-
When you can talk about interests, don't talk about feelings. Mr. Lu Xun once said, "A true warrior dares to face the dripping blood and dare to face the bleak life." "What is really cruel in this world?
You are worthless, even if you beg people to beg for it, they will not change their opinion of you, and they will not really look down on you in their hearts. It's useless to talk about feelings when you can't bring benefits to others. All feelings are based on interests.
It's brutal, but it's true.
I used to be so naïve, thinking that I could rely on my own compromise and humility to get the sympathy and even support of others, but then I realized that I was so simple. You don't have the strength, it's useless to know anyone. "Tianxingjian, a gentleman strives for self-improvement" is what he said.
You are not strong yourself, and you can achieve great things with the sympathy of others. When a person is in the world, he must talk about interests and money. When you don't have money or value, talk less about feelings.
Calm down by yourself, go to less party meetings with fox friends and dogs, study hard, think, and improve your strength. When it reaches a certain level, when you have money, strength and value, everything you want will come to you, and the so-called "if you bloom and the breeze" is the truth.
In life, talking about money and interests is the best way to get along with people. It's not that there are no feelings, I think there are real feelings. For example, your parents, your classmates who have played for many years, can't say no. But except for a very small number of innocent feelings, the others can only talk about interests.
If you want to talk about feelings without talking about interests, this is the most naïve idea in this society now. If there are still people who are addicted to this mode of thinking.
If you can't extricate yourself, it's time to reflect on it, so as not to be humiliated and embarrassed, or run into walls everywhere. This is the way it is in this world, how much value you have, how much benefit you can get, how much affection you can get, this is the reality. Everything depends on your own strength and value.
-
Generally, it is feelings that involve interests. Because I often solve my friend's problem, my friend will also help with the same problem. As long as it is not based on interests, it is good.
-
If you choose one of the two feelings, it is profit. Feelings and interests are insignificant! Don't do what you do with too much emotion!
-
Interests are more important, in the real society, people's feelings are the most important, but without money feelings, how do you maintain the emotional ties between people? In the face of real society, feelings are very fragile, and feelings cannot be eaten, but money can keep you fed and clothed, so that you have the energy to consider feelings. If you can survive with money to be qualified to talk about feelings, if living without money is a problem, what mood do you have to talk about feelings?
In today's real society, feelings are more important than money.
For the spirit, emotions are important; For real life, money is important. We are busy every day, just to live a better life, want to live a better life, money is necessary, so real things are linked to money, so money has become a lot of pure and precious emotional accessories, so in life, money is more important than feelings. There are very few true feelings in the world, and now people are true and false, virtual and real, and they all live with masks.
Feelings are relatively not as fast as the effect brought by money, however, love is also a vulgar thing, and it also needs material, and feelings without material guarantees are empty, feelings are important, but if there is no certain economic foundation, what to talk about feelings. Money is not everything, but in today's society, no money is absolutely impossible, you can pretend to be happy if you have money and no feelings, and it is difficult to ......pretend to be happy if you have feelings and no money
Money is not the whole of love, but money is the foundation of love.
When I was a child, I thought that feelings and family were important, but when I grew up and entered the society, I understood the importance of money, and you can't do anything without money, because in today's society, you can't move an inch without money, and what spiritual enjoyment do you want without a material foundation?
In today's competitive society, love has become more and more controlled by money, and it dominates feelings, this is the reality! After all, the love life also needs money to maintain!
In today's society, girls are more realistic, not women's reality, they are just seeking some security, a kind of stability, not women's vanity, but you don't earn enough, women don't need men to raise, men will have low self-esteem, women use men to raise, men will say women are vain.
In today's real society, feelings are more important than money.
When you choose money, others will say that you are realistic. When you choose love, others will call you hypocritical!
Happy life is little by little, and in the future, it will be to deal with firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar.
-
Feelings and interests are important. The two are not diametrically opposed. There is no emotion, only interests, so what is the value and meaning? There are interests but no feelings, and the same is true.
Therefore, it is necessary to properly handle the relationship between the two, make a balance, and not neglect one or the other.
-
I personally feel that in the adult world, interests are more important than feelings. Let's make an analysis of the specific situation:
Relationships themselves are prone to breakdown and are unstable.
The most difficult thing in the world to control is feelings. Feelings can't be seen or touched, they can only be felt with their hearts. And the human heart is the most uncertain.
Today the two brothers are good, and the good ones can wear the same pair of pants, and the next day they may look at each other angrily and become enemies. Feelings are too fragile.
The world of adults is not easy. It's too extravagant to talk about feelings. The company's efficiency is not good, and if the boss wants to maintain the operation of the business, he must ruthlessly dismiss the employees who cannot bring benefits to the company.
From the perspective of employees, after all, ten years of time have been spent in the company, and there must be feelings. But if the company hadn't paid him enough, he wouldn't have lasted so long. He stayed with the company for ten years, but the company paid him the same amount.
In this respect, there is no one who owes anyone. Without the binding of interests, he would not have stayed in the company for ten years. Being able to stay in the company for ten years does have emotional factors, but it is more because of interests.
The interests of adults are more important than feelings.
A couple who form a family because of love. But the family is run because of love. The family can continue to operate for a long time because the interests of both parties are equal and they have common needs.
