How has a serious illness affected your life?

First of all, it affects my quality of life, when my parents are sick, I will spend a lot of money to treat my parents, which will reduce my quality of life, and secondly, it will affect my mood and make me anxious, so that I can't be at work with peace of mind.

The work has a big impact, I quit my job and go home to take care of her, and I have also honed my awareness, including patience, I don't want to leave myself with regrets, I am afraid that when I see them again, he or she is gone, but I am still on my way home.

When my parents have a serious illness, the first person who can take care of them is ourselves, so of course I will give up my own work to take care of them, after all, they are our only relatives. Secondly, if we have children, we can only entrust the children to others to take care of them, and we can only take care of our parents wholeheartedly.

In the face of disease, the most critical question we face is whether there is money to treat it. If one day we lie in a hospital bed, ask ourselves if we can afford the expensive medical bills? If not, what will the family do?

They will only do everything they can to raise money for your treatment, even if it is selling cars and houses, or borrowing money everywhere. And our families will collapse because of this nightmare, and the happiness of the future will fade away. Reality is always crueler than we think!

Care about your parents, during the time when your parents are sick, try to care more about your parents, even if you can't visit often, you can also play something in your free time, which will make your parents feel more happy and feel that their children still have filial piety. Filial piety comes first, parents are not in good health, and it is reasonable for children to take care of them. However, if the parents are elderly and have difficult health problems, especially when they are bedridden for a long time and cannot take care of themselves, objectively speaking, the challenges and pressures faced by the children are great.

The first is economic pressure. Medical expenses are relatively expensive now, although there is medical insurance, but the expenses of intensive care wards, imported self-financed drugs, ** nursing and so on, are not small; The second is the dedication of energy. Children have their own families, need to take care of children, and have to juggle work, and then take time off to serve the sick, they will be busy and physically and mentally exhausted; There are also emotional tests.

After being sick for a long time, the patient's personality and psychology will change, and many elderly people will be anxious and suspicious, and often have trouble with their children, so that their children will also face mental tests. However, filial piety to parents is the duty of children, after all, everyone will grow old one day.

I thinkThis is because the physical pain caused by illness and some psychological depression lead to such behavior in the elderly, and more importantly, the lack of companionship and inherent thinking influence of parents.

First of all, we talked about physical pain that others can't bear for you, whether it's the pain caused by illness, or the poor mental health caused by illness, you need to face it yourself, but often many people don't have this ability when facing blows, so their temper will become very bad.

I have also been hospitalized because of an injury, because it is too painful, whether sitting or lying is very uncomfortable, and at the same time, I am also under some pressure in my heart, I feel very afraid of the consequences of the injury to me, so when facing my family, I will unconsciously lose my temper with them, although I know that my behavior is just some of my own problems, but there is no way, because I was suffering from illness at that time.

Having said that, maybe the old man's behavior stems from his unreasonable trouble, or it may be that he lacks the company of his children, and it is more likely that the pain of injury makes him take a good attitude, but it is not easy for the old man to raise us juniors, and he also suffered when he was young, and now he has some similar behaviors that can be understood, just as he raised your young, you raised his old normal, and it was okay to face these unreasonable behaviors of the elderly.

To correctly face the serious illness of parents, the first thing is to take the initiative to shoulder the responsibility of support. "Filial piety comes first. This point cannot be shaken or fluctuated in thinking.

Second, according to the actual situation, choose a good ** and care plan. Personally, I think that serious illness is generally incurable, and it is necessary to comfort and reduce suffering.

Third, in the maintenance process, we must be patient. Even though a serious illness of a parent can be a heavy burden on the entire family, parents are not well-intentioned. Don't complain, but be sympathetic, understanding, and patient.

Fourth, it is necessary to properly handle the relationship between the individual and his family, work, and life, and not to cause family disharmony or affect the physical and mental health of the individual's work, study, and physical and mental health because the parents are seriously ill.

It is normal for people to die of old age, sickness and death. But in the face of their loved ones, it will be unacceptable. Therefore, in the face of our parents' serious illness, we can only try to heal them as much as possible so that they can alleviate their physical pain.

I think in this situation you should stay at home more and spend more time with your parents.

When a parent is sick, are you worried as a child? But I don't think I'm sick, listen to the doctor, I'll get better! We can only face it with a positive attitude and do our own things well, what do you think?

It's been five months since taking care of my sick mom! But I just do my best and face life with a good attitude, my mother is sick, and I also hope that she will live her own life with a positive attitude. Don't worry, me and others are what I need covered.

Sometimes I wonder what I can do for her. Is it not enough? Later, I thought about it, in fact, I can't do anything for her, I can only face life with a positive attitude, and she will feel that life is hopeful.

Because you know her, it's best not to be a burden. People will often ask her how she is doing? I'll be fine.

Because in this case, only self-righteousness and self-restraint can bear these things, not the concern of others. Care is appreciated, but I don't think these fit. What she needs is to recuperate, to figure it out and fight her physical illness.

What do you think?

I have always felt that my parents are still young, the disease will not come to trouble, and if I am sick in time, it will pass after taking some medicine, and the discord will be taken to heart.

Unexpectedly, a few days ago, my mother was sick, especially in the case of this serious epidemic, my mother in our village after seeing a doctor after the medicine, after taking many days still not good, go to the county to see Min guess, and finally went to the city to see a doctor, is chest water, need to be hospitalized for about half a month.

I couldn't go to the hospital to accompany my mother because there were two little ones at home, but fortunately my father accompanied me the whole time. When I was a child, no matter what illness I had, my mother was by my side and accompanied me to give me a sense of security.