What should I do if my child is disobedient and wants to hit him all the time?

My baby is more than a week and six months old, especially naughty, often against you, the more you don't let him do anything, what does he do, comment: can you tell me what you don't let him do?

Sometimes, he still beats people (adults) at every turn, and it hurts very much, and he is always not allowed to fight, he has to fight, comment: just don't let him fight. At the same time, he told him that it was wrong to hit someone. What ideas can be exchanged.

It's good to play with water, dirt and sand, comments: very good. This is good for your child's health.

Some companies specialize in setting up water parks for children to play in the water; Open a children's playground with sand mounds for children to play with. You can also take your children to the beach, where there is water and sand. Your kids probably love the sea.

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Fortunately, climb up and down, comments: Climbing up and down is also a good exercise, which is conducive to the healthy growth of children.

As soon as I can't control him, I want to hit him, comment: What the children you mentioned should be promoted, not to stop the children. You should support his need for healthy growth.

If the child is not doing well, you can persuade the education and not scold. However, from your account, it is not seen that the child did anything wrong.

I know it's not good, but I can't control myself, comment: You have to control yourself. If you can't control yourself, how can you be qualified to educate your child to learn self-management and self-control?

When he is disobedient, sometimes he feels a little heavy, but the child is still disobedient and does not cry, just like it's okay, how can such a child be managed? What am I going to do?

Comment: You should meet all of the above correct requirements for your child. The reasonable requirements for the healthy development of children should not be regarded as "disobedient". If a child does something wrong, he should never be beaten or scolded. Only educates can be convinced.

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Some children are very disobedient and will always cry, and at this time, the mood of parents is also very bad, and there may be a desire to hit the child, which is very wrong. If we always use this method to educate our children, it will also lead to children becoming more and more rebellious.

In fact, many children don't know how to express their emotions when they are young, so they will cry to tell their parents. What I think now, then, at this time, parents feel that their children often cry, always crying, and will always make parents feel very broken. At this time, I can coax the child, and if the child is younger, then we can rest assured.

Because when the child is young, crying is also a manifestation of the child's health, if the child does not cry, it may be that the child's body has some accidents, so at this time, parents, you don't have to worry, you should maintain a stable state of mind.

If the mother is taking care of the child and the child is always crying, then when we try to break down emotionally, we can let the father take care of the child, so that the child is crying, and the mother is out of sight and out of mind, and there will be no such idea of wanting to hit the child. And we also have to think about it, it is normal for children to cry. Don't always beat the child, otherwise, it will cause some harm to the child, and the child can understand some reasoning after the age of two, so we should reason with the child at this time.

I think at this time, you should calm yourself down, stay away from your child, and then come back to communicate with your child and calm your child's emotions after venting your emotions or being affected by your own emotions.

To relieve your emotions, when you are particularly angry, you should choose to take a deep breath, so that you can get a good state of mind and not let yourself get angry with your child.

In this case, you should be a little patient, you can do it and take a deep breath, or you can hint to yourself in your heart. You need to be gentle and patient, and you must not hit your child directly.

First of all, sanity is very important. After all, stick education does not do any good to children, it will only distance children, reduce children's self-esteem, and even make children become cruel and learn to lie.

Secondly, the purpose of parent education should not be to make children listen to you, but to make them a person with a sound personality. So when the thought of "I'm going to hit you" comes up, take a deep breath to calm down, then try to understand the reason behind the thing that makes you angry, check if there are too high expectations of your child in your thoughts, and finally try to communicate with your child in a conversational way.

Proper education allows children to understand what they should and should not do, but do not scold in public or in front of outsiders, it will cause harm to the child's mind.

This is normal, but it is better not to do this, and not to move your mouth.