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I've had the same problem as you, do I feel like I'm out of place? In fact, I thought it clearly later, making friends is not just about sincerity, but also about wisdom. Like you said, you are always attacked by a group, it should be that there is something you do that is not reasonable, such as everyone is chatting but you are reading, everyone is shopping together and you say you are not going, etc., or it may be that you speak a little straight.
In short, try to analyze the reasons why they attack you, and try to change it as much as possible, after all, people live in groups, maybe your ignorance is also a reason, don't show your anger too obviously, it is easy to stiffen the relationship. There is also that they are good to others, in fact, to a certain extent, it may be that you are more sensitive, and the other is that others are more able to behave. That's all I can say, and hopefully you'll get out of the quagmire.
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You are too tolerant, they are a little too bullying you, you can really find teachers or parents in this way, now children are bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, but you don't have to be impulsive, don't fight, just find the teacher to reflect the situation, I hope the teacher can help you.
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Maybe you've messed with someone, if you want to be with them then you have time to talk to them, maybe it's just a joke. If you plan to tear your face and ignore anyone in the future, then the next time whoever is talking about you, you will turn your face, and they will beat him if they have no face or skin, and you will not be afraid of being beaten, at least let the family know that you are not easy to bully. Hehe, I was honest before, I didn't dare to scold, and then I was forced out, and now no one dares to mess with me, and I take the initiative to set it up.
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Wouldn't it be okay to just run over and slap them a few times? This kind of thing is absolutely intolerable, the more you tolerate it, the more they will bully you. The more you tolerate them, the more they will think you're a bully!
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Summary. Because everyone grew up in a different environment, their personality traits will also be different. In the process of interacting with other people, we all like to get along with people who can make us feel comfortable and happy, and at the same time stay away from and exclude those groups and individuals who make us feel unhappy and uncomfortable, which is a kind of self-protection function and consciousness of people, and is a kind of survival and social choice of human instinct, which is a normal social phenomenon and psychological phenomenon.
But because we are all members of the society, we all inevitably get along with and interact with people with different personality traits, so we still need to have harmonious and goodwill exchanges and communication with others, which can be "harmonious and different", which means that I can cooperate and help each other with others towards a common goal, but at the same time I can retain my own views and understanding of something or someone.
There are always some classmates in the class that I like or dislike.
Hello, I am honored to be able to serve you. Your description is actually a normal psychological phenomenon, and almost everyone has this kind of cognition and state. <>
Because everyone grew up in a different environment, their personality traits will also be different. In the process of interacting with other people, we all like to get along with people who can make us feel comfortable and happy, and at the same time stay away from and exclude those groups and individuals who make us feel unhappy and uncomfortable, which is a kind of self-protection function and consciousness of people, and is a kind of survival and social choice of human instinct, which is a normal social phenomenon and psychological phenomenon. But because we are all members of the society, we all inevitably get along with and interact with people with different personality traits, so we still need to have harmonious and goodwill exchanges and communication with others, which can be "harmonious and different", which means that I can cooperate and help each other with others towards a common goal, but at the same time I can retain my own views and understanding of something or someone.
Because in this society, we can't like everyone, and at the same time we can't be liked by everyone. As long as we follow our set goals step by step, and learn to support and appreciate ourselves, if we can care, then you can calmly face difficulties and setbacks and find the ideal solution. <>
I hope I can help you, if you have any other questions to consult, I am very welcome to do further ** and communication <>
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You should be confident, courageous, brave chase, first of all, you have the conditions, more opportunities to contact, more ways to communicate, such as two people often exchange some learning topics, exchange knowledge points, discuss the best problems, eat together, walk together outside the school, talk about family, talk about personal ideas, express the ideals in your heart, take this time to contact and communicate with her, find the right opportunity to talk about feelings, slowly step into the process of love, and then understand each other more, interact more, understand each other, help each other, Since you like her, you must love her, boldly confess to her, sincerely reveal the sincerity of your love for her, strive for her to accept you, be realistic, don't pretend, for the true love and marriage between each other, if necessary, use some kind lies, don't play love games, be down-to-earth, don't be untrustworthy, be loyal and kind!
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If he only makes a little joke once in a while, then forget it, but he always bullies you and makes you unhappy, then you tell your parents and ask them to find a teacher to solve it, in short, don't hurt your heart because of this incident. If you don't want to tell your parents, you can also tell him in person that it will make you angry, give him a warning, or tell his friends about it, and work together to fix it, and the troubles will always disappear.
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You don't have to worry about it.
If it's just a joke, don't get angry and grab it back.
Tell him not to take an example.
It is also possible to warn him:
If you do it again, you will tell the teacher.
Intentions, the class is generally divided into several parts, several pieces have their own core characters, as long as you deal with the relationship with their core characters, let them feel that you and them are all the way, the class will naturally be harmonious, and what you say will naturally work.
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