Some people say that love is as long as the other person is doing well, and some people say that lov

I think love is as long as the other person is doing well, if the person you love already has another girl around him and is his girlfriend, then you should learn to let go, turn away, and not disturb his happiness.

I think love is to learn to be tolerant, empathetic, and constantly hone in each other's feelings. In addition, love is mutual, and it is definitely not a one-sided give-and-take. We must believe in our own ability to love, and we must also believe in the power of love!

I agree with the term possession, most people will have this kind of psychology to some extent, but not excessively, because the other party is an independent individual with his own freedom.

I think love is selfish possession, as long as the other party lives well, that is a saint, not we ordinary people can do it.

I think love is as long as the other person is doing well. Because two people who have no feelings, even if you forcibly possess each other, you will not be happy, I think the real relationship is to let go and see that he is doing better.

I agree with the former, because true love is not selfish, as long as the other party has a broader space, they will bless him, which is love in the true sense, rather than taking it for oneself and treating him as private property.

Summary. Good evening, dear, you're right, that's the case, if you love someone very much, you will want to possess it before you want to be selfish and have it yourself. But sometimes true love doesn't mean being possessive or selfish.

Perhaps sometimes true love should be respectful, considerate, tolerant, and understanding. If you really love someone, sometimes you will choose restraint. <>

Of course, it is not excluded that because of the preferences and needs of the other party, there will be occasional possessiveness and selfishness out of the idea of concern.

It is said that loving someone is not possession, you can't be selfish, I really don't understand, it's because of love that you want to possess, you want to be selfish, isn't it? Am I wrong?

Good evening, dear, you're right, that's the case, if you love someone very much, you will want to possess it before you want to be selfish and have it yourself. But sometimes true love doesn't mean possessing the other person or being selfish. Perhaps sometimes true love should be respectful, considerate, tolerant, and understanding.

If you really love a celery branch, sometimes you will choose to refrain from it. <>

Of course, it cannot be ruled out that because of the preferences and needs of the other party, occasionally out of concern will be possessive and selfish.

It is selfless and selfish, this person can give you selfless love and can give you a lot of things, but he is also selfish, so selfish that he wants to be the only one in your eyes.

Love cannot be shared with others, especially when the beloved woman comes into contact with other members of the opposite sex, he will always be jealous.

Our survey found that the calmer a man is in a relationship, the less he cares about the other person.

For example, when a couple of lovers break up, if the man behaves too calmly, or even more simply, it means that he really doesn't love the woman so much.

On the contrary, if the woman you love is too intimate with other people, the man's selfishness will be particularly strong, which means that the woman's status in his mind is very high.

As we have seen, some men become particularly angry when they feel threatened by other men of the same sex, and act aggressively.

If a man is particularly selfish to himself in love, always strict with himself in all aspects, or even extremely harsh, then he must be a person who pursues a high quality of life.

But if he has the opposite attitude towards you, then it means that he loves you from the bottom of his heart.

He always shows great generosity to you, tolerates you everywhere, tolerates you, and always gives you the best, which shows that a man loves you more than himself.

Because loving you is a kind of possessiveness, then all including yours are mine, this kind of comrade-in-arms displacement also falls into a kind of bondage for the other party, making him feel very uncomfortable, then love is also selfless, depending on the exchange and communication between people, but also in the sense of trust between them, if there is no sense of trust, then excessive possession, then May Day is also pushing the other party into the abyss of love.

There is no love for no reason in the world, love is also self-interested, and what is beneficial to oneself will be loved, such as common interests and common language.

There is selfish love, and there is selfless love.

Some people think that love comes first

Because love wants to possess. You think it's your thing, you want to dominate everything, you don't want others to share it with you, it's okay, but have you asked the other person? Does the other party agree?

If the other party agrees, he enjoys this treatment very much. If the other person feels aggrieved and breathless in the relationship, he will think that you are too selfish.

You're right, you really love someone. They all want to possess everything from the other party. But you think too much, in fact, everyone is born in this world, they come crying alone, and when they leave the world, they also leave alone.

The relationship between the two people is particularly good, but there is one person who goes first and one person who goes later. That's the reality.

So we don't deny it, we have to take possession of something, because nothing belongs to us, including our lover, for example, there is a husband and wife, after he gets married. It's been a hundred years. After that, there is a first go.

But the other one took many years to leave. It's all the same thing, love yourself well, it's not that you can't possess everything from each other, but if the other party has the same heart as you, the same idea, it's okay for you to possess each other.

Loving someone is not possessive, and the phrase can't be selfish is in a specific situation, only for unrequited love, and the other person doesn't love you. If it's a two-way street, love each other, then there is no such problem, run to each other. Possess each other, and each other is unique.

So, special treatment in special cases. Like, you love him, but he doesn't love you. Then it's selfish for you to force him to stay around, but if you love each other, even if you are selfish, someone will respond, isn't it, if you think it's okay, please give a thank you, welcome to ask.

Selfish love is possession, and selfless love makes the other person better and better.

Love is a good thing, but you can't force the other person to love you just because you love.

It's like some foods that may be good for your body, but you don't like them, do you force yourself to eat them all the time?

This is a matter of personal values, some people think it is good to give, and some people think it is good to take. That's probably the truth.

I've come across the situation you're talking about. The first thing I'm going to tell you is that true love is indeed selfish. But that kind of selfishness is the selfishness of having absolute ownership of each other.

In other words, true love is that he will no longer have thoughts about others, and he will never allow others to have thoughts about you.

She said that she only loves you, and she loves others when she is discovered. This is actually a deception to you. If you love him, you can bring it up to him, ask him what he really needs, tell him:

I can do whatever you need from a woman. But the only requirement is that you can only love me. ”

If he says yes to you, then continue to associate with him and see how he behaves. If he hasn't changed, you don't need to think about why he doesn't let you go, but why don't you let go of yourself and let him go. What you need is not such a lover, you are not his appendage ...

There's a whole forest behind it waiting for you to develop. I sincerely hope you are happy.

Then you give up on him. Such a person is not decisive and single-minded, and after following him, I also know that he is not decisive and single-minded. Nothing promising.

When you are in true love, you can't tolerate others in your eyes, I believe you have loved deeply, you understand, and he has someone else in his eyes, which proves that his love for you is fake at all!

It depends on how you do it, and you can only cut off this road and lead to the next road, if you still procrastinate like this, you can't afford to spend your youth.

I should say that this person is too loving, the feelings are too rich to be like this, and he shouldn't even understand who he loves.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, Qi Xuling When you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

Gao Qi. If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover, the honorary hand always knows you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.