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No, people's lives are said to be destined to be idealistic views, and the change of fate is changed by their own efforts, such as the Olympic champions are scheduled to practice in the summer and winter, and the three cold days and days are hard to come, and then for example, the skilled job operators of technicians, they are all relying on hard work and hard work to get high wages, or the often said that pie will not fall from the sky, and any good ending is not destined by nature, but depends on their own efforts.
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A person's life is indeed destined, but as long as you live hard, you can change some fate.
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A person's life is not completely destined, there are many things that can be changed, as long as you work hard to complete, you must have the hope of changing yourself, and you will develop better and better, so what things are not immutable, as long as you work hard, you will change your destiny.
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A person's life is not entirely predestined. If you can actively break evil and cultivate good in this life, you can change your fate. But it is necessary to completely stop all evil.
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As the saying goes, a person's life is destined for three points, and seven points depend on hard work. Three points refers to the fact that people must not forget their ancestors, and they must have their hometown and relatives in their hearts, and they are the spiritual sustenance of your hard work outside. Seven points rely on hard work means that no matter what you do, you must work hard, not afraid of hardships and dangers, dare to fight, dare to do, dare to break through, so as to have great success.
Just like in our life, if we want to do something, we have to pay for ourselves, and we can only reap the rewards after hard work, rather than waiting for the harvest. For example, after the farmer uncle planted the corn, he didn't have to do anything, just waited for the autumn to harvest the corn, is it possible? It's impossible, if you want a good harvest, you have to water the ground, fertilize it, weed...When it comes to the harvest season, there can be a good yield.
Therefore, a person's life is not predestined, and he can change his fate through his own efforts.
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Objectively say no, subjectively say yes, this is a false proposition, you can't explain it in life, and you can't figure it out, make a mental hint, this is fate, everything is very open-minded.
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But that's okay.
For man will conquer heaven.
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The question of "whether a person's life is predestined" can only be realized after a certain stage of life. Young people usually don't believe in fate and don't think much about it, but after a certain amount of experience, they will slowly start to feel that many things are predestined.
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A person's life is not destined by fate, but by one's own efforts, and there is a process of struggle that will have results.
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No, three points are destined, seven points depend on hard work, and love to fight will win.
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The first time I saw this question, I began to think about whether life is predestined or not. Destined to succeed, destined to fail, destined to meet, etc. There is a saying that "there is providence in the dark", perhaps this is the most classic explanation that life is destined.
We often think it's true, and I think so now.
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In fact, sometimes fate can be changed through one's own efforts. For example, if you respect your parents and the elderly, and work hard in a down-to-earth manner, your destiny will change.
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I'll do it. Sometimes no matter how strong a person is, he can't escape the arrangement of fate.
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If you believe yes, if you don't believe it, you won't, but you can't escape the causal cycle.
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The so-called fate is found by oneself, the cultivation in the previous life to reincarnation, and the cultivation in this life, it is destined that the fate is arranged by oneself!
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Don't believe in fate, you are the one who controls fate, as long as you don't admit defeat, no one can defeat you.
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Saying that it is destined is an excuse, and it is an excuse for one's own incompetence.
Only you can change your fate and use your own actions to realize your dreams, and accepting your fate will make you give up your efforts and be content with the status quo.
Remember, you are your life.
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What is Destiny? Being content with the status quo is called fate, which means that you calmly accept what you have now, and if you are dissatisfied with your life, as long as you are willing to work hard, it must be much better than now, how can it be fate?
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Life and death are fateful, and wealth is in the sky. The sentence that people's fate is destined is not groundless!
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My life is in my absence, don't passively believe in fate, and rely on your own efforts in everything.
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Opportunities are still given to those who are prepared.
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Three points are destined to be seven points by hard work. Isn't that what the song says?
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As an adult, I began to believe in what was meant to be.
Confucius pointed out more than 2,000 years ago: If you don't know your fate, you can't be a gentleman. Wang Defeng, a well-known professor at Fudan University, once said that if a person does not believe in his fate after the age of 40, he must not be regarded as a smart person.
From the moment of birth, people are affected by the energy of the universe and the energy of the earth's environment. Individually, born in the water town of the south of the Yangtze River or in the desert of the northwest, the background color of the personality must be different. The warmth of the smoke and rain in the south of the Yangtze River will inevitably produce Wu Nong's soft-spoken character; The lonely smoke of the desert, or the vast grassland, will easily form a rough and heroic character.
Born in a ** family, there is usually a city government, and things are low-key; Born in a business family, he will be exquisite and good at dealing with all kinds of people. It's all about the impact of the living environment on people.
In a person's life, if they are born differently, their lives will be different. Some people, born with a good life, stand on the high ground of life as soon as they are born. Some people are born with spirituality and extraordinary talents, and they are destined to be both civil and military in a lifetime, and their lives are extraordinary.
Some people have a bad life, losing their parents at a young age, losing a wife in middle age, and losing a child when they are old. You can't believe in this thing, as long as you believe it, you will find that many things are doomed.
