Am I extremely conflicted? I m dying!

The gap between ideals and reality in life is huge, making your work boring. But I don't think it's contradictory to play ** and go to work, you have created a lot of it yourself. You've found a good balance in your life and don't have to worry about it anymore.

The real contradiction is love. Ask yourself, will your life be happy and happy with her? There is no need to consider whether the family agrees or not.

If you are hesitant, it means that you have not yet figured out what marriage is, or you don't know what you can give her, what she can do for you, and if the time is not ripe, what if you break your promise, it will be good for the girl and your future.

Alas, I understand your feelings. On the one hand, there is the parents and family, and on the other hand, there is love. On the one hand, there is material life, and on the other hand, there is spiritual life.

It's a contradiction now. I am afraid of offending my parents and family, and I am afraid of being sorry for my lover, I want to live a good life with enough food and clothing, but I am also afraid of losing my true life. If your parents agree, you will not hesitate to marry her.

If she doesn't want to, you won't be embarrassed anymore. It's hard to be a man, but your girlfriend has paid so much for you. Let's do your parents' work first, so that at least your conscience is better.

First of all, you have to relax, marriage should be chosen independently, from which it can be seen that you and your girlfriend already have a certain relationship, you can't let go of her, it means that the feelings are deep, your conditions are already very good, don't compare anymore, but it seems that you are a little affected by secular materials, so there is a contradiction, the key is that you really love her? Being able to live with your loved one for the rest of your life is the happiest thing. And do what you love.

Now that you have a stable job, of course, you can't quit it, you can do it while you work**If you love it very much, you will definitely achieve something in the future. When you have accomplishments, you don't need to work. I wish you a dream come true.

It seems that you are a little confused, you must first figure out whether you love her or not? It may be that the level of love is not enough, so you have something that you can't let go of and is susceptible. In short, the choice is correct.

Also, your girlfriend has never been in contact with her, and I don't know what kind of person she is. There is also the fact that you have been influenced by your family to a certain extent. If you think you and your girlfriend will be happy and happy later in life, stick to your choice, you have been in a relationship for 6 years.

Don't you know what you want? In fact, as long as you have a decision in your heart, you can do it anyway. The important thing is that the decisions you make in your heart are genuine and not influenced by others.

I think you are a person who loves to think, and has the depth of thinking, your thinking is comprehensive and objective, for example, in the question of Hitler, a person is multifaceted, but how to judge his value, is to see whether he is doing the right thing, the so-called bravery and talent are actually means, he is doing the right thing. Can you understand? Philosophy is a discipline that needs to analyze problems in a way that is different from ordinary people, but the philosophy of life can never analyze problems in a philosophical way.

I think you should let go of your thinking, do something from your heart, make your life easier, be a goal-oriented person with strong executive ability, and use your analytical skills to promote your ability to solve problems quickly, instead of forming obstacles to execution on the contrary. I don't know if you can understand that?

You are an unconventional person who tries to prove that you are different from others. To put it bluntly, that's it.

You love to study history and have a good memory. This shows that you are really talented in this area. However, you lack and lack the ability to actually work, and you are not highly sophisticated.

It is also necessary to make more efforts in this regard, shift the time of studying history to this aspect, and pay attention to improving and developing the quality of one's work. Your judgment of history is also different from that of ordinary people, Hitler is the villain, this is a foregone conclusion, you can sympathize with it in your heart, or objectively say your point of view on the facts. There must be opposition and revival.

Just look at the past calmly. No need to argue. Because if you ignite gunpowder, you will have to bear the consequences, and there must be a lot of opposition.

You can't force or correct other people's opposing views, you have to be competitive and you have to be right and others are wrong, it doesn't make sense. Getting along with others does not necessarily require the so-called truth, it requires harmony. It's not that there are no principles, it's that we have to make correct judgments based on the actual situation.

You can talk to people who share your views, but you don't have to. That would be thankless. If you're pushed to the point where you're going to curse, you've lost.

At this point, you're not ** the problem, you're responding to a personal attack. There is no point in attacking Howe. can be one-to-many, and what if all the opponents are scolded back.

People are not convinced, and your own spirit has been affected. Definitely a pyrrhic victory or no victory.

It is the right way to apply what you have learned and apply it to your work practice. Wisdom is used in dealing with people, not in arguing with others. Which college debater has achieved something? Hardly. Therefore do things, and do not quarrel with tongues.

Maybe it's because you're very rational, but you also have things you care about and things you don't care about, so your personality and behavioral tendencies are different.

The ruler is short and the inch is long, and the focus is to develop the strengths and avoid the weaknesses!

Can't live in other people's eyes, the heart must be strong enough, I also did this very poorly, let's encourage each other!

Don't blindly start from ourselves, society wants us to adapt, we have to integrate into it, and society will not change because of me.

People are like that. Don't worry too much about these things. You're taking yourself too seriously.

Sometimes other people's statements can be referred to, and your own attitude is very important.

Go with your heart, don't think so much, otherwise you will have a lot of troubles.

Your girlfriend just can't stand it anymore. She herself said, 'It's okay with the two of us', so don't care, girls always have their own personalities, and you can see that she is a good person. Relationships are not handled, and this requires a learning process.

It's a small problem, man, don't worry too much!

You.?

I'm so strange...

Are you familiar with me?

Why don't acquaintances have a common language?

What is this called?

Is it a kind of fate?

There are millions of men and women in the world.

Are you the one in my life?

I was extremely conflicted. Can we be good friends?

I will wish you happiness. Live a happy life with my blessings.!

