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To indulge oneself is to give up on oneself.

If a person wants to succeed, he should not let himself go with the flow and indulge himself, but should be restrained in his actions and words, and be cautious in his words and deeds. Rather than getting into trouble and giving others a handle because of your own indulgence, it is better to be cautious and manage yourself.

If a person indulges himself, even in a very casual and casual situation, he will be rejected by others. It is conceivable that if a person has an attitude of being happy in time and cannot grasp his own role in any situation, he will inevitably be criticized by people.

Xiao Wang's company held a drinking party, he usually likes to drink, and he can't stop drinking until he gets drunk, and he is always ugly. This time, Xiao Wang also held the attitude of not drinking white liquor and not drinking, showing a greedy look, not drunk, thinking that this was taking advantage of the advantage, and he could be satisfied. In fact, this is very wrong.

Because at such a cocktail party, although everyone is in harmony and looks very comfortable, Xiao Wang may not have noticed, in fact, many bosses are using such a cocktail party to conduct secret visits to their employees, because the more relaxed a person is, the easier it is to expose his true nature, and Xiao Wang exposes his true nature, which is exactly what his boss needs.

Think about it, when Xiao Wang was drunk, he turned his "old bottom" upside down, and showed all the small problems he tried to hide in his daily work to his boss, so what kind of evaluation will he get?

Not only that, but in life, if a person does not manage themselves well, the probability of indulging themselves is high. There will be many changes in your life, such as the loss of loved ones, lovers, friends, and beautiful careers ......When these blows hit, it is the time when a person's fighting spirit is the most tested, and if you retreat and indulge yourself, you will never recover, and you will lose even more. Emotional things always make us unable to control easily, and will experience all kinds of blows, and often some people will be hit to the point of hesitation, like headless flies, feeling that society is dark and unfair.

These people will hate society, hate feelings, allow themselves to go from one extreme to another, and choose to indulge themselves.

Once the person chooses to indulge himself, he is taking the most mentally retarded behavior, which is tantamount to going to the path of depravity. If you play life, life will reward you with miserable results, life is just a few decades, why bother?

If a student indulges himself, does not feel at ease in his studies, spends his days in Internet cafes, obsessed with computer games, and spends a lot of energy on games, then his grades will inevitably plummet until his studies are in ...... mess

If you indulge yourself at work, don't work hard to improve your work ability, indulge in some things that have nothing to do with work all day long, and occupy most of your energy, so that your work is getting worse and worse, and you frequently receive warnings and criticisms from your boss, when your boss is no longer willing to put up with you, it is time for you to leave.