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Children will be hurt very deeply, and children are victims of divorce, property distribution issues, after the divorce of the husband and wife, the parents will be hit very hard, which will make the parents particularly worried and worried, the ex-husband will disturb your life, and it is difficult to guarantee remarriage.
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There will be particularly bad consequences, it will make you regret it very much, and it will also affect your life.
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1. Confused and struggling stage
Divorce is like the sudden death of love, without warning, and people are at a loss. Some women feel like the sky is falling after a divorce, and they don't know what their future holds. The mountain alliance and sea oath of the former lover now seem to be just a quick tongue.
At this stage, the woman is not only anxious about the sadness of the end of this marriage, but also about what to do in the future.
How difficult is a person's path, this is a common problem that many divorced women need to face. Because of the dependence on the marriage stage, many women give up their favorite jobs and choose some jobs close to home with low income, so that they can better marry and raise children.
But once divorced, they will lose their financial support, and their future life will seem confused and helpless. Therefore, I have always supported female friends to choose their own broad road, to create more value for themselves, the greater your value, the more men dare not do evil, and his heart will be tied tightly by your value.
2. Replace the numbing stage
What divorced women lack most is emotional loneliness. Some women are discouraged and will choose to stay alone for life, while others prefer to replace the unbearable marriage with a new relationship. People go to high places, water flows to low places, and there is nothing wrong with starting a new chapter, and I am afraid that I am afraid to progress the next relationship in order to escape.
The withering of a marriage is not the fault of one person alone, but the result of the joint maintenance of two people. Some women blame the man for the failure of their marriage, and without any reflection, they enter the next relationship with a burst of self-confidence.
If the shortcomings are not corrected, emotional setbacks will follow. The more frustrated and courageous, the road to the relationship becomes bumpy, and you will find that many women will fall into such a strange circle: after the first divorce, they have talked about a lot of feelings, and in the end, none of them have ended.
3. Relief and soothing stage
Divorce is not terrible, and there is nothing wrong with it, but it becomes a fault if you can't get out of it yourself. Women should not rely on men, men are like duckweed, drifting with the waves, I don't know when they will be uprooted, once there is a special situation, even the man who loves you the most can't protect you.
As a woman, it is a skill to be able to stand firm when you get married, and if you can still stand firm after the divorce, it is not a skill, but a skill that you gradually develop. Divorce is either a revolutionary metamorphosis for a woman, or an endless depravity.
As a woman, no matter what sorrow you encounter, you must learn to love yourself. Many divorced women will be relieved, they will try to improve themselves, find the joy of their life, keep themselves busy, and forget those bad memories. Participate in a more female-oriented training class, such as physical training, pastry making, hand-knitting, health care, etc., and at the same time, you can expand your circle of friends and make yourself more confident.
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1. Loneliness and loneliness.
After marriage, a woman will rely on her husband very much, and she will talk to her husband if there is anything wrong, and gradually the woman gets used to the life of the two, if one day she divorces in her heart, she will be a little lonely in her heart, no one will say what is in her heart, and she will think about whether she should not be divorced, etc., which is a typical divorced woman's psychology.
2. Expect to be understood.
After a divorce, women will inevitably be pointed at, and others will wonder why their husband and wife divorced? Whether the woman has done something that is not conducive to the family or the woman's temperament is not very good, this will cause great psychological harm to the divorced woman. A woman wants to be understood or respected after leaving her husband so that she will have the confidence to continue living.
3. Close yourself.
Divorced women are emotionally depressed due to emotional setbacks and blows, so they close themselves off. Not wanting to see anyone, not wanting to participate in any form of social activities, and seeing other partners will increase your psychological burden.
4. Let go completely.
Some divorced women will be very open, they feel that divorce is not a big deal, or they should eat and drink. Of course, they will also believe in love, as long as they wait patiently for the man who saves them to appear in front of them after all, in fact, such a mentality is the best, don't care what others say, just live your own life, after all, there is still a long way to go, women can't be dragged down by previous failed marriages, and believe that life is only better and better, and it is not worse and worse.
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Women close themselves off after divorce for fear of being hurt again.
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What is the psychological stage of a woman after a man and a woman break up?
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Between husband and wife, when there is a quarrel and conflict, it is estimated that the most noisy and slippery thing is "divorce" and "breakup", especially women, who are very keen on this.
What kind of psychology do these people come up with when they mention divorce and break up at every turn?
1. It is not really a divorce, but a kind of rebellion to maintain one's dignity.
If a woman really wants to divorce you, I'm afraid she will already be serious, and all the thunder and rain are mostly a kind of rebellion to maintain self-dignity. Most often, she wants to make sure you really care about her conversation.
For a woman, feelings are very important, but more important than feelings is dignity, which is face. As a popular saying on the Internet, I love you very much, but I can't even lose my face in order to love you. The mutual respect between two people is the basis for maintaining a relationship, which is equivalent to saying that dignity is the real bottom line of a person.
2. Divorce is fake, and it is true to threaten men to achieve their own goals.
The main reason why women threaten men is that they want to fulfill their wishes, so as to coerce men to give in, admit defeat, change, and so on through the word divorce! Let's say a couple has a disagreement over a very small matter, because of each other's differences in ideas and opinions, and in the end they have a quarrel.
At this time, women will be more eager to prove that "they are right" but there is no better way, so they think of divorce.
It can be regarded as a threat, and it can be regarded as a kind of desire to test a man's attitude towards himself through divorce. Because every woman, in the deepest part of her heart, longs for her man to let her, spoil herself, and be in God.
There is also a situation where a woman wants to bring a sense of crisis to a man through the word divorce.
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