2 year old children have a very willful temper, how to educate better

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However, the current reality we are facing is that there is a serious lack of social integrity! All kinds of exaggerated rendering, misguidance, the environment in which children grow up is constantly damaged and polluted, how easy it is to do a good job in family education!

Parents are getting worse and harder, to be honest, many parents will not be how to be parents, so their children are born in this world, and a lot of educational responsibilities are pushed to the school and society, but parents are the first teachers of children, and a lot of growth experience is required for parents to teach by word and deed, how can they educate their children well if they shirk their responsibilities? Saddened indeed!

And we as children often can't understand the parents' intentions and real experience, only for our own convenience and enjoyment, to be honest, it's really a bit rebellious! The day will come when we are all parents to truly understand this feeling, but it is often too late to regret it, hey.

Many of the so-called generation gaps in our lives are caused by the disconnection of education received from generation to generation, and there is no good coherence.

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This is commonplace in many families, mainly the common problem of only children, it is best to let him get along with children of the same age, and if there is a temper tantrum at home, you can use the cold treatment method.

Observe more first, summarize the rules of his temper, and then think about countermeasures. I think it is necessary to be reasonable, supplemented by appropriate punishment, and you must endure the punishment when you should be punished, but don't be too reckless to hurt the child, and scare the child with a big momentum, but don't let the child figure out your true meaning, otherwise it won't work next time.

Moderate corporal punishment is mandatory.

Don't get used to it, learn to say "no" to him

Educational Methods:

1. Parents should be allowed to understand children's emotions and the process of regulating development. As children get older, it's time to tell them how to express their emotions in the right way. In addition, parents should learn appropriate waiting and emotional regulation methods according to the child's developmental age.

2. When the symptoms are severe, the behavior of temporary excavation isolation method can be carried out**. However, when implementing this method, it is necessary to pay attention to the child's requirements when the child's temper explodes to a certain stage, which will further strengthen the child's behavior.

3. Therefore, it is necessary to warn parents that after the implementation of the temporary isolation method on their children, there may be a transient emotional outburst, this behavior method is more suitable for children aged 2-6 years, when the child has a tantrum of concealment, he will be placed in an isolation room or empty house with simple settings and no contact with the outside world for a few minutes. Isolation begins in about 15 seconds after symptoms disappear. When the child's symptoms are reduced, positive reinforcement methods such as rewards and praise should be taken immediately to reinforce good behavior, and the younger the child, the more timely the positive reinforcement feedback needs.

Do you know how to knock over the wild cherry bowl when eating, and then frown, try to demonstrate, you can do something you think is right to show the child of the rift bush Jisheng, the child will understand if he finds it interesting, patience is more important.

Such a young child learns completely by following the actions of adults, and it is necessary to show the child Kaizi in good aspects. Over time, good habits will be slowly cultivated, and Brother Pi Oak will be cultivated.

The reprimand should still be reprimanded, and the child must be able to show the good and bad by the way.

Teach by example and lead by example.

To guide correctly, remember not to rush for quick success.

Babies 2-3 years old will have a period of stubbornness, during this time, parents need to have a lot of patience, sometimes the baby's behavior and thoughts are incomprehensible to adults, which is very normal. At this time, it is enough to follow the baby's behavior and thoughts, guide them appropriately, and reason with the baby.

Willfulness is not innate, it is related to the parent's education method, some parents, especially the elderly, are responsive to their children's requirements, but he doesn't know that this is actually harming children. Parents should have a correct attitude, establish a correct outlook on life and values for their children, and not be self-centered. If possible, parents should take care of their children by themselves.

And the habit has been formed, it is not a day or two can be changed, do not scold, this not only has no effect but affects the parent-child relationship. Try to befriend your baby and make him trust you. Best wishes!

The child is not big, and this bad problem must be reversed. You can pay equal attention to grace and power, so that he knows that he shouldn't be like this. Zhou's children know what to do and what not to do.

1. Forced to take a break. As punishment for a jumping child, the child may be taken into another hut, taken out of the environment that excites him, and his eyes are calmly examined to force him to rest.

2. Divert attention. If the child likes to throw things in front of the guests, you may wish to set up a nylon target plate on the door of the house, and when the guests come, with the consent of the guests, everyone throws them together to see who throws the bibi accurately. This not only satisfies the child's desire to perform, but also enables the child to learn to restrain himself from the rules of the game, so that the disorderly movement is transferred into an orderly competition.

3. A gentle hint. If your child is playing with the volume of the TV, you should never shout and scold, but make a gentle movement in front of his eyes and ask him, "Do you know how Mommy likes to watch TV the most?"

Then guide him to turn down the volume and ask him, "Why does mom like this?" ”

4. Cultivate the pure experience of self-management and trouser behavior. One of the most fundamental reasons for willfulness is the child's lack of self-control and self-management. It is an effective way to cultivate children's awareness of self-management.

For example, let your child put the toys he has finished playing with in the cabinet, and put a small pillow towel on the pillow after he gets up from bed, and over time, he will learn to control himself and form good self-management habits.

Don't sing the stool to hit his self-confidence, in fact, as long as you don't deny him completely, people are not so fragile, criticism and encouragement can exist.

In fact, children are the most prone to negative emotions, and he uses the most direct way to show her negative emotions, but in most cases, adults can't understand them. Even many children have no hidden cherry blossom meditation method to understand why adults talk to her very gently, and with stove dust, but adults talk very seriously, he will even think that you don't respect him, so you have to understand it in his way.

Then you can only empathize and accompany him more.