The five mentalities of a strong person, what is the real mentality of a strong person?

I think that the real strong man is the person who can be proud and independent in the face of adversity and dare to declare war on fate, and he is also a person who knows how to advance and retreat, knows honor and disgrace, and is also a person who does not deceive himself or others. Friends who have seen the ordinary world should have a deep understanding that Sun Shaoping should be regarded as a strong man in the spiritual world, not afraid or afraid, neither humble nor arrogant, this can be called a big husband, this is the strongest among ordinary people.

The difference between the strong and the weak is still in the mentality. The mentality of the weak is to constantly feel wronged from the outside world, and always feel that they have been hurt. The strong mentality, based on the status quo, focuses on interests, improves oneself little by little, analyzes problems, finds solutions, and neither feels hurt nor makes emotional expressions of gaffes.

The strong have strong willpower and clear enough goals to be able to make up their minds, while the weak have weak willpower and somewhat vague goals, and often can't make up their minds.

Have a broad vision and pattern. Only those who look at the overall situation can always know and better handle various affairs. If you want to broaden your horizons, you must know more things, read more books, and walk a little more.

People who are content with the small world often do not have great success, they only focus on their own one-third of an acre, and do not know how to open up their own field, just like a frog at the bottom of a well.

The frog at the bottom of the well often doesn't know how big the outside world is, and only with a broad vision can it accommodate all rivers, and if it can hold the world in its heart, the world can tolerate you. Only those who have a broad vision can do great things. The real strong people only find their insignificance after reading thousands of books and walking thousands of miles, and only then do they have the motivation to pursue a farther world.

The company's power outage began at about 9 a.m. yesterday, and there was no network. Can't handle anything. The whole office was pitch black. It is said that there will be no electricity until around 4 p.m.

Why don't you give me a day off, you can't do anything in the office......In the meantime, I heard all kinds of voices. Since the power outage is planned in advance, everything is planned. Thankfully, I didn't let the power outage delay my day-to-day work.

The night before I knew there was going to be a power outage, I flew first and worked overtime for about 5 hours to properly handle all the next day's affairs. Then use the limited time of 1 hour when there is electricity the next day to quickly complete the daily affairs of the next day. When everything was busy, I breathed a sigh of relief, stealing fun and electricity.

Looking back at my work efficiency, it's really higher than usual! If you treat each day as if it were the last day of your life, you will find that everything is under control. Treat every day as the end of your life, and you will understand the meaning of life!

When the power went out, I suddenly felt more relaxed than I had ever felt before. Time seemed to stand still. I took out the book from my bag that I had prepared before I left the house in the morning and continued my reading of "One Step Forward". I want to read books during work hours, it's better than chatting and complaining.

One supervisor took advantage of this free time to convene cadres to exchange and review. Despite the power outage, it did not affect the progress of the work in the slightest. There is no computer, no network, as long as you change the way, the work can still be carried out in an orderly manner.

I began to feel ashamed to see such a team. Everyone is busy, but I'm reading a book leisurely. As if everything that happened had nothing to do with me.

I saw a positive force in him. Although there was a sudden emergency that day, I saw his proactive side. Afterwards, I confessed to him:

You are the most serious in the whole company, and you are also the most stressful to be your subordinate. He said: The most important thing in the arduous journey of life is not property, nor status, but the perseverance that exists in our hearts, that is, the hope of never destroying the clothes and changing the shed.

As long as your heart does not die and you take positive actions, there is hope for a comeback! I had to take a step forward and give it my all because I had no choice.

Yes, one step forward!

When the tribulation comes, if you complain and be pessimistic and decadent, you are really finished; If you try to maintain a good mindset, be confident, optimistic, calm and calm, then the ordeal will become your "whetstone" and make you better.

Don't always think that without electricity and the Internet, we can't do anything. Actually, with a power outage, we can do a lot of things that we can't normally do.

The so-called strong mentality, does not mean to be a strong person, condescending to opponents or friends, or even arrogant, the strong mentality is a kind of strength in the face of difficulties, a kind of danger in the face of difficulties, but also a kind of tenacity that does not give up until the goal is achieved.

The basic starting point of the strong mentality --- perseverance and ambition.

