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The straightforward, effective wording you said is really good. This shows that you are demanding of yourself! The so-called calmness depends on the strong world in your heart, when you hope or care too much, the more you are afraid that there will be problems in your interactions with others, and it will inevitably be nervous or cramped.

Therefore, when interacting with people, we should treat people with a peaceful attitude, and we will naturally be calm. Effective communication is the effect you want to achieve when you interact or talk to people. As long as you grasp the key to the problem and effectively guide the problem to depth, your conversation is a way to communicate.

The so-called generosity is a manifestation of your interaction with others, in fact, it is also a manifestation of your self-confidence. Talk to your leader Maybe you think about the result of the conversation, so that you are a little worried, or talk to your friends of the opposite sex, it is because you care too much about the outcome of the conversation, so you will be nervous, it is recommended that you relax, no matter who you are, rich or poor, or high or low status, remember that he is a human being, and it is inevitable that people will have weaknesses in human nature, so you don't have to be nervous, fully show your best side, which is your generosity and momentum. Whether it is cold or not, it depends on your knowledge and insight, and more importantly, on your grasp of the situation at that time.

First of all, you should train yourself to be calm in any situation, to radiate a peaceful energy from the inside out, and to feel comfortable and relaxed even when the people around you have nothing to say.

First talk to people you are more familiar with, talk more, and talk more about your own opinions;

Once you have confidence, find someone you don't know so well.

After such training, it is not difficult to become a hero.

Most people have such a situation...I suggest you enrich your knowledge, look at all fields, what entertainment, real-time politics, etc....If you have more knowledge, you won't be afraid of having nothing to say, because people's preferences are different, so enriching your knowledge and experience is the most important thing....First of all, when someone says a problem, you have to have your own opinion and be able to analyze and comment on it....And the conversation is also to pay attention to the method, the improper method will make others disgusted, when talking, you must pay attention to the feelings of others, remember to be arrogant....Be sure to be humble....Even if what others say is wrong, you have to pay attention to the method....

Practice communicating with people, you talk to your parents, ask what you want, it's relaxing, say whatever you want.

What do you like to face, if you like to face animals, of course they are cute pets.

What is very important in communicating with people is how much knowledge you have stored and what you know about the things around you. Such as work, economy, market, news, food, scenery, sports, etc. Because with in-depth knowledge, you can definitely find topics that interest the other party.

But you need to understand your interests, hobbies, and work first. If the first conversation is to talk about topics that everyone is interested in, such as the current housing prices, prices, and the military.

Of course, it's to find a topic that the other party is interested in, or a topic that sticks to life, everyone's interests are different, as long as you catch the other party's interest, how can you not talk about it?

Let's talk about life, say some interesting things in your memory, if you really don't have it, just make it up, hehe.

You just said the weather was nice todayCheck it out, I'm here for the first time, too.

It doesn't matter, don't take it too seriously, the more you care, the more deliberate. The means of communication are all practiced.

If you say it's not good, listen more carefully, and when others ask for your opinion, you can first say "I'm a bit straight" and then speak slowly, so that the other party can have a psychological preparation first, and also pave the way for you to say the wrong thing.

When communicating with people, at the beginning, you should think more about what others are saying. It's okay, what's wrong with being upright, there are too many sleek people in this society, that's why it's so hypocritical. Sticking to your own good quality is like a piece of jade that is not in good shape, and a little carving is fine.

You don't have to say no.

Learn to chase girls first, and slowly hone your eloquence.

Well, it doesn't matter, as long as you do it, you say it, that's all that matters.

It's really tough If you want to look at that girl in what tone she said to you If people politely let you get up Hum To put it bluntly, your girlfriend owes a beating.

I don't know how your Excellency is, if you don't have your girlfriend murderous, later. Narrow pass.

Very ......Terrible schoolgirl !!

Good luck!

You still dare to ask for such a woman, be careful that one day you do something wrong and do you.

I think I should think about whether I can be an open-minded person. Tolerant of people, cheerful personality, don't twist and pinch when things happen, for example, if a friend makes fun of you and a certain woman, I will argue about anything, and I will not explain anything, just smile indifferently. I am not afraid of crooked shoes, managing others, gossiping, I don't do things that gossip can control.

What kind of person you want to be, you have to start from the heart, and you can't make a surface.

In fact, it's good to communicate with friends of the opposite sex around you After all, some on-the-spot play and feelings can't be learned by reading books

And I want to say more, probably the landlord has never met the right person, and when he met the opposite sex with a magnetic field, she will be attracted to you without talking.

In fact, a short cold scene is good, but I think you also need to exercise, and you can contact more friends of the opposite sex around you, and you don't have to go to the bookstore to buy any books to read, and it is estimated that there are no such books.

"Men come to Venus, women come to Mars" This book is recommended by foreign psychologists for those who are emotionally frustrated.

Just because you failed on a blind date doesn't mean you've failed

Keep up the good work

There may be multiple possibilities to go in a hurry, and there may be something really going on.

Maybe the other party didn't want to go on a blind date in the first place