How are women who have lived with someone before marriage doing after marriage? What do you think ab

Women who have lived with someone before marriage have a very average life after marriage, and even some are not valued or respected, and I do not support premarital cohabitation, which will make men not care about women.

If you don't live together, don't live together, those who have already lived together have to receive the benefits of cohabitation, you can't live together in vain, the feelings of those who have lived together may be affected a little, but you can make up for the gap in your relationship by perfecting yourself.

There is no necessary connection between whether you live happily after marriage and whether you live together before marriage. Today's society is very inclusive, if you don't mind the number of people before marriage, as long as you love each other, it is enough.

I also have a lot of girlfriends like this, and they are very happy after marriage, and the relationship between the two is also very good, and now the phenomenon of living together before marriage is also very normal, but girls still have to learn to self-love, so that they can better protect themselves.

In fact, most of them live very happily after marriage, and I think it's best not to engage in cohabitation before marriage.

What happened to the women who lived together before marriage? Listen to what these people have to say.

My point of view is that cohabitation before marriage is not necessary, and the more important spine is the emotional foundation and coping ability between husband and wife.

The arguments are as follows:1The emotional foundation is the prerequisite for a successful marriage.

Without enough love and understanding, premarital cohabitation cannot be saved, but will deepen the damage. On the contrary, couples with deep feelings, even if they have no experience of cohabitation, can reduce the unknowns through good communication and have a happy marriage.

2.The ability to deal with picky and agile battles is key. It is inevitable to encounter various problems in marriage, and the key lies in whether the husband and wife are psychologically prepared and have the patience and wisdom to solve the problem.

This ability is even more important. If this ability is insufficient, no matter how long the cohabitation is, it will not be a problem.

3.External conditions change too quickly, and cohabitation may not be able to fully adapt in advance. Lifestyle habits, economic conditions, family changes, etc., can change dramatically, and these challenges ultimately need to be faced by couples together after marriage. Cohabitation does not completely avoid the problem of adaptation.

4.Cohabitation can also pose additional problems. Family opposition, social prejudices, and dealing with cohabitation property after a breakup can also be barriers to people considering premarital cohabitation, and even cohabitation is not necessarily easier than the traditional marriage path.

In summary, premarital cohabitation can be an option, but the more important thing is the compatibility of the couple in terms of relationship and coping issues. If these two points are missing, cohabitation or non-cohabitation is not possible**; If these two points are sufficient, no matter what path you take in marriage, you can get a happy outcome.

There are those who mind, and there are many who don't.

I don't mind in my heart that I don't want to say it in front of this woman.

In recent years, more and more people have joined the "unmarried family", the reason for which is not unrelated to the increasing divorce rate year by year, many unmarried people think that marriage is full of uncertain factors, rather than tossing in marriage, it is better to manage themselves.

However, there are also many people who choose marriage, and in order to reduce the risks brought by marriage, many people propose premarital cohabitation.

However, premarital cohabitation has always been controversial, some people think that such behavior is irresponsible, while others think that it is truly responsible for themselves.

Are two people suitable for marriage? To what extent do you have to get married?

Many people will have such questions, and many people think that such problems are superfluous, the latter usually think that as long as two people love each other, they can enter into marriage, because they think that all problems in marriage can be resolved with love.

However, the more people think like this, the more their married life will be miserable. True love is not only the current mutual affection, but also a long-term mutual tolerance, mutual respect, mutual gratitude and mutual loyalty.

Many people who enter marriage in a hurry will be disappointed in marriage, because it is too different from expectations, and the shortcomings of the other half are increasingly exposed in front of them, these are all neglected problems during the relationship, but once two people live together, all problems will be exposed.

People who are not psychologically prepared are easy to shift the responsibility to the other party, in fact, marriage needs us to give it the energy of happiness, only by learning to love correctly, can we grasp happiness.

However, these can only be truly realized after experiencing it, and living together before marriage can make each other feel what marriage looks like in advance, but there are also many people who insist on living together after marriage, so is it necessary to live together before marriage? Listen to the opinion of married women.

I think it's necessary, but there are a few things that have already been met before cohabitation.

1. Both parties are engaged or both parents have met and agreed to this family business.

2. Both parties have decided to get married and have planned a time.

3. It's okay to live together for three months, don't take too long.

4. Don't let both parents know about cohabitation.

I know that some people will doubt the above points, and I will also say that I am still so conservative and feudal in the 21st century, so let's take a look at the root of this problem, why live together, cohabitation is to understand each other's living habits at a deeper level, three months is enough time to understand whether the various habits of TA are acceptable to you, I have seen a divorce case before, because the two parties squeeze toothpaste in different ways, one from above, one from below, and then neither party will let it, and it will be divorced.

This is just one of the things, other things such as sleepwalking, not brushing your teeth and washing your feet before going to bed, smoking in the room, often Zheng Ze is called out by friends to drink and comes back unconscious and has no other ability to act except vomiting, can you call Qin Peng to accept?

Marriage is made up of trivial things, compared to a person's life, married life is more down-to-earth, and cohabitation is to pave the way for future married life, not to let people only enjoy the pleasure of possessing each other without responsibility, are not protected by the law, or do less.

Finally, don't let the parents of both sides know that the matter of cohabitation, no matter what, is still more unfriendly to girls, not to mention that it perishes early in the morning, girls are always the disadvantaged group, China's thousands of years of traditions and habits, not overnight, nor can it be changed in time to the 21st century, and the preference for sons over daughters cannot be changed, let alone others.