What is it like to be away from work for a long time?

Without a strong enough psyche, it's better not to skip work. Patients with obsessive-compulsive disorder and anxiety disorder originally wanted to say that they could go to work after recuperating at home for a year and a half. I felt like my anxiety was getting worse and worse, and every time I mustered up the courage to go to an interview, I was always nervous and insomnia the night before.

This is the kind of extremely ambivalent psychology, obviously very anxious that I didn't go to work, but because I haven't been to work for more than a year, I am a little out of touch with society. Friends with anxiety disorders know that this anticipatory anxiety can make you feel like you don't have enough to go to work to support yourself. So every day I am anxious before going to bed, and I am also anxious when I get up, and my body is getting weaker and weaker.

I regret that I didn't go to work as soon as I graduated, and the experience of more than a year really made my anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder worse, and my relatives and friends sarcastically ridiculed me for not going to work. Every time I have a family party for the New Year, I hear a group of people say that their children are working in ** and how much their annual salary is, which is extremely embarrassing. Therefore, if you are not strong enough in your heart and do not have your own plan, it is recommended not to go to work for a long time.

Even if you don't go to work, you have to enrich yourself.

After graduating from university, I worked in my original unit for eight years, and now I have resigned for six months. There are many reasons for resignation, thinking that my husband's small factory can maintain our lives, but only a few days after resigning, affected by environmental protection policies, the factory's income has plummeted to below the minimum living line, and the desire to warm up, that is, the deepest feeling after resignation is poverty. Because it is difficult to accept the gap, I am reluctant to go to a few jobs after interviewing, and I have no good projects to start my own business, and I am very bored every day except for picking up and dropping off my children to and from school.

I have read books, painted to pass the time, and then watched dramas, partyed with unemployed friends, and shopped, and the more these activities were, the more empty I felt. If you don't go to work, if you have other things to do, and you don't lack money, of course it's good, I believe that there is no one who can't go to work, but if you're like me, the future is unknown, the economy is not guaranteed, and it's really a disaster to quit naked.

Ordinary family, average talent, second-tier city. Before I knew it, I had been freelancing for almost three years. It's getting more and more homely, but you don't have to get up early to go to work if you're in a good mood.

So sometimes I sleep late. Self-control is average. Going to work is an illusory sense of security.

The most important thing is the growth of one's own professional ability. There is only one life in life, and after middle age, you will let yourself go. It's impossible to do badly at work, and suddenly become famous after freelancing.

I chose not to go to work because of the accumulation of the previous fifteen years of work.

From January to now, the middle school has not been to the internship for four months, and now it has also graduated. I don't have to worry about eating and drinking at home every day, but I am disgusted by my mother, and now I come to live in a friend's rented room, my friend works during the day, and I play games at home every day to see Zhihu. Until I saw this question on Zhihu, I wrote the first one on Zhihu.

When I was in school, I was always the active and serious one in the class, I always tried to solve everything I encountered, and I encouraged everyone to participate in good activities, I was very motivated, and I was a model among my classmates, which can be compared to ...... nowIn fact, during this period, I thought countless times that it was time to study, and I couldn't waste too much time, but I still played the game and swiped my phone to let the time pass by minute by second, and it ......was terrible to have no self-controlI had an exam in October, and if I passed it, I got a job. Writing about this hope is a sign of the end of such a decadent day. Come on!

It's been 20 years since I was born, and I've never gone to work, and my income is to be an anchor. I haven't experienced the life of going to work, and I don't seem to have the experience of not being able to go to work. I just feel that life is very free, time is very free, I can travel at any time, and I can go to my destination at night if I have the idea of going out in the morning.

Sometimes I yearn for 9 to 5, and sometimes I want to wander the world with a live broadcast.

I don't know if my situation counts, I haven't gone out to work since I quit my job to write a book full-time two years ago, and over time I'm not used to working from 9 to 5 with institutional constraints. The biggest experience is to be out of touch with society, staying at home in addition to writing is to travel to see crayons Xiaoxin more and more like a child, this feeling is very inappropriate.

