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Friend, don't worry too much, you can go directly to your leader's superior (just write a secret letter), this is the easiest way, but it is also the worst way. If your leader has a relationship with your superiors, that's it!
Again, you can turn a blind eye to what they do, because we have youth. Do your job, learn to endure, and don't forget the saying: it's never too late for a gentleman to take revenge for ten years!
There is no need to resist, because you are just a clerk, you have no power in your hands, and you have just gone, and if you want to resist, then you have to spend more time and suffer more grievances to be able to catch their "pigtails". As long as you catch their "braids", then go to death and don't leave trouble!
Friends, these problems are easy to solve, as long as you learn to "endure", I believe you will have such a bright future.
A friend sends you a word: endure the anger of the moment to be a master!
To be honest, I once encountered a situation like you, just like you, I just couldn't bear it, so I fought with our leader in a fit of anger, and the job was gone.
Friend, don't learn from me, I hope you can learn to "endure"!
I support you 100%!
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What you are talking about should be state-owned enterprises. In fact, there is a phenomenon of seniority in any unit. They all pay attention to the backing above.
Or maybe you're in a place where no one can take your place. If it's neither, then it's definitely being treated unfairly. It would be even worse to be assigned to the kind of person you are talking about, and there is nothing to say to him.
Because you can't shake him.
Try to adjust your mood and mindset as much as possible. If you really care about this job anymore, you will get your job done every day. I don't care about anything. I don't participate in their conversations, and I laugh at what I don't like to hear.
You shouldn't be working very long, so you're angry about something that's unfair.
It's okay. Take your time and talk less. Don't think about the class after work.
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I'm a student, but I want to ask a few questions.
1.Your gender.
2.You're a good baby, aren't you?
3.You care about this job.
4.Did everyone else send something to the leader?
5.Are you ambitious, you have to learn to seize the moment.
6.Learn to be ruthless (it's hard for you because you're used to being bullied).
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The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. You feel that your boss is not worth your life for him, or choose another one.
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What's the point of you staying in this dark world, this is no longer a matter of forbearance, people's patience is limited, what kind of garbage unit is changed.
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There is no point in imposing it.
Forget it.
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Analyze the reasons why the leader doesn't care first, and you can look for the leader many times. When the leader ignores you, he observes your behavior and work attitude.
For many professionals, they have a competitive heart. After all, the higher the position, the better the salary. The premise is to get leadership value and promotion.
Slippery is here to lead and ignore you, which will definitely stimulate your instinct to be valued. In this case, it is easy to expose one's latent nature. Once exposed, the leader can distinguish whether you are a useful talent or not.
In this case, the leader ignores you, which is actually just a test for you. If you want to pass the exam, you have to not only do your job well, but also try to do it better. You have to approach your work with a positive attitude, not because the leader doesn't pay attention to you, you are depraved.
For many people, once they fall out of favor, their mentality will become more and more pessimistic, prone to making arbitrary conclusions, making random guesses, and losing judgment. The right approach should be to start with ourselves and find out why the leader doesn't care about you.
If it's treated like this from the start, then it's normal, so you don't have to take it too seriously. Changing this situation is actually very simple, try to do your job well, try to be the first in the same position, correct your work attitude, and make the leader think that you are a useful talent. There are many reasons for a change in leadership attitude because you are unhappy.
At this point, you have to find the causes and correct them. If you can't find the reason, as long as you find the leader to talk about it, the leader will feel that your work attitude is correct and there is room for correction.
When you do a good job and achieve some results, the leader will value you very much and give you more opportunities. In the workplace, some leaders not only do not know how to know people, but are also narrow-minded and incompetent. When you meet this type of leader, even if you are good, it is difficult to get ahead because the better you are, the more he is afraid that you will replace him.
What to do in this case? Don't guess too much. Get your job done.
Of course, you can also choose to change jobs directly. After all, it is not easy to work beside the leader in such a situation.
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In this case, you should choose to consult with other colleagues, or you can choose to choose to greet the leader on a regular basis.
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Out of this situation, I think you must adjust your mentality, and then you should also work hard to overcome the problems in the workplace, don't rely too much on others, you should rely on yourself.
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In this case you can continue to work, and if the work is not done, it is not your problem.
