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In life, many female friends are in very poor health, because of some pathological reasons, it is very likely that they will not be able to have children, at this time male friends must examine their hearts. If you love the other person, then even if the other person has a particularly big flaw or defect, you can tolerate it. <>
Many male friends are with each other because they want to have a child of their own with each other, but when they hear that their female friends can't have children, they will refuse the marriage. Such male friends actually have their own considerations, because many families have only one child, and if the other half cannot have children, it means that the family may have to break off, and parents will not let their sons be with each other. But I still firmly believe that love can overcome the worldly point of view, if two people really like children, then they can cure the female friend's body through some medical conditions, after all, it is very likely that not all.
to conceive a child of their own together. Therefore, in my opinion, such shortcomings cannot be used as an important reason why two people cannot get married. If you choose to be with each other just for the sake of inheritance, then you should stay away as soon as possible, so that such female friends can find someone who loves you.
In fact, I want to advise everyone not to abandon a person who loves themselves because of such worldly conditions, which is a very cost-effective thing, and in the future life, I will not meet a female friend who is full of me. <>
Many young male and female friends don't want children, and some of them are the Dink family, so children are not an important proof of love between two people. Therefore, it is very unreasonable to advise male friends not to ignore each other because of this matter, and not to dislike female friends because of this matter. But if the love for the other party is really not so strong, you can also choose to leave.
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You should marry her, because the relationship is the most important thing, and the body can be improved through conditioning.
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I don't think you should marry her, you ask like this shows that you have concerns in your heart, and you have concerns in your heart that you may not give her happiness in the future.
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Personally, I think you can marry him, if the relationship between the two of you is very good, you can also adopt a child after marriage.
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I found that my girlfriend's health is very poor, and some pathological reasons may lead to infertility, but when faced with these problems, it is indeed a difficult state to choose.
If two people love each other and are separated because of fertility problems, it is indeed regrettable, after all, love is a matter of two people, but we think about it in the long run, and entering marriage is a matter of two families, maybe between two people. It was possible to reach a consensus and not have any more children, and even now there are indeed many families who belong to the Dink family. But for parents, they can't accept a daughter-in-law who can't have children, and the two are barely together, which will only make the whole family jump and make the girl suffer a lot of grievances.
So on this issue, the choice of boys is also very important. If the boy can accept not having children and can convince his parents, then the two can continue to be together because they can face the outcome together and at the same time they can fight together against the pressure from their parents. But if the boy himself likes children, and wants to be a father one day, and hopes that his family can have children's laughter, then both sides are there.
When facing feelings, you must choose carefully, especially a boy like a girl, after the love of two people is consumed in the future, he may complain a lot about himself, and even go to the situation of divorce. After all, the other party is not not disliking children, but forcing themselves to do it, and we can't delay the possibility of the other party having children, so in this case, separation is the best result.
Of course, the compromise is for the two to get pregnant before they get married, and if they can, they can move on. But if you can't, the girl takes the initiative to leave, maybe it's better for herself. Although it is cruel, people are selfish, and they get married for a better life, not for trivial things.
The two were able to IVF with others.
It is okay to have a child, but it may suffer a lot of criticism from the man's parents, and whether this series of problems can be endured, the two people should think about it.
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I will marry her, because I think that married life is not just about having children, but about two people being able to walk through a happy life hand in hand, which is the most important thing, so even if the woman is in poor health and cannot have children, I will still marry him.
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I may not marry her, maybe there is no conflict between the two of you at first, but then you see that someone else has children or a happy family, you will have a big psychological gap, and your family may not want you to marry him.
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If it were me, I wouldn't have married her, because I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with someone who was sick and couldn't have children of my own.
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If your girlfriend is in poor health and can't have children for a big reason, then I recommend that you think about it. Because everyone wants to have a crystallization of love, and the other party can't have children, two people may often get married. There was a quarrel because of this incident, so I also hope that everyone can think clearly before choosing to get married.
Maybe when we are in a relationship, we will feel that this matter is indifferent at the beginning, but after getting married, we will also feel very irritable. And we need to know that a woman can't get married, it's not a matter of two people. It's a problem of two families, maybe our parents or relatives and friends care about this matter very much, and getting married to their girlfriend will also make their parents Sui Zheng very angry.
After thinking clearly, you can get married, so that you can avoid some quarrels after marriage, in fact, I think many people are more concerned about this matter. If you are more worried about this problem, you can also choose to explain it to the other party, which can also make the relationship more harmonious in the future.
Xiao Guess pants Song Editor suggests that you can choose to break up, if you break up, it can also reduce the damage to the relationship, if we continue to be together, and also on the road to marriage, then it is also likely to cause some quarrels between the two people after marriage. But here, I also want to suggest to everyone that today's Sister Yu is already very developed, and we can also bring our girlfriends or wives to carry out **.
If you really like each other, then it is also recommended that you can take your wife to **, in this way, we can also have a love crystallization of our own, and two people can also avoid going, because of this matter choose to break up.
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In the face of such a situation, I will be more justified in taking care of my girlfriend. I will also show my patience, and I will also make a noise to let the other party see my attitude, and Chaoxiang should also give more support and encouragement to his girlfriend.
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I will choose to marry my girlfriend, although she can't have children, but I don't love her often, I think two people without children can also guess the good life of Pengchang.
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Girlfriend is in poor health, some pathological reasons lead to a great possibility of not being able to have children in the future, this situation I think it still depends on the parents of the two families, and how you choose in your own heart, if you are a person who likes children very much, you must have your own children, then you need to seriously consider this relationship between two people, after all, love. For the time being, it seems to be very beautiful, but in the future, after the two people enter the palace of marriage, they will face the trivialities of the family, and we don't know whether they still have the current love. At the same time, if you can't stop longing for your children, it will be difficult to define your girlfriend's future situation.
Therefore, it is better to make a decisive choice when it is still possible to recover, and try to minimize the damage of both sides. But if you are a person who does not love children, can choose not to have children, or is willing to accept that two people have a child in some way, then you can stick to this relationship with your girlfriend, because it is not easy to meet you among thousands of people, this is. There is someone who can be together, but the regret caused by not being able to have children can be erased in your heart, so you should stick to it.
Of course, there is also a need to consider what it is like to be a parent here.
You may wish to tell your parents the real situation, so that they know their future and what kind of state their daughter-in-law will be. If they can accept it in their hearts, they will not be too difficult for each other in later life. But if they react very violently and can't accept it, you should also think about whether the relationship between the two people should go on, after all, most of the marriages and relationships that the parents oppose do not end well.
Feelings can't be capricious, we should also consider each other's feelings when we choose our own love, and we must also consider the feelings of our parents. After all, although a person lives as an individual, there are always countless unclear relationships around him, and we should all take them into account.
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In this case, I usually choose to be considerate of her. Don't put too much pressure on him and let him not take it to heart. After all, girls are not fertility machines.
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Many girls are unable to have children because of poor health or some diseases when they were young, it mainly depends on your own thoughts, if you can accept that you have no children between you, you can continue to date.
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