I feel that life is very boring, every day is mediocre, but it is better when I have work, it is very fulfilling, and it will not be boring.

I didn't have a job for more than half a year. He resigned at the end of December last year, and in the first half of this year, he was preparing for the public recruitment of teachers, but he was still ...... one point away from the examinationWhen I go back to my hometown during the summer vacation, I have some things to deal with at home. From mid-August to now, I have been wandering around starting my own business and looking for a job.

During this period, it was painful to repeatedly experience hope and self-denial! Now that I'm going to compromise, I'm probably still more suitable for work, and I won't think about taking the public recruitment exam or starting a business anymore! There is an idol tour this Sunday, and after buying a ticket, it will be regarded as the last indulgence.

Submit your resume next week and work wholeheartedly!

I know this feeling too well, it's very bad, the emptiness is empty, the mentality is broken, and of course everything is caused by lack of money, so you have to work.

First, the heart holds the spring and rises in panic. Seeing his peers around him busy making money every day, but he was eating at home and waiting for death, he felt an inexplicable sense of depression in his heart, and his heart was very panicked.

Second, lack of money, the kind that is very lacking. The money in Alipay and even WeChat Pay is decreasing every day, but I have not been able to find a job - the biggest motivation every day should be to live. When you don't go to work all the time, you have the feeling that you are flustered and feel that the world has nothing to do with you.

Going to work is actually a compulsive social activity. It forces you to integrate into society, into the crowd, into the circle. When you turn your hobby into a job that supports your life, the hobby can make you a little miserable.

Because the mentality has completely changed, from a light cloud to a loss of gains. Of course, there are also benefits: sleeping until you wake up naturally every day, ** is much better, but you are a lot more anxious, and some friends say that you have "changed".

During this old period of time, my temper has become bad, I can be scared when I want, and I will break off my friendship with whoever I want - but I know very well in my heart that I have not changed, and my personality has always been like this, which is just the sequelae of not working for a long time.

3. Living in his own world every day, he constantly wants to mention his fighting spirit and spirit, but in the end, he is suddenly overthrown by the "self-scumbag I comfort" that suddenly pops up in his heart, and he is ruthlessly overthrown, like a walking corpse, and even a pair of skins are left.

Job.

Don't think that you will be happy and relaxed if you don't go to work all the time, on the contrary, it is actually very unhappy, and it feels like the whole person is going to be wasted. Becoming very anxious, sensitive, becoming more and more inferior, emotionally fluctuating, unable to see hope for the future, and even hopeless. Anyway, some negative adjectives you can think of are very suitable for me now.

After such a long time, I feel bored. It's really boring to repeat the same thing every day, and it's really boring to have nothing to do, and it feels like life is not fun.

There are only a few software that swipe back and forth on the phone. I chased the same TV series seven or eight times over and over again, and I memorized the lines very well.

Seeing this, are you envious or worried about Changqin?

I think most people will be envious at first, but later it will turn into worry. Therefore, for those friends who have been idle at home for a long time, I also recommend that you can maintain a certain amount of social interaction, and don't close yourself off.

I can't stand it when I don't go to work all the time, but what I feel is also different from person to person:

First, if you don't go to work all the time, stay at home or play outside every day, then it will definitely be very empty. At first, you may feel very fresh, but as time goes by, an inexplicable feeling of emptiness will come to your heart, after all, you don't go to work every day. The absence of an economy is also a very painful thing.

Second, some people are lively and cheerful, with a peaceful mind. I feel very relaxed and cool when I don't go to work all the time. Sleep until you wake up naturally every day, stay at home if you want to stay at home, read a book if you want to read, go to the park for a walk, climb the mountain if you want to climb the mountain, and gather together when you want to get together with friends, which is a feeling of freedom and freedom.

Third, some people feel empty when they don't go to work all the time, because they have nothing to do and are idle. Playing poker, playing mahjong, being coaxed by this, being deceived by that, quarreling with neighbors today, scolding neighbors tomorrow and searching the street, in short, troubles constantly. It's quite free to see, but it's actually uncomfortable, which feels quite aggrieved, and everyone feels different.

