Zhihu Why is it not recommended to find an older leftover girl

Personally, I don't think this is understandable, why not recommend looking for older leftover women? Then first of all, we must understand why this person became an older leftover woman.

Generally, most people who become older leftover women are either not particularly good in the past, or relatively arrogant, or particularly excellent, but there are still very few who are particularly good, and most of them are the first two.

Secondly, you must understand that older leftover women are more picky about life, their spouses, and all aspects, so this may be more powerful when you go to Liansheng to live with her, and his life will be more depressing.

Personally, I think that older leftover women are general, either because of the ideological conditions, and other people think differently than normal people, they think more, or they have to choose too much, so when they are old, they are like this, their personalities are comparative, withdrawn and unsociable, think about it, at such an old age, they are not married, there must be many, many reasons, so it is best not to look for this.

Most of the older leftover women are left behind because of their high requirements. Their own conditions are also good, and they feel that it is not good to find a man to live in the future. It's better to be single, and you may be more independent in all aspects of your personality and used to being alone, so you may not be so dependent on men when you get along.

Because the requirements for older leftover women are too high, coupled with their unique taste, many men do not recommend everyone to find older leftover women inside.

Older young women still stick to their principles and wait for your ideal Prince Charming. Don't harm the young people who are younger than you, thank you very much.

There are many older leftover women who have very good conditions, decent jobs and social status, and more importantly, they have a lot of income, it's not that they don't want to marry, but they don't wait for the person who is worthy, and they don't want to give up. They all understand that a low-quality marriage is not as good as a high-quality single. Unless a man's income and education are higher than her, or he has the advantage of good looks and high emotional intelligence, the result is that many women are left.

Therefore, unless women are made to realize that marriage and having children are also their own needs, not just for men, this phenomenon will inevitably persist for a long time. Therefore, older leftover women are more prominent in social groups.

Choosing marriage is one of the many choices, different ages also have different ideas, when you are young, you may have the idea of marriage, as you get older, this idea slowly becomes indifferent, which is also very normal, there is no direct connection between marriage and whether life is happy. Whether to get married or not is a personal freedom, the rest of the men blame themselves for not having the ability, and the rest of the women are too picky! In fact, it is relatively one-sided, in my heart, I feel that it is a way of life for others, which is understandable.

Take the path you choose yourself. It's just that over the years, I have faced a lot of single women, often with good careers, and their looks are often more than seventy or eighty, and at that age, it is really difficult to find the right person.

I already knew that the concept of strong men and weak women in traditional culture is still very deep, and in turn, it is not acceptable to everyone. And it's hard to stabilize. I don't know much about what they really think, but I think I can face life very calmly less than halfway.

They are more selective and selective about the other half of the choices. He knew very well what kind of life he wanted. If he likes you, you like him too.

Everyone doesn't mind living together. Then there is no need to say that older ladies are bad. Because she also has a certain amount of ups and downs and unknown sadness in the process of pursuing her own happiness.

At the same time, I also missed the opportunity to spend time with you.

I don't think this matter is very reasonable, there is prejudice, and older leftover women should not be discriminated against, they also have the right to be loved, and they should also get love.

I think that kind of statement will cause a certain amount of harm to women, and a lot of girls are not like this.

It is very difficult to understand, although these girls are older, but their quality is better in all aspects, and this concept of mate selection is particularly unreasonable.