I want to get divorced with children, how can I live a divorce with children alone?

If you really can't, you can take the child over, provided you know a few things.

1: Whether the child is willing to follow you.

2: You have to work, in addition to you, you should have the help of your parents and relatives, and it is best to take care of the children together, so your relatives must be supportive of you.

3: In fact, you can also ask the other party to pay child support with your children, don't be rash, it is what the child deserves, you have to try your best to fight for it, and the law will support you in a lawsuit.

4: Children from single-parent families are prone to extremes, either very obedient or very rebellious, you must have the determination to educate your children well.

5: The road ahead may be more difficult, you know, if you can't hold on, once you regret it, it's better not to take this step now.

6: Now, you put yourself in a different perspective, you will look at your own problems as a bystander, the above points are the reference content, combined with the reasons why you have brought children, you think quietly,。。

7: Okay!! If you have concerns, even a little, it means that you are not determined enough, you will regret your choice, if you are resolute and willing to accept all the baptism of wind and rain, then ... You're right, believe in yourself!

It's going to be a lot of pressure, you have to think about it.

It's hard and bitter like that, and it's not good for children.

1. How do you live with children after divorce?

1) Don't live on child support.

Usually after the divorce, if the child is taken by the woman, the man will pay the child support on a monthly basis, and the amount of this maintenance will also be negotiated between the two people. No matter how much money there is, a woman must not live on these alimony, these alimony are only the most basic guarantee for her children, and she cannot live on these money.

Women want to be financially independent, they don't need to earn much money, find a relatively easy job, have more time to take care of their children, and at least ensure that they can earn enough for their own expenses. If you rely too much on child support, as your children grow up, there are more and more places to spend money, then these child support payments are not enough at all, and you have to rely on the man who hurt you, or you can't get rid of him, and women have to live with dignity.

2) Adjust your mentality.

Many women will collapse their mentality after divorce, they will have no hope in life, lose confidence in their feelings and marriage, and even plan to live their lives alone and never trust men again. And in the face of real life, I have to take care of and raise my children, and the children's future life path can only be accompanied and helped by themselves, and they will be unable to do so, and they dare not face the idea of life.

After the divorce, a woman must not have such thoughts, there are two sides to everything, think about the good, although you have experienced a failed marriage, but you have also grown a lot, God has given you a new life, with the experience of the last time, the next marriage will definitely be happy. And the child is not a burden, but your best gift, which is equivalent to buying an insurance for your future, even if it is not good in the future, you will have a child by your side, adjust your mentality, and meet every day.

3) Let the child feel the full love.

No matter who is right or wrong, the child is the most innocent, the child can only accept this status quo, the divorce of the husband and wife actually hurts the child the most, because he has to leave a father or mother who loves him no matter what, for him, no one is right or wrong, parents love him.

Father's love and mother's love are indispensable on the child's growth, because the things that father's love and mother's love give him are different, so in order for the child to be happy, the road to growth will not go the wrong way, women must not let the child lose his father's love, even if you hate the man, for the child's growth, let the child often see his father and feel the complete love.

1. Work. Although we are divorced, our own small family should still be maintained, so that our children will not lose at the starting line, and it will not cause our children to be very different from other children. Therefore, when we are looking for a job, it is best to coincide with the time when our children go to school and get out of school, so that we can take care of our children, and our own family expenses can be more secure, so parents must pay attention to such a situation when looking for a job, so that they will become stronger, rather than being beaten down by such a reality.

2. Mentality. When we have divorced, we must hate our ex, let alone complain in front of our children, otherwise when our children meet his other partner, they will also be affected by such factors, and at the same time, they will also let their children have resentment towards his father, so the adult's mentality must be adjusted, so that they can comfort their children, and when their mentality is adjusted, they will become stronger. The above points are some of my personal suggestions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that when you take care of your children, you can pay attention to your words and deeds, and do not show negative emotions in front of your children, so that it is more conducive to the happy growth of your children and will not be affected by all the outside world.

After the divorce, if you have children, you must be prepared for this, that is, to dare to be independent and be ready for a second marriage. Among them, independence is divided into economic independence and spiritual independence, and those who can do it must wear armor and will not be easily injured.

You know, if you have a happy first marriage, you won't go to divorce, since you are divorced, you don't necessarily have to get a second marriage, the key is how you choose, is it a second marriage, a remarriage, or a person?

Nowadays, many couples divorce and think very openly, see through very thoroughly, and hold the mentality of "celibacy to old age". It is best to meet the "suitable", and if you can't touch it, you can live alone with your children, at least without grievances, without so many worries and constraints, and do whatever you want, free and chic.

It is worth mentioning that divorced people with children, if they choose to marry for the second time, except for a few who are happy, most of them live with each other, and use each other's resources to disagree.