Life. Wouldn't it be nice to have one more friend?

I promised that I wouldn't hurt you.!...

If it hurts you, are you still willing to be my friend?

Don't be friends with me just because you pity me.!...

Okay? Believe that your heart is good.

People are two-faced...

Love. How deeply do you understand love?

I don't seem to understand.

In my mind. Love is desired, not desired.

Oaths and promises

Do you believe in the oaths of the world?

If you're confident enough, believe in it...

Don't say your vows lightly.!

Why? Because it's a very sacred language...

Don't betray what is most sacred in your heart.!...

A promise is not the same as an oath...

How is it different?

Oaths are easy to forget.

And the promise passes through the passage of time. It will change.

If you don't want to make yourself sad, don't say it lightly. Either it's yourself who suffers.!...

People are selfish...When you're in pain there won't be anyone to help you.!

The pain of one person can only be carried by you alone...

Wine.?Have you ever drunk it?

That's a good thing.!...

When you have a lot of difficulty. and when things are upset.

It will be with you every day.

Until you've forgotten all the things you're unhappy about. It will leave you...

Let you face life calmly.

Life is just a few decades.

It's not long, it's not short.

Isn't it an honor for me to meet you?

You've been on a short path in my life, but I'm not going to just take it as a small episode.!...

In my old age, I will slowly reminisce.

Tell Heaven that you have brought me joy.

This kind of thing you should actually think about for both sides.

On one side you are your best friend, and on the other side you are your friend of the opposite sex.

As long as it's me, I'm going to say it on both sides.

Your girlfriend is right, and their relationship breakdown has nothing to do with you.

Some things should go with the flow!

Is it really that important for us to study in graduate school?

It's hard to find a job that really matches our majors, why do you say that, the direction of the counterpart is: 1, the establishment of civil servants and public institutions If you have strength, I still suggest that you consider this more, but after all, it is a single-plank bridge crossed by thousands of troops, and strength is needed. But there are fewer and fewer undergraduates to take the exam.

2. The environmental protection department of the sewage treatment enterprise or enterprise (the department in charge of environmental protection), specifically like the sewage treatment plant. The work is average, the pay is average. I won't talk about it if I don't limit my major.

The postgraduate entrance examination can have one more competitive qualification and one more academic direction. If you don't think it's good to major in environmental science, then you can choose another major. But it's not necessarily much better.

Is it easy to find a direct employment job for undergraduates, and what is the treatment?

It's really hard to find a professional counterpart, and the treatment is average.

If I don't go to graduate school, what do I do to prepare for a job now?

It seems to me that all work is the same. After graduation, the first job has to be learned, learn specific work, and learn how to deal with people. If you want to prepare for anything, I suggest that the most fundamental thing is to correct your attitude and take your heart away.

I don't agree with the opinion of the first floor, I personally think that the major is just a stepping stone, it is best to knock on it, and if you can't knock it, try the direction of the major, there is no need to be too serious. The general environment is there, there is no profession that does not worry, only people who do not worry. I suggest that you have a solid grasp of professional knowledge, look for it after graduating from your bachelor's degree, look at your job and look at your development and your future, and don't stare at the dead salary in front of you.

You still have to face the current problems after the graduate school entrance examination, but on another level. Or 4 years of work experience, or 4 years of a post-graduate diploma. I'm leaning towards the former.

Employment is already difficult now, and it will only be even more difficult in 4 years, and what about having a graduate diploma. Personal quality is greater than that of the corresponding major.

I am also from the environmental department, and I sincerely tell you: no one wants our major! At least you can see that no one wants undergraduates, because everyone has experience ranging from 3 to 5 years.

Those factories that want you are very small, and the salary is about 1000, will you go? I can't feed myself! Or go to graduate school, change the direction through the postgraduate entrance examination, change your major, change a way out, you go on the environmental science, not to say that there is no way out, just like taking an environmental assessment qualification certificate, it must be quite good, but the main thing is that this requires you to have six years after graduation, do you have so much time to wait?

Do you still take a daughter-in-law? Do you still buy a house and a car? So think for yourself!

It's also a passing by the environmental department, and I'm also very entangled in this problem! Our school is also this major can't find a job, or the job I'm looking for has nothing to do with this, or I'm going to graduate school, or I'm going to do sales** or go to the factory, it's very sad!

The key to this depends on your hobbies and ideas, and you can't work for the sake of work, and now there are more mismatched majors!

The major of environmental science cultivates senior professionals who have the basic theories, basic knowledge and basic skills of environmental science, and can engage in scientific research, teaching, environmental protection and environmental management in scientific research institutions, colleges and universities, enterprises and institutions, and administrative departments.

Students in this major mainly learn the basic theories and basic knowledge of environmental science, receive basic training in applied basic research, applied research and environmental management, have good scientific literacy and certain teaching, research, development and management capabilities, master the methods of environmental monitoring and environmental quality evaluation, and the basic skills of environmental planning and management. After graduating, some of them enter the postgraduate level to continue their studies, and most of them enter environmental theory research institutions and production departments at all levels as research or consultants.

Because you have a concern in your heart, it means that he exists in your heart! Everyone is not unrestrained, and often when you want to be free, there will be a shackle falling from the sky! So, learn to find a trace of sweetness and happiness in the midst of depression!

Happy memories more! Forget your sorrows!

Because you care too much about him.

Because you are an emotional person who thinks about others.

It means that you have encountered something and you have been depressed for a long time and cannot be relieved in your heart, you can try to force yourself to get up early or do any struggle.

Wake up a thought question.

Take a day off, get a good night's sleep, and relax.