, no matter how much hardship you endure at this time, you will get a lifetime of happiness after this hardship, and you will not have regrets for the rest of your life.

    In the end, we still have to know how to cherish the people in front of you, don't wait to regret it, some people may never come back once they miss it, and the rest of their lives are still very long, so don't leave irreparable regrets in your life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think it's basically hopeless, because it's been too long, and his feelings for you may have long since worn out.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There is not much hope, because the two have been separated for a long time and already have their own lives, and the possibility of wanting to get back together is relatively small.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hopeful. This is because if two people want to get back together, it means that the relationship is very important to you, and the two people are not willing to separate, so there are some ways to save each other in time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There is no hope, after a long time, the feelings will fade and the people will change.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After a year of breakup, say you want to get back together with your old lover. First of all, you should first understand what the current situation of the other party is. Could he already have a new girlfriend?

    If there is, then you still have to dispel this thought. If there isn't one on the other side, then you can try to reach out to the other person. If the other person thinks the same way as you, then congratulations, you may be able to get back together.

    First of all, you need to check to see if the other person has a new girlfriend. If he already has a new girlfriend, then it is not appropriate for you to go over and disturb them. If you know that you don't have a girlfriend, then you can also learn about other aspects of him.

    For example, you can find out what kind of work he is doing now and what his life situation is like. You can get to know him through some of his friends, or in other ways.

    After you have more or less of the situation, then you can contact the other person. You can chat with him on WeChat first, and you can ask him how he is doing recently. You can go and ask for warmth like an ordinary friend, or an old friend.

    After you say that, he probably knows what you mean. Because under normal circumstances, if two people break up, it is usually not very connected. If you take the initiative to contact each other, then there is a high probability that you have the willingness to get back together.

    If he can give you a positive reply and come out with you to chat, then there is a good chance that you will be able to get back together.

    Eventually, you can invite it out for a meal or something. At the time of this meal, you can talk to him about your recent life situation and some of your thoughts. Because if he can agree to come out with you, there is a high probability that he will also want to get back together with you.

    If he hates you to the core, and doesn't like you at all, then he won't come out with you.

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  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Just ask the other party directly if they have a partner, and if not, they will bring up the matter of reunion, and generally the other party will agree.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In such a situation, I think you should take the initiative to communicate with the other party, and if the other party does not find the other half, you should take the initiative to seek reunion.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To take the initiative to understand the other party's situation, you must seize the opportunity and try to appear in front of the other party.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Two people have been separated for a long time, I don't know if they have changed each other during this time, or contact with some new things, if they still love each other in their hearts and get back together, the chances are still relatively large, if each other is not touched by the original reunion, there may be no hope.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The longer they are separated, the more difficult it is to get back together, because people's thoughts and feelings will change, and when people change, they will not look at the previous feelings very important.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    For couples who have been apart for a long time, if you want to get back together again, I think it's really small, after all, the two of you have been apart for too long, and the other party doesn't know what kind of attitude the other party has towards you, so I think you still need to fight for it yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    As long as there is still this kind of good relationship between two people, or both people want to get back together, or they still want to cherish each other, there will definitely be this hope of getting back together, so you should still have hope.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    For couples who have been apart for a long time, there is a certain hope if they want to be together again, because as long as the relationship between two people has not really disappeared, then they still have a chance of coming together again.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It doesn't matter if the relationship between two people doesn't change, even if they have been separated for a long time, two people are together, they still have the same feeling as they were at the beginning, they can still get back together, and they can try it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello friends, for couples who have been separated for a long time, if they want to get back together, they hope that they should be more confused, and if they are confused for a long time, they may find their other half.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There must be hope, you should still have hope, as long as you want to get back together with the other party in your heart, as long as you correct your shortcomings, you and the other party say this kind of thing well, your probability will be very large.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no hope for couples who have been separated for a long time to get back together, because there is already a deep estrangement between such couples.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think there's hope. If two people want to be really together, they will definitely not break up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hopefully, because neither person has a significant other, and both have feelings for each other, it is easy to get back together.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hopeful. If two people have always liked each other very much, and have always cared about each other, they will eventually reconcile.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If two people have feelings, it is very likely that they will get back together, and if both people are more attentive, there is no hope.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It depends on whether the other party still has you in their hearts and whether they are still single.

    1. Give the other person time and space to calm down.

    When they first broke up, there was an element of anger in both parties, and neither of them might be willing to bow their heads to anyone, although they had remorse in their hearts at that time, they would not show it in front of each other. During this time, it is better for both parties not to disturb each other, and give each other enough personal space, so as to think clearly about what they want, and whether it was right to do so in the first place.

