Is it appropriate to leave the child alone after a divorce?

Since you can't give your child a stable home, you shouldn't have given birth to him in the first place. Since life is given to him, he should be responsible. You shouldn't leave your children alone to live just for yourself!

How can parents be so selfish? If you feel sorry for him, you should take him to live with you and fulfill your responsibilities as a parent.

Of course it's not appropriate, your respective husband or wife doesn't even like the children, and they don't accept the children before you, I don't know how they accepted you, it can only show that he (she) just loves you personally, and it can only exist now, they are irresponsible people, even a child can't accept it, and there is a risk in the future marriage road, there is a word called love and love, a person who really loves you will accept everything from you, and now he (she) is not true love. If you can't change their minds, then please show your responsibilities and obligations and love and morality, children are your own flesh and blood, how can you give up, money is necessary, care is also indispensable, so that your children can grow up healthily, and he can move forward bravely in his future life, otherwise the child will repeat the mistakes of the past, then the end is not good for anyone. Raising a child is giving, but without giving, you will never gain.

When he was young, he was not careless, and he lamented when he was old.

This will leave a psychological shadow on the child, and the child's personality will also change, becoming introverted, withdrawn, and not loving to communicate with peers, it is recommended to communicate more with the child, and the parents should take more care of the child's feelings after the divorce, it is best to let him know that although his parents are divorced, his parents still love him. Personal advice is for reference only!

This has a very serious impact on the child's growth Can't accept the child for the sake of the other party This can only mean that you are a failure as a parent What the child wants is not support in life What he wants is a home A warm harbor The future of the child depends on what the parents do I hope you can care more about the child After all, the child is innocent Don't impose the mistakes you have made on the child After all, it is a child A child who is deeply involved in the world A child who is full of dreams for the future Parents should not let their children's dreams be shattered Let the child grow up healthy in a warm environment It's still too late to compensate Don't wait until the child grows up, then it's too late.

Each has its own family, and the children will only think that they are redundant in their hearts, and you adults really are.

The family lives for half a year to see if the situation is better, and the child's psychology is very important.

Irresponsible parents like you! There are no words to describe you!

I think that's very unfair to children.

1. How do you live with children after divorce?

1) Don't live on child support.

Usually after the divorce, if the child is taken by the woman, the man will pay the child support on a monthly basis, and the amount of this maintenance will also be negotiated between the two people. No matter how much money there is, a woman must not live on these alimony, these alimony are only the most basic guarantee for her children, and she cannot live on these money.

Women want to be financially independent, they don't need to earn much money, find a relatively easy job, have more time to take care of their children, and at least ensure that they can earn enough for their own expenses. If you rely too much on child support, as your children grow up, there are more and more places to spend money, then these child support payments are not enough at all, and you have to rely on the man who hurt you, or you can't get rid of him, and women have to live with dignity.

2) Adjust your mentality.

Many women will collapse their mentality after divorce, they will have no hope in life, lose confidence in their feelings and marriage, and even plan to live their lives alone and never trust men again. And in the face of real life, I have to take care of and raise my children, and the children's future life path can only be accompanied and helped by themselves, and they will be unable to do so, and they dare not face the idea of life.

After the divorce, a woman must not have such thoughts, there are two sides to everything, think about the good, although you have experienced a failed marriage, but you have also grown a lot, God has given you a new life, with the experience of the last time, the next marriage will definitely be happy. And the child is not a burden, but your best gift, which is equivalent to buying an insurance for your future, even if it is not good in the future, you will have a child by your side, adjust your mentality, and meet every day.

3) Let the child feel the full love.

No matter who is right or wrong, the child is the most innocent, the child can only accept this status quo, the divorce of the husband and wife actually hurts the child the most, because he has to leave a father or mother who loves him no matter what, for him, no one is right or wrong, parents love him.

