Learning to choose It takes courage to dare to give up

Mediocre people only know the pursuit, and they don't know how to give up, because they invest too much, such as a lot of unrequited love, and a really strong man, a formal and truly outstanding man, his charm and masculinity do not lie in his height and appearance, because these are given by his parents, and the external things will be lost after all, and the reason why outstanding men are outstanding is that they can afford to let go, because they are not afraid of losing, and they are used to give up when they love something the most, such as the woman they like, And this is exactly what ordinary men can never do, because to do this, it takes a lot of courage and a lot of pain to endure, because this is an instinct that only strong male leaders have.

Well, giving up also requires courage, sometimes giving up seems to be losing something, but maybe you will get more in the future, the difficulty is difficult at the moment of giving up we will be very conflicted in our hearts, and then we will feel that we don't know if we will regret it after giving up, whether we will choose the wrong one, but if after thinking about it, it is determined that it is right to give up, then it is still to restrain oneself from that kind of reluctance, sadness, give up, as the so-called long pain is not as good as short pain, the old saying is right.

When you were born, you cried and the people around you laughed; When you die, you laugh and the people around you are crying! Everything is reincarnation! We are all in reincarnation!

There are gains and losses, and everything has its two sides. It takes courage to give up.

Your idea is very good. Just do it, and you'll be happy.

During this time, the circle of friends around me and the circle of friends were overwhelming, and there were various statements and comments about Ma Yili's divorce in the article. Compared with many noisy couples who refuse to let go, I believe that such a separation should be to be better themselves. It really takes a lot of courage to let go like this.

All along, what we hear is that happiness is earned by ourselves. However, such a struggle should be a precondition, not a blind continuation. What's the point of fighting each other if it's going to make each other tired, if it's going to consume time and energy?

At this time, maybe letting go will make each other better.

Whether you strive for it or give up, the premise should be to be yourself better and achieve each other. In real life, most of us seem to have an easier way to go, but it takes a lot of courage to let go.

I once heard a story that there were many monkeys in the forest, and they often mischievous, but the monkeys were too flexible and very smart, and although they often spoiled the good things of the hunters, the hunters could not do anything with the monkeys. Later, the hunter came up with the idea of putting the monkey's favorite food in the tree hole where the monkey often moves, and the monkey monkey saw that it was delicious and naturally stretched out his paw to get it, but found that the paw could not be retrieved and was caught. And the worst thing is that even so, the monkeys are still reluctant to throw away the food.

In fact, we are not like those little monkeys, holding on to our self-righteous things and reluctant to throw them. For example, a job is obviously very aggrieved, and you can't see the space and platform, but you are still attached to that stable salary. As everyone knows, what you covet now will become the future you regret, choose comfort too early at an age when you shouldn't be satisfied with the status quo, don't want to break through, and then your life is full of ambition and regret.

Blindly resigning is irresponsible for your own life, and knowing that this job is no longer satisfying and you can't achieve what you want is still greedy, in fact, you receive the salary given by the boss and squander your youth.

On the road of life, we always need to keep choosing and giving up. Both choice and abandonment require rational thinking. Strive for what you should strive for, give up what you should give up, you may let go of your obsession when you are struggling and sad, and maybe you will suddenly open up when you think about it from a different angle.

Sometimes I think it's very important to stick to one thing, and it also requires a certain amount of courage, and there are many examples of persisting in doing something to the end in life, and it is also very admirable for that kind of perseverance and patience, but if life requires you to give up something, it often takes more courage and determination.

When reality forces you to give up, most people have to go through a lot of hardships, and I think only those who have experienced this process will experience. It's easy to give up. When you decide to give up on something or a person, everything is over, and letting go can be very easy or painful for you.

But as long as you give up, there will be nothing, as long as you insist on persevering, maybe there will be unexpected surprises for you, who knows?

In my opinion, it takes more courage to persevere than to give up. Persistence requires faith, and when you decide to stick with it, you are confident and you are hopeful for your future. In the end, whether you succeed or not, you are successful because you persevered.

In our lives, there are also many successful people, and at the beginning, they will also have a lot of failures, but they persevere. They succeeded in the end, and I think it takes more courage to persevere than to give up, and those who can persevere to the end will never lose, right?

I wanted to give up, give up the job I'd been doing for 20 years.

I gave up because I couldn't see the hope and possibility in myself in this job, and I had hit a bottleneck.

It's all the more because I saw at a glance what my future would look like, the uncles around me who are nearly 60 years old, their present is my future, which is not what I want.

Sometimes, we think that persistence is very brave and inspirational, and its chain is reputable, and our insistence is nothing more than fear of other people's disappointment, and fear of the price we have paid in the past, as well as uncertainty and lack of confidence in the future.

In the past 20 years, I have said that I have not worked hard, which is false, and I will feel sorry for my past self.

I don't dare to say how hard I worked, but I must have worked hard.

When we give our all for one thing, you are qualified to give up.

It takes more courage to give up than to persevere.

Have the courage to give up your wrong views, stubborn views, dare to choose choices that are conducive to your physical and mental health, and insist on choosing the right path for your own development.

Persistence takes a long time, and giving up is only in a split second.

Imagine that when a person stumbles and falls into a cliff, he grabs the cliff with both hands, he persists hard, and finally waits for rescue. If it's to give up, just let it go.

You can also cite the rescue of Wenchuan**, Zhouqu mudslide and so on.

Either die quickly, or live wonderfully.

You can cite the deeds and quotes of Liu Wei, the champion of China's Got Talent.

To give up means to let go, including life, including beliefs, including ideals. Giving up means the end, in fact, it is the easiest, because there is no need to face it, it is a sign of escape. There is a saying that it is harder to live than to die.

Because in the face and persistence, it means to encounter more difficulties and setbacks in the future, and hone our will and courage.

Persistence is also a kind of renunciation.