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Anonymous users2024-02-12Pregnancy is a matter of two people, what is the opinion of the husband, I think as long as there is no problem with the relationship between the two people, the economic tension is nothing, if you feel that your husband is gentle and considerate, meticulous to you, willing to work hard for you, earn money to support you and the child, then you can still give birth, after all, early birth is beneficial to women's recovery, after giving birth, you must also keep up with the pace as soon as possible, the two work together to make money, and life will slowly get better. If you think that your husband is not such a person, then you should think carefully, when you are pregnant, it is easy, and you can still make up for the poor life, and after giving birth, the life is even more trivial, no money, no good mood to live, and you can't cultivate a healthy child.
Pregnant mothers think more about having children in the future, which is also a kind of love. But please don't do anything to hurt the child for love, he is still so young that he has not yet come to this world to see it. If you choose not to want this child for the sake of being poor, then what if you stay poor for the rest of your life?
Don't even want children? This is not an excuse. Mr. The child struggles again, or struggle first and then have a child.
Actually, there is no conflict. As long as the boy is healthy, willing to bear hardships and stand hard work, the relationship between the young couple is good, and the woman can accept the real life, the child will be born safely. In this society, there are many people who start a family and then start a business, first bitter and then sweet.
If the man's comprehensive conditions are okay, but he didn't have a job at the time, or his income was relatively low, but he was pregnant at this time, it depends on whether the young couple has a strong idea of having a child, if they want to, then they will be tight for a while, and the difficulties will always pass, as long as the man is willing to work hard, he can always have an income. The most afraid of this situation, although the two are young, but the family background is ordinary, there is no house of their own, and the man's ability is not good, then it is necessary to consider it, the simplest truth, you have to find a good father for the child, otherwise life is too long, why bother for a lifetime?
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Anonymous users2024-02-11We must respect every life, and before having a child, we must fully consider whether we need a child and whether we can be responsible for a child. If you don't think clearly, don't act! If something has happened, it still depends on your own wishes, whether the child is more important or more important at the moment, it mainly depends on your own needs!
However, whatever you choose, take your own responsibility!
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Now after pregnancy, the state will give you a series of subsidy policies, even if the family conditions are not very good, it is completely enough for women to give birth. You have to be confident enough.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09If the family is in difficulty, you can find a way to make the conditions at home better, and if you are pregnant, you should give birth to the child and raise the child well.
If there is no economic income in the family, then the life of the family is not guaranteed, so you must work hard to make money, in order to support the family, there are so many ways to make money now, always look at the money that can be made, so instead of staying at home, it is better to take the initiative to go out to find a job, waiting at home is not a job to find you.
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