    2. Strive to improve yourself.

    During this time, don't just bask in the sadness of falling out of love, you have to believe that as long as you both have each other in your hearts, you will definitely come together again. So, during this time, all you have to do is to work hard to improve yourself, learn what you love, participate in more social activities, and let the other person see a better you. Something new always has a unique attraction to people, and when you stand in front of him with a new self, he or she will definitely shine in front of her.

    3. Reflect on your own shortcomings.

    If you want to get your ex back, then you must think about what shortcomings you still have that your ex doesn't like, you can recall the mistakes that the other party intentionally or unintentionally talked about when you were together in the past and wanted you to correct them, and then do your best to correct them, and find a way to let the other party see your determination to change for him, such as posting moments, etc.

    4. Take the initiative to contact the other party.

    After going through the first three steps, I believe that the other party has changed their opinion of you, and it is likely that he or she also regrets breaking up with you in the first place. Therefore, at this time, as long as you take the initiative, contact each other more, care more about each other's life, health status, and so on. When appropriate, ask the other party to come out to relax, and say that you still have each other in your heart, hoping to continue to walk together, I believe that at this time, as long as the other party can't let go of you, then you will definitely be able to continue the edge.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you want to get back together after being separated for a long time, this hope is not very big. Of course, if you want to get back together, try hard, because there are many things that you need to work on yourself. It is possible that hard work will have results.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Although you have been separated for a long time, as long as you are willing to get back together, there will still be hope, because whether you can get back together depends on the subjective wishes of both parties, as well as the joint efforts of both parties.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's okay to try, but be prepared to fail. Because they have been separated for a long time, both of them will have some changes in their mentality now, and maybe the other party has already had a new relationship.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After being separated for a long time, you suddenly want to get back together, I personally think there is still hope. You don't want to miss out. So if you want to save this time, you can ask her out for dinner. You can't get back together, you can be friends and draw a happy person for yourself. Best.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hello, it's better not to do that. Most people will still encounter the same problems as the original after separation, and there are still many contradictions, and the separation proves that fate has not arrived, and there is no need to force it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you have been separated for a long time, there is still hope of getting back together, because the former feelings have not been completely forgotten, but relatively speaking, the probability is not very high.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This matter depends on the wishes of you and your partner, if your boyfriend or girlfriend, he still has you in his heart, and then you also have his words in his heart, you can try to bring it up with him to get back together, see what the situation is, if he doesn't have you in his heart, I don't think you should mention this matter, because he doesn't think about it anymore, so there is no need to tell him about it again.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't get back together, there's no need to waste each other's time.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The main thing is to see how long apart? Half? A year? Three years? Five years? You don't need to watch it for more than 10 years! It's been a long time coming!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you want to get back together after being separated for a long time, the hope is not very great. Because at this stage, both people are calm down and have not communicated together, it means that they have been disappointed in this relationship, so this is the case. Of course, you can also try it, there may be a chance.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you don't want to be hopeless, you have to do something to be possible.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Summary. 1. Will you get back together after more than a year of separation1. When the couple breaks up in the year after they break up, you have to know if the other party has a new boyfriend, if there is, then you have to give up your ex, and if it is still going on, one is to avoid betraying one's trust, and the other is to avoid several people from getting entangled together and having some troubles, and in the end you don't get anything. 1. Will you get back together after more than a year of separation1. When the couple breaks up in the year after they break up, you have to know if the other party has a new boyfriend, if there is, then you have to give up your ex, and if it is still going on, one is to avoid betraying one's trust, and the other is to avoid several people from getting entangled together and having some troubles, and in the end you don't get anything.

    Will you get back together after more than a year apart, will you get back together after more than a year apart.

    1. Will you get back together after being separated for more than a year 1, when the couple breaks up in the year after the group, you have to know if the other party is Mori Zhi and whether he has a new boyfriend, if Yan Chun Tang has it, then you have to give up your ex, and if it is still going on, one is to avoid betraying one's trust, and the other is to avoid several people from getting entangled together and having some troubles, and in the end you don't get anything.

    Can you tell us more about that?

    1. Will you get back together after being separated for more than a year 1, when the couple breaks up in the year after the breakup, you have to know if the other party has a new boyfriend, if Yan Chun Tang has it, then you have to give up your ex, and if it is still going on, one is to avoid betraying one's trust, and the other is to avoid several people from getting entangled together and having some troubles, and in the end you don't get anything. 1. Will you get back together after being separated for more than a year 1, when the couple breaks up in the year after the reunion, you have to know if the other party is Mori Zhi and whether he has a new boyfriend, if there is, then you have to give up your ex, and if it is still going on, one is to avoid betraying others, and the other is to avoid several people from getting together and having some troubles, and in the end you don't get anything.

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