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<>1, find out why the leader is targeting you.
There is no love for no reason, there is no hate for no reason, everyone is ignorant in the workplace, and leaders have a lot of things to deal with every day, so we need to think clearly first: why do they target you? Whether your work performance is different from what your boss expects is the most common and easiest question.
For most people, it should be understood that all human connections are based on the output of the job. In today's workplace environment, if the output does not match expectations, it is likely to become the target of the last selection. Whether your work mood does not conform to the company's values, in order to facilitate handling, many companies will have their own set of value systems.
Therefore, if there is no problem with its own output, then it is likely that its attitude does not meet the company's values.
2. Prescribe and improve according to the problem.
After understanding what he was being targeted for, he needed to prescribe the right medicine and do what he liked. As long as you grasp the reasonable way to deal with it, then there must be a breakthrough. If after self-reflection, you find that you are not doing your own things well, then the first thing you need to do is to find a way to improve your ability.
Everyone in the workplace will have a bottleneck in their working life, so if you do, remember not to be shy about asking your colleagues or leaders for help.
The workplace is a microcosm of society, and the conflicts of interest during this period are complex. Therefore, if you want to achieve a stable rise opportunity and a smooth rise path in the workplace, you must learn to choose your own workplace emotions according to the surrounding environment, and the essence of reshaping your workplace character is to adapt to the workplace environment, so as not to become the target of selection in the survival of the fittest. In other words, in order to adapt to the harsh living environment of today's society, we are all ordinary people, so it is necessary for us to learn to integrate into it and move with it.
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If you really don't know, you can communicate with the leader specifically, and the communication is what you are not doing well, and you need to adjust it to let him point.
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You should take the initiative to ask the leader about some things, and understand some reasons from the mouths of colleagues, so that you can solve the problem well.
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At this time, you should find your own problems, if it is your own problem, you can choose to change yourself, if it is the other party's problem, you can also choose to leave, because the other party does not like you and will often find fault with you.
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If you leave the company directly and choose to resign, you will not be targeted by the boss, and you must know how to resist when you encounter such a thing.
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In the workplace, sometimes what kind of leader you meet, not at all to your own will to decide, maybe some leaders temper more relaxed, encounter some problems, will explain to themselves well, and some leaders are tempered, encounter a scolding that is not satisfactory, if you encounter this kind of temper hungry leader, in general, do not have a head-on conflict with the other party, but explain well to the other party afterwards.
1. When there is a conflict between your own position and leadership, do not clash head-on.
In the on-the-job rock limb annihilation field, we must have our own principles, even if the leader is wrong, the leader scolds himself at that time, do not squeeze the conflict head-on, but have a more relaxed way and the leader to solve this matter, and when the leader calms down, he will also realize that he is wrong, maybe the leader can't wipe his face to apologize to you, but he must also be aware of it, I believe that the next time there is a similar incident, the leader will pay a little more attention, and will not be so irritable again.
Second, if the leader always scolds himself, he will also reflect on the way he does things, whether there is a problem.
If a leader scolds his subordinates for no reason, it means that the leader is incompetent, and the leader has no stomach, but before doubting the leader, he must first reflect on whether he is really his own lack of ability to lead to the leader's scolding, and ask the leader what he can do not do well, and what improvements can be made.
Third, we should also calm down the scolding and rough mentality of the leader, because this is the time for our own progress.
I remember when we were children, if the teacher criticized themselves, they may have a long memory, and they will not make the same mistakes next time, in the workplace, the same reason, if they are indeed incapacitated, they will also have a long memory when the leader scolds, and the next time the same thing will definitely not make mistakes, and even after drawing inferences, they will do the same kind of things properly, which is also a kind of progress for themselves, put their mentality at ease, and strive to do their best, which is the most important thing.
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First of all, you need to reflect on your own reasons, whether there is a problem in your work or other aspects;
secondly, in combination with the views of colleagues, whether the leader has ever done similar things to others;
Again, you can think about whether the leader wants to promote you or what other intentions, and you can take effective communication;
After the roughest, repeatedly pushing the rock without knocking, being accused of bothering you is very troublesome, whether it will affect your normal work, and the follow-up treatment. In short, it is not possible to unilaterally say which side of the question, each has its own reason.
