My girlfriend goes out with the opposite sex, not alone, but I just mind, am I too much?

Relax, she's just going out for an ordinary party, and it's a lot of people together and not a separate date, so there's nothing to care about, although you are a couple, but she and you also have their own lives, you can't restrict her freedom, it's also disrespectful and distrustful to her, so don't worry too much.

This shows that you love him very much, and it can't be said that you are excessive, it can only mean that your possessiveness is relatively large! It also shows that you don't have enough self-confidence!

I think you have to trust your girlfriend because there are a lot of girls who take relationships very seriously.

You can go to play with your girlfriend, or dissuade your girlfriend, or you can ask your girlfriend to stay with you, or you can ask your girlfriend to report her safety at any time.

If you can't rest assured, you can hang out with your girlfriend so that you can protect her and she won't be harmed.

If you don't plan to marry her home, just a girlfriend, then it doesn't matter how many friends she has of the opposite sex, you won't marry her anyway, but if you treat her as half of your future, she has a lot of friends of the opposite sex, I think it needs to be said, girls I think it's normal to have friends of the opposite sex, but to understand the sense of boundaries, you already have an object, you shouldn't have so many people of the opposite sex with your brother and brother.

And after falling in love, this sense of boundary with the opposite sex before the sex should be shown, we don't have too much communication in private, it's best not to contact in private except for work, I am with my boyfriend when I get home, and I am with my boyfriend after work, instead of accompanying this lovelorn buddy for a while, and going shopping and eating hot pot with that brother for a while, you say that you are like this, which boy will rest assured.

Boys are possessive, empathy is, your girl has a boyfriend, and as a result, this boyfriend has a group of female friends around Yingying Yanyan, these female friends Your boyfriend said that we are just friends, do you dare to ask for such a boyfriend, are you not afraid of these Yingying Yanyan They just covet your boyfriend, no one will be insecure, right?

When two people are together, they should keep their distance from the opposite sex around them, no longer contact unless necessary, do not contact in private unless necessary, contact at work if they are at work, if they are good buddies before, they can take their boyfriend to play with him, if they don't just go alone, think about what your boyfriend will think. Although it is said that we can make friends as we like in this era, after having a significant other, we still have to consider each other's feelings.

She can't give you the sense of security you want, you have to think about whether you want to continue to be with her, because you can't manage it, after all, you can't control the freedom of making friends, you can't control her friends, you can only control your own heart.

I think it should be decided according to the actual situation, if the girlfriend has a lot of friends of the opposite sex, but can consciously keep a distance from these friends of the opposite sex, this situation does not need to be bothered.

You should control friends like your girlfriend, because then your girlfriend will not betray and can promote the relationship between the two of you.

Of course, I would mind that the object has a good friend of the opposite sex. Because the object's friends of the opposite sex will lead to a very awkward relationship, that is, there will be some friction between yourself and your object, so it is a negative attitude to have a good friend of the opposite sex with the object.

First of all, having a boyfriend with a lot of friends of the opposite sex does add a lot of stability factors, which can also lead to a crisis in one's own relationship. In fact, we will find that most girls are still reluctant to let their boyfriends have many friends of the opposite sex, because once a boyfriend has many friends of the opposite sex, it will also lead to a lot of crises in the boyfriend's feelings for him. So it is precisely because of this that this leads to a lot of unstable factors in the dissipation of feelings, which will also lead to the quality of love.

Secondly, if your boyfriend does have a lot of female friends, it will also lead to a sense of crisis, so it will also affect the development of your relationship in the future. If your boyfriend has a lot of female friends, then there are indeed a lot of problems at this time. And it will also lead to some sense of crisis in yourself, and it will indirectly affect each other's feelings and mutual trust, so it will also increase a lot of emotional uncertainties.

Finally, I have to say that there is also a big problem with the boyfriend's self-control, so once there are more friends of the opposite sex, it will inevitably lead to some emotional disputes. In fact, I have to say that the hero is sad about the beauty, so it is precisely because of this that if the boyfriend does have a lot of friends of the opposite sex, then it will also increase at this time due to the uncertainty of the occlusion. And once you are in a relationship with friends of the opposite sex, it will inevitably be misunderstood, so it will affect the feelings between each other.

In fact, for us, boyfriends have a lot of friends of the opposite sex, and we will also mind ourselves very much at this time. And it will also increase your sense of crisis, and at the same time, in the process of relationship development, if there are some abnormal behaviors between your boyfriend and friends of the opposite sex, it will also indirectly affect your feelings with each other.

I do mind that I have a lot of friends of the opposite sex, because this is an irresponsible and serious attitude towards mutual relationships.

The most important thing between lovers is to be respectful, truly respect each other, and care about the feelings of others, so that they can get along better, and they can get more trust with each other, and work together to create a better future.

1.Keep a calm mind when communicating.

