Do you think that the consequences of impulsiveness can be reversed?

The damage caused by impulsiveness is generally irreparable, because the words and actions that people say and do when they are impulsive are often the most hurtful.

I think a sentence I said in the previous sketch is particularly right, impulse is the devil, the devil will destroy family affection, love, and even friendship, when the impulsive person vents, want to redeem these feelings, no matter how to do, how to say, how to keep, the other party may accept, maybe forgive you, but in their hearts there will still be cracks, cracks caused by your impulsiveness, these will always be with you can not be eliminated.

If the consequences are very serious, it is naturally irreparable, things have already happened, you can only make up for your mistakes as much as possible, and try your best to recover what you have lost, after all, there is no time machine and no regret medicine in this world, and a person must be responsible for what he has done.

The consequences of impulsiveness depend on the size of the matter, small things may be able to make up for it, but big things are difficult to say. But don't be impulsive in your life, impulsive behavior can easily make people lose themselves.

It should be difficult to undo, what you do impulsively means that you can't do it under normal circumstances, and the consequences can be big or small, but it won't be simple. We can only save as much as we can at the moment, but it should be impossible to return to the original state.

Depending on how serious the consequences of your impulsiveness are, some of them can be reversed. For example, if you say something wrong and make someone angry, you can apologize to others.

If there is a conflict with a relative, friend or colleague on the spur of the moment, the relationship will certainly not be restored. As the old saying goes: knife wounds are easy to heal, tongue wounds are difficult to treat, bad words hurt people in June, and the best ending for bad words to hurt people can only be face and heart discord, and at most say hello when you meet.

No, the simplest example: you put nails in the wall when you were impulsive, and when you want to get them back, you take down the nails, but those scars are still there.

I think the consequences of impulsiveness are some serious, some are not serious, and the non-serious ones can be reversed to a certain extent, and the key depends on whether you are willing to redeem them.

Of course, this is severe, if the circumstances are serious, you yourself can't forgive yourself, don't talk about others, if it's not serious, you should still be forgiven if you apologize seriously.

What you do after impulsiveness can be big or small.

So it should still depend on what it is?

However, what is done after impulsiveness is generally not very good.

Some things can be undone, but some things really can't.

Even if it can be reversed, it will make you feel palpitations, not to mention that many things are impulsive, and the consequences of impulsiveness are unbearable.

You must bear this kind of consequence yourself, and you must strive for it with your own efforts, how much can you recover? Avoid making bigger mistakes, reflect on yourself in time, and learn from the lessons.

Find a way to cause the least damage, you can take the initiative to apologize to the other party, or you can use others to help yourself, tell the other party such a request, and don't do things impulsively next time.

If you have irreparable consequences because of your own impulsiveness, you must be brave enough to admit your mistakes, and be punished for the mistakes you have made, and even make up for your mistakes, so that the other party can forgive you.

Because other boys accosted her, she fought with that man in a fit of anger, and scolded her at the same time, and broke up.

Many couples will be very impulsive to break up, Wenger Julie is an American marriage expert who has written a book called "The Law of Happy Marriage". There is a line in it: In this world, even the happiest marriage will have 200 thoughts of divorce and 50 thoughts of strangling each other in a lifetime.

The power of words can always make people go to heaven for a while and hell for a while, so it is normal to get out of control and quarrel with the other party in the process of communication, and say that you will break up. Generally, this impulse is to endure for a long time, and finally at a certain link, at a certain moment, I can't help it, and I burst out of my emotions, causing the two people to be impulsive, release all the pent-up resentment, and explode in silence, leading to a breakup.

Many couples actually have different values or views on some things, but two people feel that if they have love, they can always be together. But this kind of disagreement can actually be reflected in all aspects of daily life, which can lead to a small quarrel every three days and a big quarrel every five days.

At this time, what is needed is more calm, but you can't be too calm, so it is recommended that within 1-7 days after the quarrel, the most suitable time is the 5th day after the quarrel, and communicate calmly with the other party.

If you are in the way of saving face, you can give the other party a step first, not only to test the other party's attitude towards you, but also to better know the impact of this incident on the two people, such as asking for help from each other because of one thing, or sending a signal for help in the circle of friends to let the other party know.

If the other party does not react to the steps you give, then the other party may really want to break up with you, although it is you who proposed to break up, but the other party may actually be the one who wants to break up more, this time is not the best time to get back together, so you can't act rashly.

Because I was impulsive, I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years after a fight, and I blocked her in various ways. I can't contact her now, and I regret it.

I once deleted him as a friend on impulse, and although I added him back, we felt like we had been separated by a certain distance, and we broke up soon after.

Because of impulsiveness, the friend who used to be very good with me and talked about everything was with me, but later I found out that we were only suitable to be friends, not lovers, and for this, I also paid the price of losing everything.

Because of impulsiveness, I buried my feelings with my own hands, and I still regret it very much, if I had been given a chance, I would not have been so impulsive.

On the spur of the moment, I hit him hard and pinched him, and the paranoid man stole my stuff and disappeared.

Growing so big, the only impulse was when I saw him holding another girl's hand, I was dizzy and said goodbye directly.

Because I was impulsive when I was young, I said something very hurtful during a quarrel, which broke his heart, which led to the complete end of the relationship I cared about the most, and no matter how much I could redeem it, it would be useless.

When I fell in love for the first time, because of my youthfulness, I made some crazy moves, and I personally brought the first relationship to an end, and I regretted it very much.