How to improve your personality

Cultivate your ownCharismaThere are 6 methods: calm, careful, courageous, generous, honest, and responsible. Specifically:

1. Calm: Don't show your emotions casually, don't tell people about your difficulties and encounters, think about yourself before asking for others' opinions, but don't talk about it first, don't nag your dissatisfaction at every opportunity, try to discuss important decisions with others, it's best to release them every other day, don't have any panic when you speak, and walk too.

2. Be careful: Always think about the cause and effect of what is happening around you.

We must explore the fundamental crux of the implementation problems that are not in place, have suggestions for improvement or optimization of the accustomed way of doing things, develop the habit of being orderly and orderly in everything we do, and often find a few faults or drawbacks that others can't see, and make up for the deficiencies anytime and anywhere.

3. Courage: Don't often use words and phrases that lack self-confidence, don't often regret and easily overturn what has been decided, don't be assertive when everyone is arguing, you should be optimistic and sunny when the overall atmosphere is low, do everything carefully because someone is watching you, take a breath when things don't go well and look for a breakthrough again, and end it cleanly.

4. Generosity: Don't deliberately turn people who may be partners into opponents, don't be careful about other people's small mistakes and mistakes, be generous in money, learn the three charities (wealth, law, and fearlessness), don't have the arrogance of power and the prejudice of knowledge, any achievements and achievements should be shared with others, and you must walk in front when someone sacrifices or dedicates.

5. IntegrityDon't say what you can't do, try to do it, don't often talk about false slogans or slogans, come up with ways to improve the "dishonest" problems raised by customers, stop all "immoral" means, play smart, or calculate the integrity price of the product or service, that is, the brand cost.

6. Responsibility: When reviewing any mistakes, start with yourself or your own people, and then review the mistakes before listing the merits. Admitting mistakes starts from the superiors, starting from the subordinates, starting with a plan, first defining the rights and responsibilities and distributing them appropriately, and making it clear to the people or organizations who are "afraid of things".

1 Calm down and make a list of the strengths in your personality. List the advantages you are sure you have first, the less confident ones later, and so on. For example, the optional advantages are good listening, outgoing optimism, strong presentation skills, introspection, thoughtfulness, and intelligence.

2 Make a list of your character flaws. These flaws can be obstacles to your progress or unpleasant habits. For example, shyness and timidity, short temper, subjective assumptions, excessive rapping or nervousness, etc.

Keep in mind that the criteria for judging strengths and weaknesses vary from person to person. Some people find it bad to be too outgoing, while others feel that being talkative is a virtue. Changing your personality is based on what you know and expect from you.

In general, it's more difficult to list your weaknesses than your strengths. Spend more time, whether alone or with other people, and think carefully about your personality, these shortcomings are the key to what you want to change.

3 Underline personality traits that you don't want to change, or that you don't want to change right now. You can't change everything in a day.

4 Mark a star next to the personality trait you want to change or strengthen. Maybe you're someone who is already smart and wants to be smarter.

5 Focus on starred projects. Behavioural change is a gradual process. Through training and determination, change one personality trait at a time.

To improve your personality charm is to be confident and generous first, when you do everything with confidence and calmness, your self will exude your own personality charm.