The wolf has such resilience that it is unwavering in its pursuit of its prey. It is able to concentrate all of its power on its locked prey, and even if the chance of success is only one in ten, they will never give up; As a result, success did come.

The second mentality of the strong --- entrepreneurship, challenge and risk-taking.

Resources are limited, and whoever can grab them belongs to whom, and those who can't get them are willing to suffer poverty; The basic starting point of the mentality of the weak is "equality", believing that resources should be shared equally among all, and relying on the strong to bully the weak is condemned as immorality. But "the strong destroy the weak" and "the strong exploit the weak" are the iron laws of the biological world.

The strong mentality --- solve it by themselves, never complaining.

The strong never complain to others, because they have no reason to complain, they can face the truth bravely, realize their ideals through their own efforts, and never rely on waiting and the pity of others. Because they know that success always happens silently, and a person who insists on his own truth can often achieve greater success.

The strong have a four-way mentality--- only blame themselves for not resenting others, and not making excuses.

The strong people are not sullen in their hearts, and if they are dissatisfied with others, they will find the parties concerned to solve them immediately, so naturally there is no need to speak ill of others behind their backs, let alone scandalize and belittle others.

The strong do not complain, do not complain about their parents or their families, and people with the mentality of the strong are defeated by others, and do not resent, only blame themselves for not being good at kung fu, and since then they have practiced their skills hard, carefully studied the strengths of their opponents and their own shortcomings, and tried again in ten years.

The fifth mentality of the strong --- only challenge the stronger, and only work towards the higher goal of future development.

The world is not a stage for mediocrity, the shining spotlight is always focused on the good and the victors, only the mediocre sympathize with each other, find reasons for their weakness, always compare with the more backward like the "historians", they always like to say that life is much better now than before, and that we live in a much better place than those poor places. However, the mediocrity can never become mainstream. We should not pay tribute to inferior things and people.

No matter how "difficult" it is, we will never give in.

To hell with "understanding"! What we need is a breakthrough, a real genius plus hard work, a victory, a desire to win!

The mentality of the strong is six--- to have opportunities, to learn to fish.

The strong want opportunities, what they want is a platform to start a career, and they firmly believe that opportunities always fall into the hands of those who are prepared. They need to learn to fish, they need to find those spaces that are suitable for their development, and they will never be satisfied with the status quo.

The weak, on the other hand, want a stable working environment and a subsistence payout in order to live comfortably. But you must know that the law of nature is "survival of the fittest, survival of the fittest".

In addition, it is necessary to develop good living habits every day and set a good time for yourself to go to bed and get up. Then you'll wake up consciously, oh, there's the one who said don't be tough, and I disagree with your opinion this time, if you're not tough, **from awakening? I'm sorry, at least I can't.

Usually young people sleep more than 7 hours is enough, of course, don't stipulate that you sleep for 5 hours and get up. Sleep for the full time you should sleep to ensure that it does not interfere with daytime work.

Also, pay attention to make a plan for yourself, force yourself to complete the plan as much as possible, and later transfer to be sure to complete your own plan! Of course, it is better not to affect the health of life.

If you have a rebellious mentality in your heart (that is, you have the idea that you don't want to finish it, you don't want to do your best, why do you have to do it.) And he said to himself: If I can't even do this thing well, then what willpower is there to talk about?

What good future is there?! Then I insisted on doing everything while fighting my laziness, and then I thought that normal people would have a sense of accomplishment, and I would say to myself at this time: what a good persistence!

I will definitely continue in the future.

Over time, your willpower will go to the next level! However, we must not get carried away, we must urge ourselves to adhere to the good habits of the past, and increase the blow to laziness, because comfort is unique to people's thoughts, and it is also the headline killer that destroys a person.

You will succeed, trust me, just keep going according to my word.

First of all, you have to be confident and believe that you can do it! When you're confident, you usually get things better!

Secondly, you must not be blindly confident, everything must be carefully analyzed and considered carefully In addition, you must also have the courage to accept setbacks! I believe that the big husband can bend and stretch; Failure is the mother of success Keep these in mind, remind yourself at all times, and slowly you can form a habit! Basically, if you can have such a habit, you will not be far from the strong!

Try it yourself! I'm sure you can!

What you affirm is OK.