How to develop one s oral and communication skills?

The old man on the 1st floor, I have benefited a lot from saying so much Thank you!! In front of you, the landlord's question, I'm not qualified to come, hehe!! Like you said, I think first of all, we should practice a kind of indifferent fear, that is the most important, no matter who we meet, we must learn to be able to fit in, so that he feels very close to us, for strangers, we can say some recent news, interesting conversations and so on, if it is for people we are familiar with, then we should talk about topics that we both know, do you think I deal with it like this, right?

Grandpa on the 1st floor, help me answer it too!!

Hello, glad to have your question.

I want to exercise my eloquence, speech skills, and communication skills.

These works you can try:

The first: sales work, often deal with strangers, and you are not afraid of getting in the way of face, even if you make a mistake, you can change it.

Eloquence, when dealing with customers, in fact, now as long as you have a warm heart, can analyze the type of customer, know her hobbies, this is more important than eloquence, sincerely help customers solve her practical problems, help her solve her worries.

Sometimes, one correct action is more useful than saying 20 words to you.

Of course, eloquence, it is recommended that you read more books on emotional intelligence, talking sales, and the performance will be higher than others.

Second, speaking of words, this word is aimed at the crowd, such as you do insurance recommendations, milk stores, and optical shops that correct children, which can help you improve the close proximity between you and customers, communication, and the words must be to chat more with customers, ask more questions, you will be able to understand her needs when you go to me, you remember that the customer's needs are greater than everything, listen to her ideas, and then consider how to recommend, so that the communication ability will improve day by day, and the smile is very sincere, not a fake smile communication.

I believe that these boys I recommend will be able to help you stay in time, and I hope you have good eloquence, warm-hearted and emotionally intelligent communication, and all your words will be recognized by customers.

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The customer service of a major Internet company can learn the language of high emotional intelligence expression in communication with customers.

Sales, clothing store shopping guide, this is also quite exercised, need to communicate with people throughout the process to introduce the characteristics and advantages of the clothing in the store Zhilao Bend, at first is not afraid to talk to the guests, over time slowly familiar with the process of work and understand the clothes in the store, began to boldly introduce communication and recommendation to the guests, sometimes or to break through themselves, learn more, although not good at, boring but willing to change themselves, there will be a breakthrough.

Make a little black spot online. Or use Honor of Kings to communicate with your teammates.

Here's how to exercise your eloquence and language skills:

1. Observe the things around you, describe everything you see at a very fast speed, say as much as possible, and say everything you think of quickly.

2. Find the speeches of celebrities on the Internet, first see how others speak, and then choose what suits you to study.

3. Find a crowded occasion and an opportunity to give a speech on stage, the quickest way is to make a guest appearance as a host, or open a live broadcast room by yourself, as the number of fans increases, the stronger your confidence in eloquence.

5. When you are nervous to speak, try to relax yourself. Take a deep breath to calm your breath and speak relaxed and responsive.

6. Eloquence training is a process of accumulation, and no obvious effect will be seen in a short period of time, the process from quantitative change to qualitative change is long.

Ways to practice eloquence and expression skills: 1. Face the mirror every day, talk to yourself, practice repeatedly, sometimes you will be nervous when talking to others, and you will not be nervous when you talk to yourself. After thinking about something thoroughly, it will definitely be okay to express it slowly, step by step.

2. Read more books, and when you have nothing to do, you can read more celebrity biographies, articles, wonderful speeches, American sentences, etc. After a large amount of accumulation, your ability to express yourself will be significantly improved unconsciously. Only accumulation is far from enough, but also need to be diligent and active, which requires us to talk more and write more.

Thinking also plays a primary role in the ability to express. Whenever you talk to others, or after writing on your own, you should take some time to think about what you say or what you have written, and summarize the advantages and disadvantages. 3. Make an outline before speaking or writing.

Whether it's writing an article or giving a speech, be sure to make an outline beforehand. The outline is the trunk of the tree, and then you can add branches and leaves. With an outline, the context of the speech will be clear, and with a little argument to support it, it will be a very wonderful speech.

Be confident. If you don't have self-confidence, you will be flustered when you speak, and even nervous to the point of sweating, shaking, and blank minds. So, it's very important to be confident.

5. Practice diligently. The ancients practiced art without leaving their hands and their mouths, and they also practiced a lot if they wanted to improve their expression skills. For example, choose a topic for yourself and practice it secretly in your mind to improve your language organization skills.

1. Read more. Reading can be sensible, and it is impossible for a person to speak philosophical language without a wealth of knowledge, so it is necessary to read as many books as possible, especially books on history, philosophy, and law. 2. Think more.

When encountering problems in daily life, you should be diligent in thinking, be good at summarizing, analyze the reasons for things to happen clearly, and try to analyze the same problem from different angles and different positions. 3. Improve logical ability. One of the most important indicators of good eloquence is to be logical, never speak upside down, and the best way to train yourself is to get used to speaking or speaking in the mode of "first, second and last".

4. Focus on the key points. Don't talk too much nonsense when you speak, so that people don't know what to do, especially in seminars, public places and other places, and the speech is about the main point. 5. Pay attention to the speed of speech.

The so-called good eloquence and expression ability is to let others understand your demands and your opinions, so the faster you speak, the better, sometimes a smooth and calm tone can express your attitude more clearly. 6. Practice more. The way of speaking is not an innate ability, it can be mastered and improved through practice, so don't be afraid, communicate with others more, express your opinions more, and your eloquence will naturally get better and better.