When the old man is drilling the tip of the horns, how will you enlighten him?

Find relatives and friends that the elderly trust to enlighten. Such as their own daughters (sons), mother-in-law (fathers), old colleagues, old friends, etc. Perhaps they can untie the knots in their hearts.

At this time, don't enlighten yet, the time is not right. Take him out for a walk first, wait until he has fun and smile, and slowly grasp it flexibly, waiting for the opportunity to enlighten point by point.

When talking to the elderly, say what they like to hear and don't mention sad things. Listen more and talk less, be patient when listening to the elderly, try to let them finish their words, and don't interrupt easily.

When people are old, because their temperament has changed greatly, or they have a short temper, they love to play with their temper, and they often scold others; or be withdrawn, love to drill the horns, and sulk; or like to be idle and interfere in the affairs of their children; Or talk like to chatter, always repeat one thing and one sentence many times, and so on. This is not surprising, this is related to the deterioration of the physical and psychological qualities of the elderly. ‍‍

Accompany the elderly to spend more time outdoors. Take a walk, visit the park, go out on a trip, and encourage the elderly to go out and square dance.

Praise the old man more. When people are old, they like others to give them a thumbs up, and they also like to mention "the courage of the year", and their children should do what they like.

Let your children amuse the elderly. It is said that "the next generation", and the grandson (grandson) is the heart and soul of the old man. The old man must be happy with the child.

Let the elderly visit the neighbors, or go to the community to have more contact with other elderly people and move together.

The children should figure out which sentence made the old man care too much, just talk about it, apologize to the old man for saying the wrong thing, and ask for the old man's forgiveness.

Young, young.

As you get older, your psychology becomes simpler and more freewheeling.

It also has to do with the person's personality, and it is likely that there is a lack of attention and concern, which is why it has become like this.

Cultivated since childhood and strengthened the day after tomorrow, you don't think that he or she will improve in your direction. And there is a generation gap in age, so it's good to be tolerant of some things. (I guess it's your parents?) ）

Whatever the reason, the best thing to do is not to provoke the old man.

Old man. It should be used to being alone. Spend more time with her in the future. There is also the fact that you should have suffered when you were young. Grumpy. Old. It can't be changed. It should all be family reasons.

Self-righteous, self-determined, empty heart, don't associate with her.

It shows that this old man is very strong and rarely talks to her.

There is no way to deal with the old man, let him a little, let him a little.

The old people are too lonely, so spend more time with them.

Feeling that others look down on you and ignore your feelings.

It's normal, the older generation and the younger generation! Most of the elderly are like this.

Personally, I think family issues are more appropriate.

This should be a personality problem and a habit problem.

There are many things in life, which make people very helpless, but we should be happy. Those people or things that can't figure it out are better to ignore them indifferently. We are truly alive, but not everyone and everything has to be taken to the end.

Behind the truth, there is often a heartache hidden. Live happily, like a flower that blooms naturally and falls naturally, is not sad. Flowers are not flowers, fog is not fog, and the bears are elegant.

If this is the case, and you can't solve it personally, then call the police directly! Because after all, if you do this for a long time, your mental condition is not very good.

Don't go back to his house, don't make a fuss.

Warn him, talk to his family, he will be afraid that he will lose face, maybe he will not come again, if it continues to get worse, endlessly, then you can only choose to call the police, or find a new boyfriend, in order to let yourself live with peace of mind.

Once the elderly are moved, they will be very persistent, because there is not much time left for him, so he will try his best to strive for the opportunity to be happy.

You can find a trustworthy friend, talk to the old man, make it clear, don't go on like this, the old man is easy to get into the horns, and say that you don't owe each other, and each is fine.

Leave evidence of harassment and go to the police.

Why do you have to provoke him? Do you have to get along? Alarm can.

There is no need to find fault with the elderly, there is an old man in the family if there is a treasure, because filial piety to the old man will bring blessings to himself, and unfilial piety to the old man will damage his own blessings.

Does fate exist, of course, and it can be changed through our efforts. "The Four Disciplines of Lifan", a kind of virtue and life, self-cultivation and governance books. The author is Yuan Lifan of the Ming Dynasty, written at the age of sixty-nine, and the author tells the process of changing his fate with his own personal experience.

Hit this without merit and longevity but get fame and longevity, fate without children, but get two sons, the book movie version and the TV series version are available, you can search on the Internet, only good and evil can break through fate, good and evil when doing everything, good and evil increase, evil decreases, good even if it suffers temporarily, the blessing of the whole fate is increased, and it is closed and increased a lot, and evil is just the opposite. If you can control everything and be good, you are not a mortal, you can cry ghosts and gods in the world, of course, this needs to be practiced slowly. The so-called cultivation of the mind and changing one's life is to cultivate this, the better the person's luck, and the fate of the extremely good person cannot be bound.

See also The Book of Ellsworth

You can also take a look at Mr. Chen Dahui's lectures, which can be searched on the Internet.

The situation is a bit complicated.

First of all, you don't know your girlfriend's personality and personality.

Secondly, his negative energy burst is this time or often.

Do you understand her reasons for this?

If you don't know any of the above.

Then you can only choose to accompany her silently and take care of her like a child.

Until she recovered.

Slowly guide that as long as you're full of positive energy, you're always going to change your girlfriend's.

Let's go out for a trip together, relax and relieve stress.

Girlfriend bursts with negative energy?

Then dump it!