Father's love and mother's love are indispensable on the child's growth, because the things that father's love and mother's love give him are different, so in order for the child to be happy, the road to growth will not go the wrong way, women must not let the child lose his father's love, even if you hate the man, for the child's growth, let the child often see his father and feel the complete love.

1. Work. Although we are divorced, our own small family should still be maintained, so that our children will not lose at the starting line, and it will not cause our children to be very different from other children. Therefore, when we are looking for a job, it is best to coincide with the time when our children go to school and get out of school, so that we can take care of our children, and our own family expenses can be more secure, so parents must pay attention to such a situation when looking for a job, so that they will become stronger, rather than being beaten down by such a reality.

2. Mentality. When we have divorced, we must hate our ex, let alone complain in front of our children, otherwise when our children meet his other partner, they will also be affected by such factors, and at the same time, they will also let their children have resentment towards his father, so the adult's mentality must be adjusted, so that they can comfort their children, and when their mentality is adjusted, they will become stronger. The above points are some of my personal suggestions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that when you take care of your children, you can pay attention to your words and deeds, and do not show negative emotions in front of your children, so that it is more conducive to the happy growth of your children and will not be affected by all the outside world.

After the divorce, if you have children, you must be prepared for this, that is, to dare to be independent and be ready for a second marriage. Among them, independence is divided into economic independence and spiritual independence, and those who can do it must wear armor and will not be easily injured.

You know, if you have a happy first marriage, you won't go to divorce, since you are divorced, you don't necessarily have to get a second marriage, the key is how you choose, is it a second marriage, a remarriage, or a person?

Nowadays, many couples divorce and think very openly, see through very thoroughly, and hold the mentality of "celibacy to old age". It is best to meet the "suitable", and if you can't touch it, you can live alone with your children, at least without grievances, without so many worries and constraints, and do whatever you want, free and chic.

It is worth mentioning that divorced people with children, if they choose to marry for the second time, except for a few who are happy, most of them live with each other, and use each other's resources to disagree.

No matter whether you live or remarry in the future, you must protect your children, put your children first, and give her a happy and beautiful future.

1.The most important thing is to solve the relationship between the two first. If you decide to take care of your child, you have to be mentally prepared, of course, it will be a lot of hard work, but in any case, you must be responsible for your child; The child's upbringing must be conducive to the child's growth, including:

Ideological character, economic conditions, personality and hobbies, education level, but also consider that the child originally lived there, and it is easy not to change the child's growth environment, etc.; 2.You have to learn to be a full and happy mother, and be financially independent, so that your child's body and mind can grow healthily, right? 3.

Your mother's words can only be used as a reference, suggesting that you learn to make choices and take responsibility for your own life.

You should be the mother of the child, divorce with a child, the first thing you have to face is economic pressure, the child's father may remarry, after marriage may not necessarily give child support regularly, you can't apply for legal enforcement every time, so you with children after divorce, you must be financially independent, have enough financial foundation to meet all the expenses of the child's growth, such as food and drink, toys, clothes, school supplies, specialty classes, etc. If you don't have a house to live in after your divorce, you also have to consider the cost of renting a house. It's all material.

There is also the mental aspect, you have to consider that the child is in a single-parent family, and his psychological condition must not be problematic.

After divorce, many mothers will choose not to marry again because they have children. It is recommended that if you can really meet a good person who will treat you and your child well, and you are also excited, go on with him, after all, the child will have his own life when he grows up, and you should have it too.

Divorced, the sky is still blue ......

The time is relatively tight. It is really not easy to take care of a baby and make money to support a family.

Probably it will be troublesome to balance making money and raising children.

Hello dear, although it is very difficult, but you must persevere. After the divorce, you live alone with children, then you must hold on, just because life will not be hard all the time, there will always be a time to get better. Ever read a sentence like this, saying:

Every good person has a silent time. During that time, I put in a lot of effort, endured loneliness and loneliness, and did not complain or complain, which was the day when I could even be moved by myself in the future. ”