What are some of the stories that embody the right values?

When I was almost 5 years old, I took a car from Lei Bo to my hometown in Meishan with my grandmother, at that time it was a three-day journey from Lei Bo to Meishan, along the way I sang excitedly, danced the dance of "Beijing's Golden Mountain", the car went all the way up the mountain, the slope was steep and the road was dangerous, the whole car did not dare to speak out loud, and I also obediently snuggled up to my grandmother's side. Arrived at the top of the mountain, after the car rested, several passengers came up, including a PLA uncle, the car continued to drive forward, the road down the mountain was also very dangerous, crooked, my grandmother had motion sickness, sweating profusely, her face was very ugly, I cried anxiously: Mother-in-law, what's wrong with you.

At this time, the uncle of the People's Liberation Army came to us and said: "Children, don't worry. On the other hand, he asked his mother-in-law with concern

Auntie, you're not feeling well, are you? The mother-in-law said, "I want to throw up."

The uncle of the People's Liberation Army quickly brought a military-colored Tang porcelain boiling water cup to my grandmother, and then my grandmother vomited, and an aunt pulled me to her side to take care of me, and an uncle next to my grandmother and the uncle of the People's Liberation Army changed seats, and the uncle of the People's Liberation Army took care of my grandmother who was sick from the car. I walked up to the PLA uncle and said to the uncle, thank you, and the PLA uncle said, children, uncle should do it.

It was raining heavily the evening before the Mid-Autumn Festival last year, and I walked alone through the streets, thinly dressed, feeling a little cold, and my stomach was still howling, as if to remind me that it was time to eat. So I felt in my pocket and found that there were more than 20 yuan, which should be enough for a meal. I found a fast food restaurant, 10 yuan a fast food with fish and meat is already very good, I ordered a fast food just about to go out, met a man named Hanako, he was wearing tattered clothes, the whole body looked very dirty, standing in the rainstorm, the whole body was still wet by the rain, he said to me:

I haven't eaten for many days, and now I'm so hungry that I can't walk, can you give me something to eat? You are a good person, you must have a good reward, you can do it, give me something to eat. I stood in the doorway and looked at his pitiful eyes and his rain-soaked body.

I was moved, so I gave him the 10 yuan left over from eating fast food, and told him to hurry up and buy something to eat, not to go outside in the rain, if he caught a cold, he would not have money to see a doctor. He took the money and bowed to me to thank me, and said something in his mouth: You are such a good person.

A well-known dancer with a very successful career is preparing to participate in an international competition. But just a few days ago, she was diagnosed with bone cancer. She is faced with two paths:

Either amputation or death. As a dancer, losing your legs is like losing your life. She was in a dilemma.

She didn't want to, but what could be done? In the end, she chose the brilliance, the beauty of that moment. When she stood on the stage, she walked lightly, and there was no sign that she was seriously ill.

When she walked off the stage, she never got up again. This is a true story. A lifetime of hard work turned into a performance on stage.

When I met a mother-in-law who sold vegetables, the customer chose her dishes and was ready to scan the code with her mobile phone to pay, the mother-in-law quickly shook her hand and said that it would not be used, but the customer did not bring cash, and was about to be disappointed when she put down the dishes, the sister of the roadside shop called her mother-in-law and said softly, come, I will sweep it for you, a passer-by helped sweep *** to the mother-in-law to complete a transaction, as long as there is a heart, you can see and hear warm stories everywhere, wonderful sounds, you can taste the "delicious taste of the world" every day.

Next to the downward elevator in the mall, a two- or three-year-old child fell down on the elevator, and when he saw it, a woman in white rushed over and hugged it back, which can be called the hand of God. This one is in the news, and there is surveillance**. And many, many more.

Starting from me, with good intentions, I believe that there is still a lot of positive energy in this society.

After graduating from high school, preparing to study abroad, the day at the airport, it was my first flight, my parents saw me enter the security checkpoint, my mother was already in tears, I saw my father's eyes in the distance were also red, I immediately felt very painful in my heart, thanks to my parents, suddenly remembered a sentence "Parents are here, not far away!" "You really should spend more time with them.

I saw with my own eyes a son in my village who walked almost two kilometers with his 92-year-old father in the rain and an umbrella to the village clinic for injections, because he and I were in a group, and I was chatting about my own experience in the village. I think he is a dutiful son. And everyone in my village knows who he is.

I was really impressed.

An old lady fainted on the subway, and the uncle she didn't know carried her to the hospital by taxi, and left silently until her family arrived. Later, he was found by a reporter and asked him if you are not afraid of being falsely accused? The uncle smiled innocently, didn't think about it so much, and saw that the aunt fainted and was in a hurry.