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There are several reasons, the first may be that the leader is really dissatisfied with what you are doing, and the second may be that he wants to train you well.
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If your boss often blames you, you can try to communicate with him and be honest about how you feel about the accusation, and try to understand the reason for the accusation. If communication is unsuccessful, you may consider seeking counselling or professional advice to better handle the situation. In any case, you should not accept malicious accusations and should be committed to protecting your self-esteem and dignity.
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You can always accuse me at every turn, is it me or he has a problem? I feel that you may not be serious about your work, and he pointed to you that your work did not meet his requirements. So he said that he was pointing at you like this, and he didn't do it to calm the tremors, so he couldn't look down on you, what's the situation like?
If you don't do what they think you do, then of course you are to blame.
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I think the first thing to do is to review whether there are deficiencies in my work, and if there is one, I will change it, and if there is one, I will encourage it! If there is any problem with your work, then you don't have to worry about the responsibilities of the leader and calm down (maybe he or she is jealous of you just because of your ability, or maybe he is the only one who brings the emotions from her own life to work).
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It depends on what the reason is, first reflect on yourself, whether you have done anything wrong, if not, you can talk to the leader, this can be regarded as listening to the opinions of others to enrich yourself, if the leader deliberately blames the silver, if you don't mind, you should blow the wind, if you mind, change the place.
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It may be that he is not doing his job well enough, and on the other hand, he may want to vent his emotions.
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I have encountered it, I see what is going on, and there are few leaders who don't understand Tonglun Li Dali.
First of all, patient communication. When the leader does not understand our urgency, we must patiently communicate with the leader. When communicating, be sure not to get angry, even if it is difficult for the leader to convince. When appropriate, you should base on some examples.
2. Remember not to leave your post without authorization. Leaving your job without permission is a serious thing, and there is a good chance that you will be fired, which is very bad for your entire career.
Well, when the authorities are late and they don't get the holidays, all you have to do is communicate patiently like the above point. When you can't take a leave of absence, you can't be rash.
First of all, think about your own affairs and the importance of your work. It is to look at things and work that are more important, and then judge what your next step should be.
In fact, this is also a kind of helplessness, after all, work is for others to work, so we should be limited to a certain extent. There should be reasonable reasons and procedures to ask for leave, if the reason is fully in line with the scope of the labor law, if the leader does not approve, it also involves whether the leader violates the company's rules and regulations! If it is really the leader of the company who violates the company's rules and regulations and labor laws, he can go to the labor inspection brigade to complain or apply to the labor arbitration commission to defend his rights.
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If I hate my direct supervisor very much, then I will work hard to prevent him from coming to me for trouble, try to avoid him, and if I still can't, then I will choose to change positions.
Lack of self-confidence, don't always think about previous failures, this will cause you a negative shadow, failure has been experienced by everyone, it depends on your mentality, you should turn this failure into the motivation to succeed, instead of being afraid of facing failure all the time, standing up from where you fall, forgetting the past, starting from the present, the past is not equal to the future, including the present.
Donate to the country, or UNESCO, as the wealth of the country and all mankind (in fact, this is just a disguise, fame can make profits roll in, hehe) [how to look like a villain].
In fact, to tell the truth, it is not painful to give up a person who loves you very much, it is painful to give up a person you love very much, it is more painful to fall in love with someone who does not love you, it is destined to be a tragedy, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, loving a person does not have to have, since love is gone, then it is very simple to let go in a word, there is a kind of love called letting go, only letting go is a kind of relief, but also a new beginning and having, let go of the burden of the state of mind is much easier, Turn around and leave at the moment when the tears fall, don't let yourself get hurt, why hang on a tree with no sweetness, no happiness, no happiness, people don't love you, so how to slap people, the twisted melon is not sweet, why embarrass yourself? Why let yourself lose your self-esteem and self-love, indulge in pain, let yourself walk physically and mentally exhausted, scarred, why bother? It's not interesting, love is two-sided, it's not wishful thinking that there will be results, meeting is the destined fate of life, you can't force it, you will get it only if you lose, and those who refuse to lose your luggage will never swim to the other side. >>>More