Will the child s obedient behavior suppress his ability to make independent judgments?

I think it will. Parents should not put all their thoughts on their children, in this case, the pressure on children will be greater. Children should also have their own judgment.

Yes. Children who are too well-behaved will have no opinions, and it is easy to form a pleasing child, and they dare not have their own opinions, for fear of offending others.

Yes, because children are too obedient, they will become dependent on their parents, and thus lose the ability to think independently, so they will lose their ability to judge.

Obedient children will be suppressed from their ability to make independent judgments, because children themselves have a lot of imagination, but because parents impose their own ideas on children, they still have a certain impact on children.

Not really. Obedient children may make the final decision to be obedient, but before being obedient, they will still have the ability to make independent judgments and have their own ideas in their hearts, but in the end they will still choose to be obedient and respect the choices of others.

I think it will indeed be, because such a child will slowly lose his opinion.

A well-behaved child will suppress the child's ability to make independent judgments, as long as he tells the child what principles are.

Because the parents did not succeed;

Because parents pass on their own erroneous guiding ideas to their children, causing them to repeat their mistakes.

At the same time, listening to their parents also makes children feel a little useless.

On the contrary, rebellious children dare to pursue, and they often find a lot of problems in their lives.

Experience the society and feel the strong of the jungle in society.

They dare to innovate and take risks.

Because they insist on their own ideas no matter what they do, that is, they are more ambitious than obedient children!

You're talking about me! That's right, when I grew up, when I was forced to adapt to society, I realized how obvious the shortcomings of this education method were.

Let's talk about my thoughts, it's realistic. I also learned my own lessons, I think boys are strict, but not too strict, boys themselves should have their own ideas, this is a must when they grow up, if they are too strict since childhood, just like you said, then too obedient, they will gradually lose their opinions, which is quite unfavorable to the problem of independence when they grow up, everything is to listen to the parents of adults, it feels like everything is arranged with you in advance, and they only need to implement it, and then the dependence will become more and more serious, and even cause social trouble, After a long time, there is naturally a deep pressure and shadow in the heart, and it is not so easy to let go at that time, which is very bad for growth, and it can be said that it is not normal at all...

So I think it's better for girls, because it's not a bad thing for girls to be introverted, but boys really can't be too strict from an early age, and when it's time to let him take the initiative, he still has to let him make his own decisions and cultivate his independence and self-confidence. It's just that the limit of being the master has to be limited by the parents.,Can't be too much.,The truth of being a man still has to be taught.。。。 Guided education cannot be constrained by sex education.

Now my situation is a bit old-fashioned to be honest.,I think so.,It's also because I've been too obedient since I was a child.,I know the truth is not less.,It's just that now when I grow up, I feel that sometimes it's a bit of a problem when I communicate with people.,I feel like I'm afraid of doing something wrong so I don't even have the courage to do it.,Sometimes I can't let go of my happiness when I speak.,And I feel that I feel that I don't feel independent when I graduate.,Sometimes I feel like I have some inferiority complex when I can't take some things.。。。 This is all true, so I don't want the landlord to educate his children like this, such children may grow up to be psychologically good, if not good, there will be great psychological problems, there will be a lot of pressure.

Such a child can't help but think of a falcon. After the hunter catches the eagle, he does not give it food or drink, and when it resists, he hits it on the head and "fan" its wildness and arrogance, until at last, it gives in and obeys, and changes from an eagle that strikes the sky to a falcon that catches rabbits, which cannot but be said to be a kind of sadness.

However, it is a pity that parents still regard such children as obedient and good children, and call the method of cultivating well-behaved children a successful child-teaching program, and compete to follow suit, almost no one thinks that such children are also problematic children, and their psychology is being damaged by parents' wishful thinking of family education.

Provided by Shaanxi Haiersen Psychological Network.

He must have done this because there were people around him who were very strict and let him know that he would get hurt if he said it casually. In fact, the child is very sensitive, you can communicate with him more, talk more and ask why this is happening, the child needs to be close and communicate.

If your child:

1.is very stubborn, loves to lie and does not listen to parents, and is addicted to the Internet;

2.disagrees with your parents, ignores your parents, and doesn't like to do what others say;

3.If the parent tells him the same thing over and over again, it will make him feel bored;

4.Too much destructive behavior, such as tearing books and throwing things when you get angry;

5.Frequent conflicts with other children, easy to do.

Explain that your child may be entering a rebellious period!!

When is the child's rebellious period.

People have three rebellious periods, different rebellious periods, different personality development, psychophysiological development characteristics, and parents should also have different ways of coping.

At the age of 3, the rebellious behavior that occurs is the manifestation of the first rebellious period of life, which is called the "baby rebellious period".

At the age of 8, he came to the second rebellious period of his life, called the "childhood rebellious period".

At the age of 18, it is the third rebellious period in life, which is the most commonly known "adolescent rebellious period".

Developmental characteristics of the child's rebellious period.

Two: He is an explorer who pursues independence.

Three: Become more dependent.

Four: Openly challenge your parents, love to say no.

Five: Thinking that you are the center of the universe.

Psychological reasons for a child's rebellion.

1. I've grown up, I can do it.

2. Why can't I?

3. Test the bottom line of parents.

4. You want to be noticed.

5. I'm expressing my opinion.

Do what you like, the more education and entertainment you have!

Parents should learn to cultivate their children's ability to make independent judgments, not just know how to be obedient Parents should learn to cultivate their children's ability to make independent judgments, not just to be obedient.