1. Stability and durability are suspected.

Values have relative stability and persistence. At a specific time, place, and condition, people's values are always relatively stable and durable. For example, there is always an opinion and evaluation of the goodness of a certain person or thing, and this opinion will not change under the same conditions.

2. Historicity and selectivity.

The values formed in different times and in different social living environments are different. A person's values are gradually formed from birth and under the influence of family and society.

The social mode of production in which a person lives.

and its economic position, which has a decisive impact on the formation of its values. Of course, the views of newspapers, television and radio, as well as the views and behaviors of parents, teachers, friends and public celebrities, also have a non-negligible impact on a person's values.

3. Subjectivity.

The criteria used to distinguish good from bad are measured and evaluated according to the scale of the individual's heart, and these standards can be called values.

The role of values is broadly reflected in the following two aspects:

1. Values have a guiding effect on motivation, the motivation of people's behavior is governed and restricted by values, values have an important impact on the motivation model, under the same objective conditions, people with different values, their motivation patterns are different, and the behaviors produced are not the same, the purpose direction of motivation is governed by values, only those that are considered desirable through value judgment can be converted into behavioral motivation, and use this as the goal to guide people's behavior.

2. Values reflect people's cognition and needs, and the value argument is people's evaluation and perception of the objective world and behavioral results, so it reflects people's outlook on life from a certain aspect.

The concept of the world reflects people's subjective perception of the world.

Values are the criterion of our behavior and the criterion of choice, if we do not establish the correct values, then when we are pursuing our own interests, we may lose the bottom line and do something that violates morality or even the law. Without the guidance of values, we can go astray and go down the wrong path.

For our generation, the cruel reality has just begun to come into contact, and has been surrounded by truth, goodness and beauty, we have relatively positive values, how to face the future and challenges, we can understand through reading. There are all kinds of values in the books, and the values in the classic books are positive and worth learning from.

Theoretical values are not enough, there is an opportunity, to see more time outside, we can easily reinforce the limited thinking because of the similarity of the surrounding environment. Go and look at the outside world and expand your pattern, and you will find that there are so many possibilities in the world, and many of the things we insist on are actually not so worth caring about, and many of the things we ignore are truly indispensable. What moves you will change you.

There is a sentence in the movie "The Godfather": People who spend half a second to see through the essence of things, and people who spend their whole lives unable to see the essence of things, are destined to have completely different fates, because values determine fate.

Values determine destiny, and the key to improving our ability to behave in the world lies in how we know how to choose, where to go, what is important and what is most important at every moment. When we learn to choose, we also know how to behave and do things better.

In "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People", Stephen Covey proposed a model of "seeing for getting". "View" is the values, principles, beliefs and other things at the level of thinking, "for" is the behavior, and "get" is the result. The view is decided, and the decision is made.

As Mr. Stephen Covey said: If you want to make a small change, you only need to start with behavior; If you want to see a real qualitative change, start with thinking.

Many people have their own value system, such as Stephen Covey, his 7 habits are his own principles and values: proactive, start with the end in mind, put things first, win-win thinking, know each other and understand themselves, integrate and synergize, and constantly update. Kazuo Inamori also has his own principles and values, such as the Six Diligence:

Pay as much effort as anyone else, be humble and not proud, reflect every day, be grateful when you live, accumulate good deeds and think altruism, and don't have emotional troubles.

For ordinary people, we also need to have such principles and values, constantly compare, as a criterion for dealing with the world, and continue to practice deliberately in work and life, so as to have the opportunity to improve ourselves.

Values guide and influence a person's life direction and luck, etc., which are the most important of the three views of life.

To see whether this person has the value of use, there is some use for himself, the value of the company to the society can be analyzed from his personal ability and some good qualities, and the value of some successful people is obvious, and some ordinary people are difficult to see in the embodiment of value, here we will understand how this value is to say the value of people and things, the following is a description of the importance of values.

The importance of values has 1 The unity of values and ideology is the cornerstone of interpersonal relations The importance of values has 2 The interaction and coordination of values and interests are the core of interpersonal relationships The importance of values has 3 The communication of values and information is the key to the formation of healthy interpersonal relationships The importance of values has 4 The consistency of values in practice is the guarantee of interpersonal relationships The importance of values has four points, and this value should be a cornerstone of interpersonal relations from the perspective of ideological understanding. And it is also the core of interests, and it is also the key to information communication.

On the one hand, it is manifested as value orientation and value pursuit, which is condensed into a certain value goal; On the other hand, it is manifested as a value scale and criterion, which has become an evaluation standard for people to judge whether something of value is worthy, whether it is worth much, whether it is glorious or shameful.