It is important not to be emotional, because being emotional may make communication stuck halfway and unable to communicate, and even lead to abandonment and failure of communication. If you feel particularly irritable and restless in the process of communication because of your emotions, you will have to stop communicating and wait for a period of time to calm down before you can continue to communicate, which will actually make all parties in the communication unhappy.

2.Communicate with full respect for the other person.

Unnecessary self-esteem and pride will only become a stumbling block to communication, so it is foolish to judge at least to abandon one's so-called self-esteem when communicating. Don't say "My self-esteem won't allow me to ......In that case, it will only make communication impossible.

3.Communicate openly and sincerely.

In the process of communication, it is very important to be honest with the person you communicate with, and do not hide it, honesty is an important step for you to deepen the relationship through communication. First of all, you can make the other party believe in yourself through your own honesty, and then drive the other party to be honest with you, and then promote the smooth and happy communication.

4.Be humble when communicating.

I'm right when I shut down", this attitude will only lead to the deterioration of the communication relationship and make it impossible for communication to continue. When communicating, it is best to keep your profile as low as possible, that is, to fully respect the opinions of the other party, and to express your opinions and opinions appropriately and not excessively.

Even if you think that your statement is not wrong or there is a problem with the other party's opinion, you should first listen to the other party's words, different people have different ideas, the ability to express and understand is also different, there may be the other party's expression mistakes or their own understanding is biased, you should lower your posture and listen patiently.

5.Learn humorous ways to communicate.

Humor can bring oneself closer to others, but also resolve many conflicts, when there is a misunderstanding of work communication, humor can change the awkward atmosphere, is a skill that must be mastered in the workplace.

In the process of making friends, there are only two types of friends, one is friends of the same sex and the other is friends of the opposite sex. It is said that it is difficult to have a pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but friends are friends and should not cross the line. There is no room for any third person in love, if the other party has a good relationship with friends of the opposite sex, it is a lie to say that they don't mind, and mind is a normal performance.

First of all, if you mind the other person's friend of the opposite sex, it also means that you may put more energy into the relationship. Love is not food, water, air, but cannot be shared with other people, and the more people who mind, the more they value the relationship. Friends should have a sense of proportion in getting along with each other, and within a safe range, friends of the opposite sex can also have real friendships.

can't tell your own identity, and after having a significant other, you still have the same sense of boundaries with friends of the opposite sex as before, which is what you should mind the most.

But friends of the opposite sex are not beasts, and they don't need to treat each other as imaginary enemies. Occasional chats between other parties, or giving each other some help and advice when encountering difficulties, are normal friendships. What I am most afraid of is that the other party's friend is in the name of a friend, but in fact, he is doing something to occupy the other party's time and energy, and the middle is ambiguous.

The chat is behind your back, and you can't see the chat with good luck that is difficult for outsiders to see, and you can't see the chat between them even if you turn the other party's mobile phone out. Because it is private, only two people know, the message is not uploaded or roamed, and the one-click deletion does not leave a trace. Message camouflage prompt, flip the screen to hide the chat page for a second, and chat in front of you will not be detected.

In this case, there will be a little ambiguous feelings in the hearts of the two people, but for some reason it has not been explicitly stated.

If you really mind that the other party has friends of the opposite sex in love, you can clearly tell the other party that you must not be ruined in your heart and compete with yourself. If the other person still doesn't have the same sense of proportion as before, you can also consider whether the relationship is worth continuing. Otherwise, let go of your mind.

I'll be a little bit mindful that the object has good friends of the opposite sex, but I'll choose to be respectful more. Because everyone has their own personal life and space, don't ask others for their own ideas, as long as their relationship is not too excessive and does not affect our feelings.

Respect should be chosen first.

It is normal for people to interact with each other, in the current era of advocating equality between men and women, everyone can have different friends, whether he is a man or a woman, your girlfriend also has the right to make friends, she has the right to decide what kind of person she knows, who to be friends with, and when she is not clear about the relationship between her and her friends of the opposite sex, she should be respected and understood.

Second, find out how your girlfriend relates to other friends of the opposite sex.

Everyone needs friends, and they have the support and help of friends on the long road of life, when your girlfriend has many friends of the opposite sex, don't suspect that the gods are attacking the ghosts, and suspect that the relationship between them is complicated, but rationally try to figure out how they know each other and what kind of relationship it is.

At last. Ask your girlfriend to introduce you to her friends of the opposite sex.

When your girlfriend introduces you to her friends of the opposite sex, it means that she wants your boyfriend status to be recognized by more people, so that you don't have to worry too much, and these friends of the opposite sex will also realize that your girlfriend is famous and take the initiative to keep a certain distance from your girlfriend. So in addition to respect, it's important to trust each other enough!

What to do, I think it is necessary to look at it, if your girlfriend does not do something sorry for herself, and there is nothing out of the ordinary, it is just that I think there is something to talk about once in a while, if you go out of your pants early and return late with friends of the opposite sex alone every day, then you should ask the specific reason, you can also talk to her alone, if she is still like Huzhou, then it is okay to break up.