My boyfriend with a monthly salary of 10,000 yuan dislikes me for living together, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-07-27
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I think you should tell your boyfriend that although you have had dealings with other people of the opposite sex, you are very sincere to him now, after all, everyone has a past, and I hope he doesn't care.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think you should have a deep conversation with your boyfriend, and if you really don't agree on the same thing, I don't think you need to force the relationship.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since he dislikes it, then you should leave him as soon as possible, and then work hard to improve yourself, believing that you will definitely find someone who does not dislike you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think I should use my strength to prove myself, let him see his strength, so that he can be more convinced of himself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hurry up and break up, they all live together, and if they borrow money, they ask for money directly, and they are refused, so such a boyfriend should leave him as soon as possible.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It still depends on the situation. After all, the salary is 10,000 yuan, and 8,000 yuan can be said to be a month's salary. Although it doesn't seem like much, you don't know if he spent it all, so he didn't have any savings, so he couldn't get the money out.

    It is also possible that he has savings, but these deposits are useful to him, such as a mortgage and car loan, such as a marriage deposit, such as the death period of the deposit, or a loss of purchase. And so on are the reasons. It is recommended that you explain to him directly the reason for using the money, ask him why he does not borrow money, and then see if you lend out.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You and your boyfriend have been together for three years, after a long time, the relationship will fade, you should decide to get married now, there is no borrowing or not borrowing when you are married, just ask your husband to take the money when you have no money, now you are not married, your boyfriend also has concerns, it is best to get married early!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You have been with your boyfriend for three years, and you have lived together for three years, and then you believe that you also have a certain relationship, so if you borrow 8,000 yuan from him and are refused, you can discuss it with him, or ask what is the reason for communication. It's still better. Don't speculate on your own and affect your relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If there is a legitimate need, such as an elderly person who is sick and his parents need this money for emergency relief, if he doesn't borrow it, it's his fault, he has this strength. Isn't it too selfish? Don't want to help you or don't love you enough?

    Tell him how you feel. This is also the time when people are tested the most.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, you are borrowing and not asking for it. It's time to think about your relationship, except if you're borrowing money for fun, of course.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This shows that your boyfriend doesn't have a deep affection for you and doesn't really love you, so he won't lend you money.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    They have been living together for a long time and should have a lot of trust in each other. But borrowing money also requires a good reason. Also take into account the other person's abilities.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When it comes to using the money, you will know what the relationship is, and then again, if you can explain the purpose of borrowing money, you also need to consider whether it is appropriate.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think this boy may be taking this year more seriously, or he is not financially rich at the moment.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He is very selfish, and he can see a person's character at a critical time, and it is possible that his money can be used for other purposes.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Could it be that your consumption is too high and you don't have a deposit of 10,000 yuan a month? Transitional consumption is understandably denied.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After his boyfriend who had been dating for three months and lived together, he always said that he had no money, and the company always pressed his salary for four months.

    It sounds like your boyfriend's financial situation is really not very good. Did you know about his financial situation before moving in together? If this is a sudden problem, you can try to communicate openly with him about his specific situation and the difficulties of the leakage.

    Maybe he has some temporary dilemma and needs some time to fix it. However, if this persists and affects your quality of life, you may need to reconsider your relationship and future. Money issues can be a great strain on relationships, so it's important to think carefully about your needs and well-being before making a decision.

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