I have been working hard, becoming very anxious, sensitive, becoming more and more inferior, emotionally fluctuating, becoming less social, not even liking to talk to people, and even becoming more and more obsessed with such an old manuscript life is really boring.

If you don't go to work for a long time, you will become more and more lazy, and your life will be boring, I have also tried to serve my relatives for several years without going to work, and finally I don't want to do anything anymore, and I don't want to do it, I am groggy all day long, I always feel that my life is not solid at all, in addition to playing with my mobile phone is to stay at home and play on the computer, all my friends around me have jobs, only I have nothing to do every day, just like selling high mixed days and waiting for death, find a class, at least let life be more old, I talk and laugh with my colleagues, and I don't think about anything else when I have a job, at least I don't have time to think about those messy things.

I haven't been working for 2 years, and I feel like I'm going to waste my time, even though it's a waste of time to work. But at least I have the money to take, and now I sit and eat empty like a boy, but there is also an advantage, that is, I can think. That's where it comes in.

I've been playing games for the first half of the year, and then I found out that it didn't work, so I uninstalled Qi Juan, and **, back and forth, and finally quit. Now that my life is gradually getting better, I also have goals, and in the future, I will fulfill my goals and live the boring life I want. If I had gone to work, I might not have changed much now, just a little more money.

I don't go to work all the time, and I feel very relaxed, but I don't think I have a sense of accomplishment in a hail state, but I feel that I may be a little decadent. I am too free, and there is no hidden source of motivation in my spirit.

At the beginning, I was very happy not to go to work, I will feel very refreshed, I can sleep until I wake up naturally, and I can play until I am tired, and I don't want to play, and I will be a little anxious after a long time.

If you don't go to work all the time, you will feel very cool at the beginning, and you will feel very free in the early days, but after a long time, you will not feel your own value, you will be very empty, and you will be very anxious and afraid, so not going to work all the time may not be as good as Wu Bi has the failure we imagined.

The thought of not going to work all the time is YYDS, of course, the non-work is not to say that there is no income, this is not to sit every day to travel to the Royal University and can obtain certain benefits, this is flexible employment. Speaking of flexible employment, the first thing that comes to mind is the direction of live broadcasting, self-a**, etc., of course, this is a direction, but here I recommend IT and Internet flexible employment, this kind of time is not only very free, and as long as their technology is hard enough, they will get a very, very high premium for work, and this is a good thing, you only need to focus on the field where you are erected, and you don't have to worry too much about other problems.

Flustered. It seems to have hollow heart disease.

People must always have some "sense of social identity" in the world, which is a model in addition to food, clothing, housing and transportation.

Work is the easiest way to gain a sense of "social identity", and if you don't, you will need freelance work to fill in the dust.

It's really happy, but it's boring, and in the end, it's helpless without money.

1: As an adult, I think it's still necessary to go to work, even if it's not for material needs.

First of all, this work is work in the broad sense, not sitting in the narrow sense. For example, you are a freelance writer, artist, creator, professional shareholder, etc. Although it is not a sitting shift, it can still be counted as going to work.

Secondly, this job also includes being a professional investor and other similar very free industries.

2: In the final analysis, the meaning of going to work is to have something to do, a goal, and a pursuit, rather than idleness, wasting time, and killing time. Not going to work, unable to maintain a mental state.

3: A very significant point, most of the elderly after retirement and before retirement, there is a huge difference. It is mainly reflected in speech and behavior and clothing, speaking without careful consideration and doing what you want, all kinds of bad problems that were previously controlled broke out in an all-round way, dressing is no longer exquisite, and personal hygiene is not very careful!

Why is that? Because of the lack of constraints.

4: And the meaning of going to work is that you have to deal with other people. As long as you deal with each other, you will pay attention to your speech and demeanor, and wear clothes and hats. Because, it represents your image, your taste.

For most people, going to work is a reluctant, hard job, but in reality, it is we who need to work, not that work needs us. If a person does not go to work for a long time, there will be some changes in his psychological environment, his social circle will shrink, there will be no colleagues, no partners, and the general social needs of the day may not be met.