If you don t fall in love anymore, can you be friends again?

Break up without real friends. Even if you are friends, it's okay not to meet, but when you do, it will inevitably be a little ambiguous. The key is to see what you think! Be an emotional confidant, or an ordinary friend.

When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time. There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends? The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend? The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care. Otherwise, even if we don't love it now, what should I do not remember the memories of so many sweetness along the way at the moment when I face you? Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends. But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery. We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

It's better to keep walking until you meet someone else you can love. A breakup is a breakup, a decision, never mention being friends. If you don't love him anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him if you still love him, and don't ask him to turn back.

When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends. Just the most familiar strangers.

I think this kind of problem, with lovers and estranged friends, it is appropriate. It's human nature, if you think about who will be with you the longest, and that is your partner.

Friends are important, but even more important than friends is your partner, who is with you in the same ups and downs. If I had to choose between friends and lovers, I would choose lovers first.

I feel the sort of intimate relationships in life, lovers, parents, children, friends, and others. The lover is the most important thing, and he will accompany you for the rest of your life.

A friend may be with you for many years, maybe a few years, but a lover is a friend who will accompany you for life. If your friend asks you to choose between a lover and him, or embarrass you, I don't think this friend is a very good friend.

When you walk out of school, all the friends you make have a certain interest relationship, that is, everyone says that there is no eternal friendship, but there are permanent interests.

We don't have to spend a lot of energy to maintain our friendship, I think the best way to maintain a friendship relationship is to be self-respecting and make yourself a person worthy of the trust of others.

Only if you become worthwhile, others will want to maintain this friendship relationship with you, that is to say, you have to be valuable to others, if your friends are prosperous in the future development. But you're still stagnant, just like you were ten years ago. Then others are willing to help you, are you embarrassed to go to others again and again?

This kind of debt is very difficult to pay off.

Therefore, there is an old saying that as long as you have the ability, you will have friends, as long as you are not capable, no matter how much experience you spend on making friends, in the end others will not really look up to you. Because there is no value in making friends with you, everyone is now focusing on a win-win situation.

This is a society full of interests, having money means that you have friends, if you don't have money, everyone looks down on you, don't bully the poor is a nonsense, you will find that if you don't change, you will become a middle-aged poor don't bully.

As long as you have value, what you say is right, when you have money, you have more friends, what you say is the truth, and you can really deduct generously, when you have no money, you can only pretend that you have money.

I think lovers need the most time and the most energy to maintain, and friends can only be ranked after lovers, and they can never surpass the relationship between lovers.

Because once someone who has truly loved breaks up, there must be some irreconcilable contradictions. So how can you be friends? Because when you meet Wu or when you contact us, you still think of these contradictions, or will you be heartbroken, or will you hurt your heart?

It's simply unacceptable, so you can't be friends at all, unless someone hasn't loved. Yes, this result is also acceptable, and they will be willing to be friends.

Because two people have experienced too many feelings, they have loved and hurt, and it is difficult to be friends again.

Under what circumstances can I be friends?

It's the reason why the two of you broke up because of some helpless reason, both of them like each other very much, and they can't let go of each other, but they just can't be together, and they don't touch any principles and bottom lines, in this case, I think it's still necessary to be friends, because of the care of each other, if you really block and delete each other, there is no intersection between the two people, then you still can't control it to search for his WeChat, Douyin, and so on, to silently follow him, secretly follow him, I don't think it's necessary, to be generous enough to admit that the two of you are together and have loved each other deeply; If we can be friends, we can meet once in a while and have a chat, which I think is great, but if one of us has a new relationship, I think we should politely quit and not disturb each other.

Under what circumstances should you resolutely not be friends?

It's that two people break up because one party is seamless, or he talks to other people behind your back to talk ambiguously, he cuckolds you, she tells you that her family disagrees, these reasons are touching the principle and the bottom line, destroying the reason for the sensitive clapping, resolutely not being friends with her, it will lower your grade, there are many couples who are reluctant to be with each other after breaking up, and they still like each other, but they are afraid that they can't control their emotions, so they run to beg him, go to him, so they will block him and delete him, But from time to time, I will pull him out of the blacklist, and then look at his dynamics, see what he has posted recently, every day is very tormented, very tormented, I think you have such a mentality, it is better to pull him out frankly, two people can meet occasionally, to be friends to talk about their hearts, everyone is an adult, if you really care about each other, there is no need to be so decisive, you can be friends ah Qiao Xinxian!

You are cautious, and you generally don't hide your friends. If two people break up, if they are still pulling and pulling, it is not good for the future life of two people, and if it is two people who have loved each other after breaking up, there is a high probability that they will not contact each other again.

Breaking up will not make lovers, and it is difficult to make friends. Since there is no fate in this life, they will be okay with each other.