Why do people always have the habit of standing in their troubles and looking up to the happiness of

Because people will never be satisfied with the existing happiness, all people want to have the happiness of the whole world, but the people of the whole world must have a lot of troubles, and when there is a comparison, they will see the good side of others and narrow the side of other people's troubles; At the same time, it will also magnify the troubled side of yourself and shrink the good side of yourself at the same time. Therefore, the result is that others are good and their own is bad.

Because since ancient times, human beings' desire for satisfaction is endless, and when they get something, they want more, always looking at a mountain and a mountain high. Once the wish is not fulfilled, complain about life and envy the happiness of others.

Because I only see the good side of others, I magnify my own troubles and shrink my own happiness.

Think about it another way, and people will envy you.

The so-called people go to a high place, of course, people yearn for a good life, but compared to it, they are now useless...

It's normal, it's okay, this feeling often comes when you're feeling down, so ... That's what you're talking about ... Hope.

Because happiness is only seen when you are troubled!

Seeing only others often ignores what they have, perhaps this is the weakness of human nature.

The scenery we often see is: a person always looks up to and envy the happiness of others, and when he looks back, he finds that he is being looked up to and envied.

Happiness can be seen by others, but tears are one's own.

1.Standing in the midst of troubles and looking up to happiness, a person is always looking up and envying the happiness of others.

2.I don't know how to mess up my reputation during this time, and I'm so annoyed. It's the same life every day, really, sometimes it's boring.

3.First it is love that makes you forget time, and then it is time that makes you forget love.

4.Despite all the elaborate plans I devised to hide my diary, I was worried that one day I would be too engrossed in writing, and when I looked up, I saw my father's angry, cold face.

5.But all of this is sometimes very annoying, every day's routine, every day around the child, every day living the same life, sometimes quarreling with him because of a little thing, for family trivialities, for children, for other things, in short, a lot.

6.I caught up with the football, no matter what it was, I raised my leg with a kick, and the football flew out, and then I heard a "bang", and I knew that I was in trouble again.

7.Why are there so many troubles in people's lives, so much unhappiness accompanied by Qin, even I can't tell why, really, sometimes I feel that people are very tired and confused in this world.

8.When all this happened to me, I felt very vulnerable, but I didn't want to say it, and buried everything in my heart, so I felt bored even myself, no wonder there were so many troubles, hey......

9.But seeing the rings of life makes me very anxious, and I want people to help me share it, because everyone has their own things, and I don't want to add trouble to the people around me. Thankfully, my current job gives me no time to think about these unhappy things.

Although the unhappiness still pops up occasionally, but fortunately, it is only a matter of thought.

Mader. There are many troubles in life.

The sages said that if you calm your mind and don't think about anything, you will have no troubles. The words of the sages are like stones thrown into the water, and after the sentient beings hear a muffled sound of "coo", their troubles ripple again, and they emerge endlessly.

Xingheng Yin Shifu is always around others, and his troubles are always entangled in his heart. This is most people's understanding of happiness and trouble. Poor students think that they can have no worries if they get a high score in the exam, and poor people think that they can get happiness if they have money.

As a result, those who have troubles are still difficult to dispel, and those who are unhappy are still hard to be happy.

Troubles are always the fate of those who are looking for happiness.

There are two types of people who are looking for happiness.

One is like mountaineering, they think that the greatest happiness in life is at the top of the mountain, so they are out of breath and spend their whole lives climbing it. In the end, they found that they would never reach the top, and they could not see the end. They don't know that the mountain of happiness has no top or head.

The other type is also like mountaineering, but they don't deliberately climb the **. Along the way, stop and stop, look at the mountains, enjoy the rainbow, blow the breeze, and get some kind of satisfaction in relaxation. Although it is not a great pleasure, however, these trivial and subtle little freedoms linger in the heart, fragrant body and mind, and tranquil self.

For the soul, if a person struggles for a lifetime, if he can finally earn a happy life, he has realized the greatest value of life.

Some people are happy but look troubled; There are people who should be troubled, but they seem to be happy. Defeated.

People who live in confusion are easy to be happy; People who live soberly are prone to trouble. This is because sober people see too really, and when they compare it with it, they will have troubles all over their lives; And the foolish people have less care, although they live a simple and rough life, but they have found the great realm of life.

Therefore, the troubles of life are self-inflicted. It's not that trouble can't leave you, it's that you can't leave it behind.

This world, why are there troubled people.

For power, for money, for fame, for profit......Everyone is in a hurry, carrying a heavy bag on their backs, and the more they load, the more they are involved.

Almost all of us are chasing happiness in life. However, just like Bian Zhilin's "Broken Chapters", the scenery we often see is: a person is always looking up and envy the happiness of others, but when he turns around, he finds that he is being looked up to and envied by others.

Actually, everyone is happy. It's just that your happiness is often in the eyes of others.

1. Directly point out the central idea of this article.

2. Figurative argumentation.

3. This is because sober people see too really, and when they compare it with it, they will have troubles all over the place; And the foolish people have less care, although they live a simple and rough life, but they have found the great realm of life.

4. The author argues from different angles that "life's troubles are self-inflicted." It's not that trouble can't leave you, it's that you can't leave it behind. I want to tell people that "in fact, everyone is happy." It's just that your happiness is often in the eyes of others. ”