No matter whether you live or remarry in the future, you must protect your children, put your children first, and give her a happy and beautiful future.

1.The most important thing is to solve the relationship between the two first. If you decide to take care of your child, you have to be mentally prepared, of course, it will be a lot of hard work, but in any case, you must be responsible for your child; The child's upbringing must be conducive to the child's growth, including:

Ideological character, economic conditions, personality and hobbies, education level, but also consider that the child originally lived there, and it is easy not to change the child's growth environment, etc.; 2.You have to learn to be a full and happy mother, and be financially independent, so that your child's body and mind can grow healthily, right? 3.

Your mother's words can only be used as a reference, suggesting that you learn to make choices and take responsibility for your own life.

Of course. According to the provisions of the Marriage Law, after the divorce of a husband and wife, the child can only live with one of the parents, and the parent who does not live with the child shall fulfill the obligation of support by paying child support. However, the divorce of parents does not affect the parent-child relationship between parents and childrenTherefore, the parent who does not live with the child has the right to visit the child.

In a divorce, it is often the case that both spouses want to fight for custody of the child. After divorce, couples often have many disputes over the right to visitation of their children. In reality, it often happens that some parents do not allow each other to visit their children, such as hiding their children and not letting them see each other, which seriously damages the other party's visitation rights and damages the interests of the children, which is illegal and wrong.

Some people who do not live with their children after divorce are often reluctant to live after divorce. Therefore, when visiting the children after the divorce, it is necessary to take the children with them. The removal here is not a take-out, and parents visiting their children do not necessarily have to stay in a fixed house in the same way as visiting prisoners.

The reason I mean here is that some parents want to divorce and visit their children, so they take their children away secretly and live with them all the time.

Yes, as long as both parties allow it, you can definitely take the child out to play. After all, you are also the parent of your child. It's normal to take him out with you.

OK. Because whether you are divorced or not, your child is your own biological child, and you have the right to take him out to play, and spending more time with him can also enhance the relationship between the two of you and make him feel warm.

Of course, you can take your children out to play after the divorce, there is no requirement for this, as long as you can ensure the safety of your children.

Of course, after the divorce, it is possible to take the children out to play, no matter who the divorced children are with, parents have the right to accompany the children.

Hello dear, although it is very difficult, but you must persevere. After the divorce, you live alone with children, then you must hold on, just because life will not be hard all the time, there will always be a time to get better. Ever read a sentence like this, saying:

Every good person has a silent time. During that time, I put in a lot of effort, endured loneliness and loneliness, and did not complain or complain, which was the day when I could even be moved by myself in the future. ”

If a couple has children and wants to divorce, they can negotiate who will raise the children, and if the negotiation fails, they can sue the court and the court will decide who will raise the children. Generally, if the child is in the lactation period, the mother shall raise the child, and if the lactation period is over, the custody of the child shall be judged in accordance with the principle of conducive to the healthy growth of the child.

1. Is it illegal to have a child without a license for cohabitation, and who has custody of the child without a license?

Not illegal. The husband and wife can negotiate the ownership of the custody of the child, and if the negotiation fails, the court will need to make a decision. The court's decision on the ownership of custody is generally based on the principle of being conducive to the growth of the child, and the following factors are mainly considered:

Education, employment, income, age, family environment, age of both spouses, age of children, etc.

When one of the spouses is superior to each other in terms of education, work, income, age, family environment and other conditions, it will be considered more conducive to the child's education and growth, and the chances of obtaining child custody will be higher.

However, if the child is still breastfeeding, then the principle is to be raised by the breastfeeding mother. If the two parties cannot reach an agreement due to a dispute over the custody of a child after breastfeeding, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the rights and interests of the child and the specific circumstances of both parties.

2. Can child custody be determined by agreement?

Child custody can be determined by agreement. The issue of the ownership of child custody is first agreed upon by the parents themselves, and if the negotiation fails, the parties will submit the ownership of custody to the court for judgment. It is important to note that if the child is breastfeeding, it is best for the child to be raised by the mother.

If the mother has the conditions to support the child and does not fulfill the obligation to support the child, but the father is able to raise the child and is willing to raise the child, the father can become the custodian of the child.

3. How to determine the ownership of custody of the child.

Breastfeeding children generally live with their mothers. If the mother has any of the following circumstances, she may live with the father:

1) Suffering from infectious diseases or other serious diseases that cannot be cured for a long time, and the children should not live with them;

2) There are conditions for raising children who do not fulfill their obligation to support them, and the father requires the child to live with him;

3) Due to other reasons for loss of money, the child is indeed unable to live with the mother.

The parents of a child who has passed the lactation period will negotiate to raise the child on their own, and if the negotiation fails, the court will decide.

Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that the relationship between parents and children shall not be extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother. After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.