Divorce or not, entanglement, divorce or not divorce What to do in the entanglement

Hehe, if it's not too noisy, you can talk about it. After all, they are all people with children, and they were all self-righteous before they got married, and when they get married, they must abide by the rules of the family and bear the obligations of the family, and you can regress from each other and slowly improve. For the sake of the child, Canghai can become a mulberry field, I hope you can solve it satisfactorily.

Remember that everyone regresses against each other, everyone has to be constrained, and there are no rules!

Then it's better to think about it, this can only be decided by yourself, and others can't help you make decisions. Because only you know whether your relationship is good or not.

You already have children, it's best to think about it more clearly, in fact, there are some small problems between you, no one will let anyone, you try to let him, communicate with him, and let him not care too much about you.

Your personalities are incompatible, but you can still adapt to each other, and husbands and wives also have to run in with each other.

Why can't two people give way to each other? He must have felt that now that he has children, you should stay at home and spend more time with them. You have come together and have children, can't you be humble to each other for the sake of your children?

My wife can talk, is it okay to eat my husband's heart? To divorce or not to divorce?

If you love him, you will willingly listen to his control, has your feelings for him also changed? If you don't have feelings, do you feel that you are committed to your children, and you are not entangled in your heart?

Since you have chosen to get married, you should end your arbitrary life, otherwise no man will tolerate it, and you will not be happy after divorce, not to mention the baby? Change it a little, for the sake of the children, for your own sake.

If you don't have feelings, don't insist, it's a kind of mutual torture, and the baby won't get love from it.

If it can be redeemed, think more about the child, two people will have more or less conflicts together, as long as they accommodate more, it will be fine.

The same experience, he looks down on me, I look down on him, alas... I'm patient, and he also said that he is patient, and when we can't bear it anymore, we'll separate, but we don't want to divorce, it's also for the sake of the children, who knows what will happen in the future...

Since both of them think so, it is good to leave early, and the child is still young, and the impact on him is small.

If you can't get over it, there's no need to continue, it's not good for the child!

Legal analysis: If the decision to divorce can be discussed first, the other party agrees to divorce by agreement, and if you do not agree, you can only file for divorce. In fact, whether to divorce or not mainly depends on how late the marriage of two people has come, and it is best not to divorce or not to divorce.

Personally, I think it's better to be the original match for anyone or anything in the world. The original partner understands all your preferences and joys and sorrows, as well as the little bits and pieces of your life habits.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076 Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration office. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

If it's really unbearable. Then I certainly wouldn't choose not to divorce for the sake of my children. In this way, there will be frequent quarrels over trivial matters, which is not conducive to the child's physical and mental health.

Getting married and having children is not impulsive, and getting along with each other is not a momentary confusion! From meeting to the current meeting and hatred, it will not be a whim, there are always various reasons!

Life is like a flower, what kind of seed blooms and what kind of flower, but some are delicate and some are withering. Peonies never bear roses! Because it's too high!

What you have to think about now is the problem between the two of you, the change will not be great, but whether you can bear it or not depends on your own decision!

A lot of people talk about kids all the time. An unfortunate life is the real misfortune of children, and not all children from single-parent families are unlucky! Children may not be able to understand it now, but when they grow up, they will know how to live and have their own thinking!

Grievances between husband and wife should be resolved by the husband and wife themselves. If it must be imposed on the child, whether the child walks away or not, the child is a tragedy, because misfortune is an infectious disease that will infect the people around you who care about them!

Let's analyze the situation specifically:

First, since you already have children, it means that your relationship foundation is still very good at the beginning. If the conflict can be resolved reasonably, and the parents love their children very much, then I suggest that you relax the idea of divorce first and then think about it. Giving a child a healthy and harmonious family is very beneficial to his growth.

Second, if you meet an irresponsible husband, it is recommended to take the children and divorce decisively. Although it is not easy to raise a child, it is a waste of time and life to continue to hesitate.