If the remuneration given by the company is not enough to match, I believe he will choose to resign without hesitation. The interests of adults are more important than feelings. Only interests can make both sides go further.
-
The importance of this relationship and interest to different people is also different, and of course we should pay more attention to feelings when treating relatives, and interests are secondary. And when you are doing business outside, of course, you should pay more attention to interests, and talk about feelings without affecting the big interests.
-
In this society, I see the relationship between interests and feelings over feelings. Because there will be interests when feelings arise, and the relationship between the two is good and there is a bad relationship. Feelings are built between people, such as family affection, friendship, love have interests, if on the basis of feelings, you help me, I help you This is the relationship of interests, love has a few good women do not want a bride price, this is not the relationship of interests?
I think no matter how good the relationship is, it is inseparable from interests. I think there are interests between people. That's the truth! Thank you!
-
Hello, my personal feeling is that feelings are important, because feelings will not be mixed with a little monetary interests, there is no interest is called feelings, and feelings mixed with interests are commodities.
-
It depends on who you are with. People who talk about feelings often don't put interests in their hearts, because feelings cannot be replaced by interests. So relatively speaking, feelings are more important.
-
Feelings and interests are very important, without interests there is no food to eat, without feelings there is no happiness in life.
-
When it comes to what you need, it's even more important. When you don't have money, it's definitely the interests that are more important, but if you have enough money, the feelings will be more important.
-
Things are divided into priorities, feelings are important in the world, interests are important in economic life, it depends on what you think.
-
I feel like the choices are different for different people. Some people just pay attention to feelings, but some people just pay attention to interests, not to say generalization.
-
I think both of these are very important, and emotional interests are indispensable.
-
In fact, people are self-interested.
-
Of course, feelings are more important, and feelings are much more important than interests.
-
There will be real friendship, but you also have to pay sincerely, others have no right and obligation to be good to you, this kind of thing is mutual, you give others sincerity, will be exchanged for sincere ......Also, I used to think that there was no real friendship, and that others were approaching themselves with some kind of purpose, and even digging holes ...... themselvesLater, I found that this is very tiring, and others don't have so much energy to do this, so I still have to learn to trust others and believe in the existence of friendship ......
It can only be said that they are not real friends, and they are not worthy of the word friendship.
If you think about your parents, your wife, how they treat you, you will understand what family affection is.
There is true love in the world, there is great love in your heart, there is sincere friendship and love, so that I am for everyone, everyone is sincere when friendship is by your side. When your heart is interested in interests, your heart will be blinded by your great love and see that friendship is all about interests. Usually friends of wine and meat get together, and the person who can help you when you are down is the person who is your sincere friendship in life.
There is no love for no reason in this world, and there is no hate for no reason. Whether it's love or friendship. It's all relative.
Everyone's standards or psychological feelings about it are different. What are the benefits you are talking about? Is it a financial benefit?
Or emotional interests. To live comfortably, there is no need to be so clear.
-
The so-called affection is nothing more than sincerity, the so-called sincerity is nothing more than ** real gold, you have given satisfaction nine times, as long as you shout no once, the split head will come with a sentence "I feed the dog with your sincerity." ”。
How much more can we share now? There is no real gold, and there is little talk about sincerity. How much can I wait for now, and where can I really give birth to feelings? As long as it is a human being, as long as it is alive, all unhappiness is for profit, and all contradictions are caused by profit, resentment, and hatred.
The so-called maintenance, first of all, is not empty talk, and not seeing the existence of the real thing is a lip service. The so-called huddle is all for each to take what they need, and if one party is greedy, it will immediately be scattered. The so-called cooperation is all for the purpose of seeking greater benefits, and if you feel that you have less profit, the humiliating anger of being used will arise in an instant, and cooperation will immediately turn into a mess of dismantling the stage.
The exchange of hearts and hearts, all of which are the concessions of profit and benefit, the interaction of feelings and feelings, all of which are the worship of etiquette and etiquette, and the value of the rites lies in the accumulation of each other.
Don't be a man, don't take advantage of others, and don't give with all your heart, because one day you will have no use for the inconvenience at hand, and at this time, the person who has been developed by you to become dependent on will definitely reprimand you for changing your mind.
I don't know what your opinion is, because I am always disappointed in the maintenance, grouping, and cooperation between people, not to mention the feelings that can be generated in the maintenance.
-
True affection between people is true love.
True love is free from entanglement of interests, and true love only has selfless dedication and dedication.
Only the kind of feelings that have a deal are entangled.
-
I can only say that the feelings between people are still the majority, and there are some people who just regard this thing as one of their own interests.
-
There are genuine feelings between people.
The first point is the sense of distance, even if the relationship is good, there must be a sense of distance, and leave a certain amount of personal space for each other. >>>More
Here are a few rules of conduct for effective communication: >>>More
We should help each other and trust each other.
Express your attitudePeople get along with each other very sincerely, and if you want to pass on sincerity to each other, then you must let the other party accept your own expression. In many cases, if you don't deliberately let the other party understand yourself or some aspects of your own personality, then the other party will not have so much time and energy to analyze you, so at this time you have to let the other party understand that you are a very sincere you, and hope that the other party will treat yourself with the same attitude. <> >>>More
Time is the catalyst! Also poison! But only as an external factor! >>>More