A person's life seems to have been destined for a long time, and he has always followed the trajectory of fate. The longer you live, the more you believe in fate, especially those who can't get it after working hard, and you will attribute it to fate.
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I have never believed in the existence of "fate", but what I have experienced in reality makes me not believe in it, and there are contradictions.
This topic is very controversial, because too many authors and inspirational masters of Chicken Soup for the Soul are constantly encouraging everyone to work hard, be diligent, and work hard. However, it is found that the effect is small or only short-lived, and those who should be poor are always poor, and those who should be depraved are always depraved.
In fact, there is no basis for this topic, just some of my own realizations and reflections, and these ideas come from the process of fate. Because in the Bazi**, there are too many accurate cases, and sometimes I am so accurate that I am surprised. Whether it is the past or the future, many things can be accurate, and there is only one truth:
This person's fate has long been doomed, Bazi is just a person's script, and the ** teachers are just making a little spoiler.
I often have the feeling that when I do something, walk a certain road, say a certain word, I will have a very familiar image in my head, and I feel that this thing has been experienced once. Psychologists call this "false thinking of the brain", and I personally believe that everyone has the ability to predict the future, and everything that people have to experience in their life is stored in some deep part of the brain, and occasionally triggered, so I feel this way. In 2011, I left a well-known company to work for a company from scratch, which was a very regrettable move for those around me.
I had this similar experience during a meeting at this company, and I began to think, was it destined for me to leave there? Later, when I went to work overseas and other companies, I would have more or less experienced this experience a few times, and from then on I was convinced that the route of fate had already been arranged, otherwise my brain would not have had this prediction. It turns out that everyone is just an actor in this space, and the only thing to do well is to play the current play well.
Many "actors" were unwilling to accept the status quo and began to use sideways to pave the way for their "desires", but they did not succeed later, maybe they succeeded, but in exchange for greater pain. Here I think of a story: One day, someone went to ask a monk who had attained the secret of the Tao, and the monk said:
Eat when it's time to eat, sleep when it's time to sleep, chop wood when it's time to chop wood". The man was puzzled and asked, "What was it like before attaining enlightenment?"
The monk smiled and said, "Before I got the Tao, I wanted to chop wood when I ate, I wanted to sleep when I was chopping wood, but I was thinking about eating when I was sleeping. "Personally, I think that the thoughts of this eminent monk are:
Even if life is already predestined, it is useless to think too much, live in the moment!
Assuming that a person's life is already predestined, what is it that controls us? It's scary to think about! Maybe some people call them "gods and Buddhas", and some people call them "gods" and more than four-dimensional beings!
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Someone once asked: what determines our fate? It has been said that character determines fate. It is also said that faith determines destiny; But some people say: My life is up to me!
Which one is right? It seems that both of them make sense. Until one day, I saw someone write: Our destiny, half in heaven and half in ourselves, has both parts that cannot be decided and are arranged, and parts that can be decided by ourselves.
Seeing this, I suddenly had an epiphany, this world is not white or black, there is no 100% destiny of life, and there is no freedom that can be 100% controlled. That is to say, there is a part of our life that we can't decide by ourselves, and this part we call fate, referred to as fate; The other part is up to us.
So what percentage of this part can be decided by yourself? Half of each? Not so even, I'm afraid. This part of the proportion is not fixed, it is dynamic.
For example, when we are born, we can't decide what we look like, we can't decide who our parents are, what our family background is, and passively accept anything from the outside world. That is, when we feel hungry, we can choose to cry loudly or quietly, and when we drink milk, we choose to drink in large gulps or slowly, depending on how strong your desire to survive is. At this time, our lives are almost all up to us, and if there is any wind and grass, fate can strangle us in the cradle.
When we grow up and our bodies begin to develop, we can decide more things for ourselves, we can find food for ourselves when we are hungry, and we can express what we want to eat and what we don't want to eat. Able to move around where you want to go. But because of the supervision of parents, schools and other forces, sometimes I have to give in and follow their wishes to do something I don't want to do.
When we become adults and graduate out of society, the words of our parents and school will be much less binding on us, we can support ourselves, and we have more control over our own life. If you are not happy, you can change jobs, and if you don't like the boss, you can fire him, but you are responsible for the consequences of what you do. On the other hand, it is not up to you to decide whether the company hires you or not, whether your work is recognized by others, whether your colleagues are willing to cooperate with you, and whether the people you like like you ...... or notMost of this is not up to you, we still have some parts that we can't control.
Therefore, a person's life is a process of competing with God, and when you become stronger, you can take back more of God's voice in life. Whether you are pressed to the ground by fate and struggling, or the other way around, it depends on how hard you can work to make yourself stronger and how much control of life you can take back in the fight against fate.
Back to the original question: Is a person's life really predestined?
Here, I would like to use the words of Mr. Luo Xiang:
I think it may be fate, but you have to know that no one knows what your fate is but God ... And I always believe that God is fair, and that as much disaster as He has given you, there must be so much good fortune waiting for you... All you have to do is persevere until good fortune strikes ...
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